what is a highly reviewed, truly  gorgeous, elegant, intelligent, giving and loving courtesan to do?  My goodness...the scorecard is a bit lopsided.  
No shows:  Me=0  
Others=too many to count!!

Naughty and shame on you!

grace!

I have been stood up 4 times in 2 days.  Maybe I should keep going to set some kind of a record.  Anybody know what the straight NCNS record is?  

This hobby is becoming a complete waste of time for me.  Recently, NCNS has been the rule rather than the exception for me.  Seriously, back to Yahoo personals and Match.com for me.  Or maybe the cute nextdoor neighboor woman who I know likes me.

My score is just as lopsided

My no shows: never
Provider no shows the last 2 days: 4 in a row

Naughty and shame on you ladies

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Francesca, anyone who would stand you up would be off their rocker! You ladies should share with each other the names or numbers or email addresses of your no shows. We really need to weed these people out or help change their behavior.

to make it up to you Sunday!!!

Way too many people are lacking in elementary manners, among other things.

Therefore, I address my kind and loving soul...divert your attention toward the genuinely affectionate being who wishes to lavish attention upon your tender heart....in a committed, unconditional, non judgmental l manner.  Imperfect, human and flawed, yet pure of heart and soul.  A warmth, tenderness  and lightness to encourage. strengthen and empower your very being.  You are loved, you are beautiful, you are created in perfection.  I embrace who you are.  In a much too brief span of time, allow a kindred spirit to envelop you in pure acceptance and love.

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My intention, dear heart, is not to invoke guilt or remorse.  There is much too much of that in our world today.  Rather, I am partial to the suggestion of  a mindfulness and consciousness that has become lacking in modern day society.  It is a simple concept of respect and kindness that requires very little effort.

Do unto others...regardless you are forgiven.  We are flawed yet loving human beings.  Do your best and love more.

The key's in the mailbox...c'mon in...

Stop seeing locals and maybe they will learn to take care of business. I read on here all the time of guys setting up more than one appointment in case one bails. Well girls are some of those extra appointments your no shows. If everyone played nice there wouldn't be these issues. Until then I'm sticking with the visiting girls.

From a local lady who has never NCNS anyone in my almost two year escorting career with only one sick day and just two same day cancellations (of course extending extra time to make up for the inconvenience), I think it's premature to advocate for only seeing visiting ladies, as if they are more reliable. This lack of support for the local ladies and gross generalization is horrific.

I hope the gents on this board finally learn to meet with ladies, such as Francasca and others, who are professional and do not demonstrate a lack of respect for you. If you get NCNSed, tell everyone so that those ladies can be avoided, but to say "stop seeing locals" is just mean. I'm sad to hear that from you of all people, Toolin.

Good luck Franscasca.

Xoxo.

I agree, Giamarie.   I have never NCNS'd anyone either and think it is a shame to say stop saying local girls just because of a few bad apples.  

Look ladies and gents, unfortunately, NCNS is a part of the business.  It happens to the ladies as much as it happens to the gents.  And, yes, it is horrible and disrespectful to those involved.  However, whereas there is not much the ladies can do about it, short of telling the other ladies, there are many things the gents can do to lesson the odds.

1.  seeing TER reviewed ladies should minimize the problem (especially if you are VIP and read the reviews!! and read posts naming names)....in other words, do your homework.

2. get pre-screened by several LOCAL providers on your " to do" list (for easier last minute dates when you are NCNS'd by 1st choice)

3. have the phone numbers of your ATF's handy...
  (in other words...have a back-up plan)

4.  Post the names here, so it stops.

sometimes, the best layed plans (and back-up plans) will not work out, but these things should minimize your odds of having a wasted morning or afternoon off from work after an NCNS by your 1st choice.  

Francesca, You know I adore you.........sorry for hijacking your post.  The whole NCNS thing bites my butt!!!!!  I HATE IT.  And I agree with another poster...whoever would NCNS you is not thinking clearly!!!!!!!  

Big hugs to you Francesca and all MN board readers and posters!
Belinda

would stand up Francesca is nuts.

I have had the pleasure of spending time with her more than once and could not even imagine standing her up. (Guys if you haven't met her - you're missing out)

Personally, I prefer local ladies. It allows the chance to see them more than once and learn more about each other. IMHO it make time together all the more delightful.

I've been stood up twice, both were in Chicago, and I should have known better. (was thinking with the wrong head)

EVERYONE is different, there's ones that want 5-8 a day, and some like alot of us that are 2.  Enough said.  I love to travel, especially to cities that appreciate a lady.  Mpls needs to respect their ladies.  I enjoy my reg's that are totally awesome, and the few new friends this year!  Been a fantastic start.  Why should there be all this extra, nonsense bs on this board.  If there are a few sour grapes, you're gna spoil the whole bowl.  There are plenty of things to release your frustration, and even more gals on here willing to accomidate.  Enjoy the fantasies!  Stop the bashing unless you've got legit proof, and there should be a seperate board for NCNS's and reports of any issues with both guys and gals for everyone to see!  But highly doubtful.  Play fun, it makes it a better world, if you're a sour grape, find the right girl to rock your world and change attitudes!!  Life's way to short!!

MUAH!!
Sam

I have been NCNS'd on a number of occasions but I see that as no reason to turn my back on local girls.  I know some who are very reliable and guess what?  I see them most of the time.  It's a matter of finding the right girls.  Share information about who is reliable and who is not and the reliable girls will get most of the business and you too can see local girls if you choose.

toolin might have a point if he said that visiting ladies might be more motivated to secure time sensitive appointments.

But the generalized statements are not fair.  There are convicted felons in every large municipality, but that does not mean everyone residing is a criminal.

Invest in your local infrastructure!  I like it!

Certainly doesn't pay to get angry, but it's much easier too - esp when ones time is important;I'm sure you could have spent that time in waiting much more productively had he had the courtesy to cancel -

Oh,well.. his loss - Amazing that you still have nothing but nice words and thoughts after the incident !

Good for you! I hope ur phone is ringing off the hook and hope you benefit $ lots..xx


Nice photo,btw -    From - La La Land..