Gentlemen, can you pretty please PM us before sending a email with just your whitelist handle. Hopefully you understand anyone can give out any TER handle, we must verify your handle. In return you will receive the BEST ..... EVER ! I start dripping wet when screening goes smoothly

How do I get one Nicole?

The idea is that the provider saw the hobbyist and everything went well.

I have seen her a couple times, just haven't gotten around to writing a review. She is a great girl.

I let providers know right up front that I'm Whitelisted and my TER handle.  I've only had one issue. Like Nicole said the provider that had the issue stated that anyone can give a TER handle, but I didn't understand the hesitancy form not accepting the Whitelisting?  To each there own I guess.  I certainly can't fault anyone for being overly cautious.

is to go to 'reviews,' 'search by reviewers,' and type in the gent's email. Less back and forth communication and less work for him. If he used a different e-mail to sign up, that is when PM'ing through the TER system is important. Stay safe, everyone

Like you said, not only can anyone give out a TER handle, but anyone can write a review. There has been LE who write reviews in an attempt to seem legit. I have reviews of myself by people I never even met, but was unable to get them removed. One of these men was whitelisted by a lot of providers. I prefer using services such as P411, RS2K, and Date-Check because it makes screening a breeze. However, I know not everyone is comfortable signing up for these screening services and will accept 2 well-known provider references instead. (They must have reviews, an email address, and a website, not just an ad and phone number). Better to be safe than sorry.

I don't hobby enough to justify continuing P411. I rely on most previous provider and/or White List for verification and will PM a provider to verify I'm who I say I am. I realize that's not enough for some providers, but is enough for many.