As an "older" guy(I qualify for the Over 60 Board) I stick with 30+. The maturity level is a much better fit for me and makes for a better appointment. To me they seem to better understand us older guys and our bodies and, accordingly, take us on a more leisurely journey to a destination rather than trying to get us there by the quickest route. Of course when I was 30 myself I had a different view of the world. And therein lies the beauty of the four seasons of life......each provides something new to experience.
I know the politically correct thing to say is "to each his/her own"...etc. but wondering if the older guys (50+) sometimes feel a little apprehensive about scheduling with someone under 25 or so...
I know it's only a number blah blah blah but do you purposely stick with the slightly older ladies? Or is it purely how you feel at the moment? Just a simple question...no agenda or ax to grind...lol.
I would like to know how the women in 20s-30s feel about seeing men 50+ ?
Good Point! But if they say it grosses them out, they will be offending a huge section of their client base, I expect... I'd assume that if a guy is courteous and clean, the age isn't as much of a factor as we might expect....imho ![]()
As an "older" guy(I qualify for the Over 60 Board) I stick with 30+. The maturity level is a much better fit for me and makes for a better appointment. To me they seem to better understand us older guys and our bodies and, accordingly, take us on a more leisurely journey to a destination rather than trying to get us there by the quickest route. Of course when I was 30 myself I had a different view of the world. And therein lies the beauty of the four seasons of life......each provides something new to experience.
It can be harder to find quality escorts among the younger providers but they are out there.
"It can be harder "?? Let's hope so!
I am strictly a massage guy who prefers old providers because they are generally more mature, but they are few and far between. Too many of the young ones--early 20s--are just trying to make a quick buck. Lots of them only around for a few months. They want lots of money and provide so-so service. Yes there are some exceptions. But there just aren't a lot of choices. The provider pool is what it is, which make HONEST and OBJECT reviews even more important.
I prefer women that are about 40 to 50.
I have seen younger women, but generally I have a difficult time relating to them.
Private time is less of an issue, but I get very uncomfortable in public with a provider who is significantly younger than me.
I am also "ancient"and I prefer ladies as old as I can get.They are more patient.I've tried ladies as young as 20 and it just felt creepy to me.I'm probably the oldest guy on TER.
When George Burns was alive, I called him whippersnapper.
I always ask providers if they want my teeth in or out.
My dermatologist needed to carbon date my toe fungus.
Moses used to ask me for a recommendation on a good lay.
I told Adam that Cain was nothing but trouble and to make sure Eve avoided apples.
Behind my back, providers always joke that I walk with a "limp".
thank you i am here all week.
Ha Ha, your "limp" must be from tripping on it, right... LOL O_O
I always ask providers if they want my teeth in or out.
My dermatologist needed to carbon date my toe fungus.
Moses used to ask me for a recommendation on a good lay.
I told Adam that Cain was nothing but trouble and to make sure Eve avoided apples.
Behind my back, providers always joke that I walk with a "limp".
thank you i am here all week.
I enjoy seeing men of all ages. I have received many messages from older men say they prefer ladies older than myself, and I can understand and respect that. But when you get an itch that your old bones just can't scratch.... I'll be here to reach that spot for you
And not all young ladies work alike. Please try not to judge us by our covers and take the time to reach out and see how we communicate (professional? not? good grammar? etc...) before you brush us off as "immature" and "rushed" (you can even check reviews!).
xoxo
Natalie
As a 60+, I am not able to form any sort of connection with under 25s. Their life experience is just so different from anything I knew that we have very little to talk about. To the point it gets sort of awkward (Leave It To Beaver, is that a porno? What's a hashtag?) even during a one-time, one hour date.
25 to 30 is iffy. A traveling provider I will see only once is generally fine in that range. With local ladies I would like to see repeatedly it is usually still too young, but there are extraordinary exceptions like Poppy who make the rule.
30 to 50 is my sweet spot. They have been through some stuff and we can generally find things in common to talk about and generate a connection that makes all the difference.
I occasionally wonder if it is significant that my cutoff lies right around the age of my youngest child. Perhaps parenting kept me sufficiently in touch with the world as they experienced it to make a connection possible.
My views are similar to others that have been posted. I'm approaching 60 and have found I simply cannot relate to women under 30. We have little in common and thus little to talk about, and for me it's important that we be able to hold an interesting conversation. Older women have experienced life and have tales to share, and the mutual sharing of our experiences builds a connection between us. I have been a long-term client of three massage gals who were in their late 30s to late 40s, and each of those relationships started with great conversations. One of those relationships is still going strong, and my time with her never fails to leave me happy and fulfilled. No offense intended to the lovely young ladies of TER but I wouldn't trade her for any of them.
Ditto: Spuzzer took the words right out of my mouth.
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Younger providers like Natalie or Poppy are intelligent and worldly...I don't have difficulty connecting with them, despite decades between us. It depends on personaltiy.
I no longer see ladies in the 18-20 bracket, because I really, really, really don't want to see anyone too young or not doing this for themselves. Beyond that, I've found it's much more about how well I click with someone, I've had success and failure with ladies in a range of ages. Usually, the smart ones that are focused on delivering great service don't seem to care how old I am...or hide it well, at least.
I have the same attitude as the above poster. I do not see young women any longer, due to the fact that I cannot relate to them, nor can I no longer stand the drama that comes with the interaction of many of these providers.
I prefer 30 and above, with few exceptions.
I find younger ladies attractive. What man does not enjoy a hot young lady hat looks like a college co-ed. But I have found women in their 30's and 40's have better sexual skills. Also if the date involves any public time, I want a companion that would not bring attention to the age difference.
I wonder if preference or not has more to do with what you are seeking? An intimate time that may not require any similar experiences, or a GFE where you can share similar experiences?
I tend to prefer the former, but still enjoy chatting and talking about life and experiences whether or not we have an age gap.
I have found the more mature providers to be consistently good to excellent all around. While there's maybe something to be said about maturity bringing experience that makes the encounter more fun, I've thought that if they have been a provider for awhile, that usually goes hand in hand with their enjoyment of pleasing and a gregarious nature. And many have traveled a bit--they've seen a lot and are often very interesting to chat with. And they like to have fun-- and like to see us having fun!
You can see the same thing in younger providers too--just not as consistently in my experience. When you do though, I can't say I have found anything about it less satisfying. I take the younger plunge from time to time--often when I have a short notice availability and the ability to reach more mature providers is limited (one difference there--mature providers often are e-mail only for contact, which gets tough for a traveler with no smart phone).
It's crazy, but age barriers seem to have disappeared. I have youg guys reach out...sucessful, educated and with $ to spend...under 30-35 all the time. I let them know I am older and they say that's what they want! So, hey! As I always meet and have a drink first, I figure that gives them an out if they decide I am more mature than they anticipated...but that never happens.
So!
The opposite, for guys. I have had men tell me they don't want to be with someone as young as their kids, and I don't blame them. It's all a comfrot level, right? And can't we switch it up, and see different people and age brackets for differnet times and moods? That's the way I like to play!
My modo? I am an equal opportunity employer, as long as everything is in working order!
I seek kind, generous gentlemen I can be of service to, whatever their age.
Play safe, everyone!!
xoClair
We haven't met, but my takeaway from your website is that you have an allure that guys in that age bracket could tune into quite easily.
You're only as old as the woman you feel.
I'm in my 50s and I find that the 30 to 50 providers are more conducive to my tastes. There are a few exceptions though, as always.
I keep in touch with several very active septuagenarians (born before WWII), and we seldom have a problem with age, if we put it out front, so there are no surprises when the door opens. Some have declined because of age, but for me, only two out of 100+ new dates, have failed to live up to their, "age is only a number, so no problem" stance. My ATF is 40 something, but I have formed very good relationships with several 20 somethings. At any age, I find the wonderful escorts that I have seen in the past 6 years, to be too varied in background, goals, experience, to make any generalizations about age. My selections are usually guided by TER reviews however.