If a girl hasn't posted an ad for a while, can/should you still call her?  Or do you call only if you see the ad?

-- Modified on 3/16/2011 6:55:01 PM

Some girls post ads regularly so I probably wouldn't call if she had stopped posting for a while simply because I doubt she is available.  Some girls only post an ad now and then so it may not mean anything if she does not have a recent ad.

What Vorlon said -EOM-

A few of the ladies I see are infrequent posters on BP. They'll run an ad for a week then take a couple of months off basically staying under the radar.  So, if you like the lady give her a call

There are many and varied reasons that a provider may or may not post an ad.  Some more guidance for you from my standpoint:  If the provider's contact information (email and/or phone number) is still on her profile (as in my case); then it would be okay to make contact.  If a provider does not want to be contacted for whatever reason, then she (in all probability) would take the necessary steps to have the contact information removed from her profile.

But there are many who do not pay any attention to their TER profiles; you can find plenty of old profiles out there with phone numbers, emails, and even ads.  They likely won't get you anywhere except to a possibly wrong number but they are there.