All newbies have to start somewhere just like we did. Sometimes newbies seeing newbies makes the best match. It is the safest and lowest risk, both parties are scared, willing to work with and help each other and almost no chance LE is involved
I am very new looking to get started. Any newer providers willing to provide some companionship for a review. I will also compensate you for your time and companionship.
Dirty Jesus is newby friendly and wont require a review. Good luckn and the force be with you
even if you write her a review ... If she is brand new and you are brand new ... The review and whitelist have very little validity because neither one of you have any established experience in the hobby. The best thing for a new hobbyist or new provider to do is to see someone with an established a reputation. There are plenty of other ways to screen then having references as well as several good established providers who are newbie friendly.
All newbies have to start somewhere just like we did. Sometimes newbies seeing newbies makes the best match. It is the safest and lowest risk, both parties are scared, willing to work with and help each other and almost no chance LE is involved
The best way for a newbie to start is by following the advice that is given here time and time again. See well reviewed providers. A lady who has been around for awhile can put him at ease and lead him down the path to a good time. BP is full of "newbie friendly providers" who are "new in town" that would like nothing more than to releave him of his money or worse and send him on his way. That is unlikely to happen with a well reviewed provider.
Do you see an established provider with 100 reviews, or a brand new provider that just showed up with an ad last week and no reviews? While the risk of the new provider being a sting is low, that risk is still 10,000 fold greater than the risk of seeing an established provider. Same risk profile applies to a new hobbyist.
Your logic is just fundamentally reversed at the core.
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I just don't see how you think that's the lowest possible risk ... Neither has had the experience to be able to read the situation and there is nothing of substance to show a pattern of safety. Yes we all start somewhere and I'm greatful for the first few established and experienced hobbyists who took the time to get to know my personality on this forum and research my ads and pictures then decided to TOFTT ... I consider myself somewhat newbie friendly and try to do the same for others when and after I do the same with research, screening, etc. I have to say I'm really happy at the outcomes and friends I've made and helped to get them on P411 and gave them references and WLs.
There's almost no way for either of them to actually know the other is safe and not LE. Being scared isn't more likely to make you work with the other person; it makes you more likely to be suspicious of them and when they are the same way it increases the chance of things going badly.
Far better for newbies on either side to get their introduction with someone who is experienced and reputable.
My first experience was with a well respected, well reviewed newbie friendly provider. She did a great job of calming my first time nervousness. I don't think a newbie provider would have done as well.
I agree with cruier on this one and had the same result.
Its not easy to see someone with a good reputation in the community. I had a guy tell me that if i saw someone that he "trust" then he would love to see me. I understand safety concerns, but that was pretty bold and insulting...I never asked him to see me..
I could be wrong but I'm thinking that he didn't mean to insult you or assume that you would want to see him. I think he was just trying to give you some advice and possibly let you know that he would be interested in seeing you once you have a review from an established hobbyist. We all started somewhere with our first review then another then another until we become either an established hobbyist on an established provider. It's a good thing that it's not easy otherwise how safe would you really feel in getting references. Be patient they will come and we will all profit. Good luck
Thank you. Its just frustrating sometimes. I agree the security and safety is a good thing.
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