I read Kristin's ad below and was wondering what happened last week. I called you, set up an appointment, and drove across town just to be left hanging when you wouldn't answer your phone.
I have a 2 plus hour drive to the cities as it is without wasting time chasing my tail in heavy traffic.

I had been really looking forward to seeing you and I still may like that opportunity. Just wondering why, if you are looking for regulars, you would pull a stunt like that.

Sincerely
2late

I have run into similar issues with her.  Luckily, no time has been wasted since the drive was so close.
Has been very tough to reach ... I try once every couple weeks, but no luck.  Set something up for later that day once, but no answer or return call as we got closer to appt time.  I'm guessing a regular scheduled over my time, but not sure.
While I should be frustrated, I am sure she has her reasons and I respect that ... plus, I met some others that were awesome that I probably wouldn't have otherwise called.

Ms Kristin apparantly has a history of NCNS(based upon what I've read here).

That said, WHY on earth would you even CONSIDER trying again after that!?

She isn't that hot that guys should continue to let her treat them with such disrespect!

Disrespect is EXACTLY what it is. If she feels uncomfortable or changes her mind(for whatever reason)a courtesy call is not too much to ask.

Better have a backup plan if you try to see her because it doesn't sound like she's getting better at it.

ain't a chick that's come on this board hot enough to justify putting up with that shit. A 2 hour drive? pfffft. Just 1 small fish in a vast ocean, fuck 'er.

I am pretty sure I won't try again. I actually wanted to see what her response would be if I left the door open a little.

I've stayed away from her.  She sounds like a total flake.  She doesn't sound all that intelligent either.

Nobdy not named Gianna Michaels is hot enough for that.

Hotter ladies than Kristin have no problem exhibiting a little courtesy and professionalism.

If the girl hates her job, she should find another one, not take it out on prospective clients.  Maybe she'll figure that out eventually.

. . . and I'd bet you won't be the last.  When this subject came up before I struck her off my to do list.  Pity.  Nice pictures and decent reviews from people who actually saw her.

NCNS once and I'll never come back.  I drive sometimes over 300 miles and am never, and I mean never late.  This I do out of respect-I deserve the same.

The Funny Thing to All THis is!!! Everytime My name Gets Brought Up Everyone Has A lot to Say about tHe WONDERFUL MS.Kristin. Sorry To have everyone's Boxers in a Bunch! I do and Did apologize to 2late And Sorry That wasn't Good Enough But all You others Are just Saying The same thing You said the Last time Someone Put up an NCNS for Me. Now I can Relate if I have Done it to you RESENTLY for you to Have a Couple Words For me But The past Is the Past and it has Been a long Time since This Has Happened TO Any of my Clients. What I don't Appreciate is Every time Someone says Something Guys always Puts there 2 Cents in and Has to say "Shes Ugly, Shes really Not that Cute or She Sounds Dumb to me" All them Side Comments Can be Kept to yourself in my Opinion. Stay on the Subject of NCNS and this wouldnt always turn so Ugly. If I stood You Up I do apologizes I am a Very Busy Girl and Also Get stood Up a lot So I seem to double Book and It usual Seems to work. Like I stated Before My apologizes to all Who Have Been Screwed out the Deal But Once again.....

When I get Stood Up I don't Call ya back and call you names or say anything bad to your wife's or Posting your Name on the Board so How come every time You guys get the chance your Bashing me? That's my only Question?

And For those Who Hate ME lol. Just Leave me alone and Let my Life Move on Don'T Bring Me Down every F*cking Chance you Get its Getting Really Old.

For THose who still want to give me a chance to show you I am the Girl to Pick Even tho Some people Could tell you something Different!!! Give me a call And Lets get the Party Started

...but check out that spelling and grammar!!  WOW!  An English teacher's nightmare, that was.  

Your "apologizes" to people?
"All them Side Comments", "Guys always Puts there 2 Cents"?  .....the HELL?!

I'd really love to give you the benefit of the doubt here and believe that you're just so upset that you can't think straight or you're posting this from your phone.  The latter, to me, would put your caps lock/shift key problem into perspective.

But I'm not so sure.

Now...before you go off on me too, and accuse me of joining the mob or being mean or whatever, (even though I do agree with things some folks have said here, plus one insider's experience with you), let this be food for thought.

I for one, would be inclined to take you WAY more seriously if you put a tad more energy and thought towards proper language use.

I know I'm just pissin' in the wind on that one though, so no pressure.

You owe him an amends. There is a significant difference between the two.

An apology is worthless, especially if the behavior doesn't change as is obviously the case here.


a·mends   /?'m?ndz/

–noun ( used with a singular or plural verb )
1.
reparation or compensation for a loss, damage, or injury of any kind; recompense.
2.
Obsolete . improvement; recovery, as of health.
—Idiom
3.
make amends, to compensate, as for an injury, loss, or insult: I tried to make amends for the misunderstanding by sending her flowers.

Good comments Belinda. Yes I value my time greatly and since I'm a guy who has to drive 2+ hours to hobby, I would not book Kristin now only because of the NCNS issue. I won't take the chance with her, too bad because she does get good reviews and certainly looks hot. I don't want to have a back-up plan either and take up another gals time by cancelling on her. I normally have my dates lined up at least 1 day in advance, but if I were to call and she told me I had to book 2 days from now I would do that...if I knew she would be there for me.

Fantastic response, Belinda.

I am one who has experienced Kristin's discussed lackluster performance in the past. While she did not NCNS on me she did keep me waiting beyond a scheduled time by three hours and repeated delays on top of uninspired performance.

In spite of that, I have noticed that there does seem to be a knee jerk trend of really bashing on her on this board. Yeah, she has problematic performance but do we gents really have to hate on her? There's plenty of gals (and guys) repeatedly guilty of the same offense. Your post was informative, helpful and courteous to a fault. Kristin as well as those that are filled with such extreme vitriol would do well to take your response to heart by trying to fix the bad behavior or simply moving on.

You didn't have to do that.   However, I don't believe you should disrespect them.  They are giving you feedback in an attempt to help you.  I truly believe that.   If they didn't care, they would keep quiet here and BACKCHANNEL you.  Your business would dry up and you would be left to wonder why.  By posting publicly their concerns, they are hoping and praying that you see this, read it, and take it to heart and change the way you operate your business while you still have a chance to redeem yourself.  

No where in these posts did any of these guys say you were ugly or any of that other nonsense you posted.   In fact, they said just the opposite.   What they are saying though is that no matter how pretty you are.......there are other things that are more important.  They invest more than just $$$.  They invest time, which for many of them equates to money.  Time away from work, family, friends.  That is time they are investing in YOU, Kristin.   And, there is value in that time.   Somewhere along the way, you have to realize that.  Two-three hours to get to your location and then you are not there or don't answer the phone??  I am sorry, Kristin, but it is unacceptable.

I have met you, Kristin.  You are a very pretty girl with a hot, young, lithe body.  And, you are super sweet and very very nice.   The guys ADORE all those things about you.   I think you should consider NOT double booking.  If you are as busy as you say and appear to be, you don't need to double book, Kristin!!!!  If you are booked full today, the guys will schedule their date for tomorrow or even the next day.   The ones who matter will, anyway.  And then do you know what will happen........you will get them to repeat.  MANY MANY MANY times.  Because you provide good service while you are with them and you no longer NCNS.    You attend to their needs..........all of their needs, including understanding the value of their time.  

Kristin, the guys were hard on you in this thread.  That is very true.   You can either continue to defend your actions even though you are wrong in this case.  Or you can fix what is wrong, stop double booking (you don't need to), find the value in the men's time, and do what is right!   Swallow your pride, humbly apologize, mean it, and stop NCNS'ng.  You still have time to fix this, Kristin!!

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Guys, I would be interested in your opinions.   If Kristin stopped double booking, and you called her for a date, she said she was booked today but had an opening tomorrow....would you book her for tomorrow?   Or would you move on?  

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Kristin, this message is from the good of my heart....I mean no harm to you!  
Hugs, Belinda

I cannot see how Kristin's post helped her in any way, shape or form.

I will give you credit for admitting that this is actually intentional - you double book to mitigate your risks of getting stood up.  Just goes to show that you are a high volume girl that hates to end up with an open hour in her schedule.  If you were so hot and in demand, you would have mostly regulars that wouldn't dare stand you up.  

So even if you do double book, at least have the fuckin courtesy to call the guy who wasn't lucky enough to show up first and let him know so he isn't waiting around wasting his time.  

Your ads and such claime to be a classy, upscale provider but actions speak louder than words. I have more to say but then I would likely get moderated again.  

One.  

The rest were about you being flaky and NCNSing everyone under the sun because of "Insert reason" for the month.

Flaky: Means on again off again as to if you can be counted on.

You really seem to have a problem with your own intelligence though and bringing that out when 99% of the people here didn't even mention it.

Sounds like you have an issue with that. Not us.

Did she contact you and apologise before you posted this thread?

If she did, how long after your scheduled time was her contact to you made?

Yes, it sucks that you get stood up as well.  No one here is defending that.  But the guy who shows up and is left calling and getting no answer is not guilty of doing anything wrong to you.  If you NCNS guys and then advertise here, expect to see it posted about here and expect to see that your past history of doing so will be brought up every time.  If you want it to end, then don't NCNS.

Could that cost you business?  For a while quite possibly but if you develop a reputation as a quality escort who shows up on time or keeps her clients informed about the (hopefully rare) times you will be late or you can't make it then I am sure you will be as busy as you want to be.  A young hottie who shows her clients a good time and is reliable; well who wouldn't like that?

Belinda gave you some excellent advice; you should really take it.  And even though you don't like some of the other comments, there are some things you can learn from them.  But all that is up to you.

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I understand that a lady is often not going to be available on the date and time I prefer.  I'm very willing to try and work with the lady to set something up at a time that works for both of us but I have limits on my availability as well so it may have to wait until some other day entirely.  So long as I believe the lady is not giving me the run around and is reliable then I'll keep trying even if it takes several failed attempts to set something up before one actually works.

Amen blueboy! A person can get apretty good idea of a person's "smarts" by the way they write and speak.