Minnesota

I would ask TER to change my handle! [eom]
making a plan 2488 reads
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1 / 7

last night a screaming woman called me on my hobby phone.  She called me my TER handle, some insults, and stuff, half of it was off.  whast interesting is that there are only two or most 3 people who could put that together.

FYI this is what I can tell:
mid 30s, US born, high school or some college, smoker, midwestern?, unhappily married or divorced, probably grown children, a provider or ex-provider who hates it.  Maybe she'll call me again and tell me if I'm right.

Easy enough to dump the phone and get a new handle and even hobby in different city if I have to.

If you had a pretty good idea who it was, what would you do next?

TCButtman 1974 reads
posted
2 / 7

never give your handle away again and besides that I hope she doesnt have your real info.

Mr.Info_Wannabe 2025 reads
posted
3 / 7

I'm not catching why she'd call angry in the first place.  Was it from a review? Something you said on this board?

Anyway, good idea to change things out.

ez-does-it 2105 reads
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4 / 7
Ben Dover 2019 reads
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5 / 7

I have had several angry contacts and threats over time, and often what the lady (or the guy calling for the lady)forgets is I know WAY WAY more about them than they know about me!
 I have never been contacted by any reputable providers or agencies, and I think it's rare that that type of thing happens with true pros,,, But in the market of line ad hustlers that I prefer, it's kinda common! Most girls don't contact my hobby phones to make trouble, most are looking for some extra cash, but occationally I get some nasty and threatening calls (most threats come to me by email though - lol!)
 Ask yourself this,,, What do providers do when they get a crazed, harrassing client? And how do they protect themselves and the intrest of their peers? THEY TELL EVERYONE THEY KNOW!!  So that's what I recomend you do, PM me and any other guys you trust and tell us what you know. Nobody is going to complain about getting an FYI warning PM, right? We can all compare nots back-channel and spread the word.
 As far as your TER handle, if she can't put it with your true identity, then just keep posting as normal, it all depends on how "out there" your name is.

Good day/ Bad day 1841 reads
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6 / 7

My 2 cents worth is most ladies won't take a call from a blocked # so they can easily get your #. If a review was submitted if there is any personal "touches" that were specific to your date she will recognize that also. Whala phone number and TER handle. I of course don't know what was said on either side but in most cases "treat" them the good and it is recipracated. I also agree the phone # and TER handle together shouldn't be a huge deal (probably happens all the time behind the scenes). Other personal info means "TROUBLE Will Robinson" 1 last thing I find it interesting that you say it could only be 1 of 3 people but based on your discreption it seems like you really have it narrowed down to 1.

making a plan 2653 reads
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7 / 7

so here are two more things (I think I'll be an FBI profiler when I grow up)

she's done this before to other hobbyists -- she was very familiar with what she was doing.

and thoughh she blocked her number, sometimes there are ways of getting at these things.... my tech wiz says the last 4 digits are 2211.  If that's right then she and I both know the other 6.

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