This provider looks pretty good to me, but I haven’t seen any reviews. And has the dreaded “deposit”.  Does anyone know about her or seen her.  I’d love to find out more, but high price point and not ready to take the plunge on her.

She is very active on twitter and has a no review policy. I believe she is legit. But that said I booked with her, day of she cancelled and has ghosted me ever since.  Personally I think she is a complete undependable flake but you may have a different experience.  Would love to know others experiences.

She is legit. She is a friend of mine.

Did you get your deposit back or did she steal it?

At this point she still has it.

I hate to use the term steal in this case because it’s being held for a future date and I do believe she is legit, just unreliable in my case.

The tone of the ad is less than inviting. Personality/character really counts, at least it does for me, and certainly at that price point.
Second, the only way a provider can prevent reviews being written is to make consistently wonderful connections with her clients. It's a rare phenomenon, especially for a newbie. So I'm waiting to see... And that would be my advice.

It was February, at the time, there was talk of returning deposit, but communication had been really good and I planned to rebook at a later date (which is why I hesitate to say steel) I hobby locally less frequently and thought it would be in April so I figured hold the deposit until I rebook, my mistake because when I tried to rebook crickets.

...she's a hotty!  I'd love to meet her if so.  But, it all comes down to the bj for me.  Like Shakespeare penned, hat or no hat...that is the question!

... looks like she'll be touring soon to NYC. Try ping her using a different number - pretend to be a new client.

That’s my guess as well, although  I’m going to try one other way next time I can hobby here in the TC and then give up.

There's many providers who view then as booking fees these days.

Don’t do that. It’s creepy and will most likely get you BL’d.

Don’t do what?

Does not seem to me anymore creepy then  keeping what looks like a 20% deposit.
I there is another side to the story there is a forum here for her to tell why she is keeping his deposit. Sorry Vorlorn - booking fee is BS - Website says deposit.

... pretend to be someone else.  

Of course it's BS.  That doesn't mean she won't treat the money as a booking fee.

...there's an attractive rewrite   How did that happen?  
She's listening Atouk.

Well I am going to go with 2 wrongs don't a right, and if someone does contact me from a different email address (I do email only) and pretends to be another person and does not tell me that they got another email I will not be seeing them. I personally do not do deposits but there are way too many gals that are taking deposits and then not returning them. Deposits are to save a spot to see the provider, that is it. And if the provider has to cancel in my opinion the deposit should be returned within 24 to 48 hours. Our profession is obviously still illegal but that does not mean dishonestly needs to be woven into fabric.

Move all your savings to "She still has it" financial advisors.

that why she didnt return the deposit

I don’t know? I’m not her, don’t ask me.

Just shoot her another email to remind her and follow up maybe?

If she is as much on the up as you feel up why does she not send and email suggesting some times she would be  available to complete the transaction .  
Why does the communication need to be one sided ?
Just saying.

Because communication was too good after booking and even for a few days after she cancelled it was  still good.  as I don’t hobby locally all that often I knew it would be a few months before I could next book,  she was touring at that time so it pushed back  even further before I reached out to rebook.

I think hes implying that because shes your friend that she didnt return the deposit?

Oh I read it as “THEN why” not “THAT why” lmao what does her being my friend having anything to do with not returning deposits?

Probably because she’s busy? I don’t know.

Idk. I dont know you or ember. Lol

You need to stop posting this everywhere. You have been contacting me for over a year about $200 after making me uncomfortable. You have contacted me from multiple email addresses, again making me uncomfortable. After all this time and these two facts, why the fuck would I give you $200 back? You’re being insane. Quit it and move on it’s been since February 2024.

Girl tell me why I just saw all this. He did in fact email me from another email and I didn’t know who he was bc he said “its bill” as if that’s fucking identifying. SMH. Anyway. I found all the different emails - he never attempted to get his deposit back before writing all this stuff. He emailed me from foreign emails I have no history with to “reschedule” so I ignored it. He is still linking this post to other posts currently. Literally been stalking posts about me for a year about $200 he never attempted to get back. He didn’t ask me, he didn’t request on CashApp. Nothing. Just the weird email bs. Omfggggg.

I’ve emailed you from exactly 2 email accounts and never claimed to be anyone but me and was entirely upfront in both, never trying to “trick you” etc.  you will also note I mentioned having you keep the deposit to book in the future when you were feeling better, when I reached back you ghosted me so…Honestly I still have no idea what I did that has you so freaked out,  in the discussion here,  I’ve always mentioned that I didn’t think you were a deposit scam and that you had offered at the time to return it, and then when I reached back you ghosted ghosted me, again I was trying to be as forthright as to who I am and why I was reaching out,  you seem to have taken that as now I’m some sort of stalker angry about $200.  I haven’t said a word about this until today when you came after me for over 7 months.   Honestly I wouldn’t have considered booking with you if losing the $200 was an issue because of your no review policy and I half expected to lose it anyway.  

Here’s what really happened:

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