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funman1969 9 Reviews 213 reads
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Its not about how we handle  drama. It about being  fed clear BS  regarding information put on this board, or as i stated in recent post ommission of relevant information. That kids is what starts the "drama ".  When pinned down by a specific question that could clear things up now, it goes ignored.  You really think that  whole guys taking long to nut would have gone the way it did if would Trin would have told us in original post that guys were upfront about it and how much of a problem it really is with her clients? You build mystique  well yeah  some are going to call the question. How we handle that my friend  is  more important.  

Posted By: vantheman666
Human beings play in the hobby, and human beings have a tendency to be full of drama.  Even my ATF has had her "off" days, and I recently sent a drunken text that pissed her off (note to self: turn off the fucking phone when drinking).  What really counts is how we all handle our drama.  Yes, the MN board has more negativity than other regions, but the MN board also has more posts than other regions.  For a comparison, just check out the Kentucky board sometime.  I stay on our lovely local board, even with all its drama, and I've got some great prospects out there in case my ATF were ever to retire (or get so pissed off that she dumps me as a client...hope not).

OldTimerB1612 reads

For whatever reason guys get into the hobby, one of the things I think most guys want is a drama free experience.

From the provider who talks to the press to the one who has LE camped out watching her to the one who has (had) a stinky pussy to the scheduling cartel to a million other "dramatic" topics in the past year or so, I think most guys would not like to see these issues.

What, as participants in this industry, can both providers and hobbyists do to make it better in MN?

After all, didn't TER just recently say that MN is the exception rather than the rule among the states. I interpreted their meaning to be negative.

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knotsaway470 reads

... or herself is, what can *I* do to "make it better in MN"?

Focus on that first. Take responsibility for our own posts and other actions. If each of us does that, I think there will be less drama and more fun for all.

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loveyourtouch485 reads

To ask is how much bullshit should I allow others to post on the board without calling them out.

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OldTimerB299 reads

In my case, I try to do my due diligence first and have been largely successful in having good/great sessions with basically one or two exceptions,  the latter when I listened to my little head.  

For me, the hobbyist/provider relationship (in person) is everything. Writing honest reviews and depending on fellow hobbyists to do the same helps in that due diligence process.  

Posted By: knotsaway
... or herself is, what can *I* do to "make it better in MN"?  
   
 Focus on that first. Take responsibility for our own posts and other actions. If each of us does that, I think there will be less drama and more fun for all.

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vantheman666305 reads

Human beings play in the hobby, and human beings have a tendency to be full of drama.  Even my ATF has had her "off" days, and I recently sent a drunken text that pissed her off (note to self: turn off the fucking phone when drinking).  What really counts is how we all handle our drama.  Yes, the MN board has more negativity than other regions, but the MN board also has more posts than other regions.  For a comparison, just check out the Kentucky board sometime.  I stay on our lovely local board, even with all its drama, and I've got some great prospects out there in case my ATF were ever to retire (or get so pissed off that she dumps me as a client...hope not).

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darmody255 reads

How'd you piss her off? Can you give us a hint?

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funman1969214 reads

Its not about how we handle  drama. It about being  fed clear BS  regarding information put on this board, or as i stated in recent post ommission of relevant information. That kids is what starts the "drama ".  When pinned down by a specific question that could clear things up now, it goes ignored.  You really think that  whole guys taking long to nut would have gone the way it did if would Trin would have told us in original post that guys were upfront about it and how much of a problem it really is with her clients? You build mystique  well yeah  some are going to call the question. How we handle that my friend  is  more important.  

Posted By: vantheman666
Human beings play in the hobby, and human beings have a tendency to be full of drama.  Even my ATF has had her "off" days, and I recently sent a drunken text that pissed her off (note to self: turn off the fucking phone when drinking).  What really counts is how we all handle our drama.  Yes, the MN board has more negativity than other regions, but the MN board also has more posts than other regions.  For a comparison, just check out the Kentucky board sometime.  I stay on our lovely local board, even with all its drama, and I've got some great prospects out there in case my ATF were ever to retire (or get so pissed off that she dumps me as a client...hope not).

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mschambers421 reads

The drama on the board is exacerbating the issues that occur in reality. The few issues you mentioned shouldn't draw you to conclude that all MN providers are dramatic... and I would hope most reading the board see it as just a piece of the pie and not an all-inclusive representation of the population.  If a hobbyist does his homework on a girl he should expect to have a great experience depending on whom he chooses of course.  

Personally I strive to offer a drama-free experience in person and in communication (on the board/email/etc.)
But of course not everyone can play nice, or act like adults. If they could, the board would be a better place :)

Cheers to wishing ;) Lol

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Drumsticks297 reads

...to chill with. And...you're very sexy and highly sexual to boot! ;)  The only drama that happens when we meet comes from me as I claw at your legs and grab your ankles as I try to not let you leave at the end of the session!  :D

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OldTimerB314 reads

With providers, observations and information shared among hobbyists, etc.?

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mschambers287 reads

Sure... but the ratio is ridiculous don't you think? The 1-2 "issues" each week compared to the 1,000s of appointments which are being held each week.... of course there are "issues" that aren't reported... so you must allow for that variable (lets say 100 issues a week / 10000 appts). The probability of having an issue in an appointment is relatively low... To have an overall view that MN is dramatic in the hobby life is - to me - an overreaction to a few issues... and lets be real half of them are posted by Talon! Lol :) If one avoids TOFTT too often and perhaps even finds a friend to see consistently ... the probability of an "issue" occurring is dramatically decreased. And treat everyone how you would like to be treated and the board might be a better place. But hey, thats just my .02 cents. No pressure people.  

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My inner nerd.

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