Rather than me spelling out my idea of what the term GFE encompasses, how about I ask you What you idea of BFE involves ?

I am considering changing my menu i have done a ton of contemplating about this, and is truly my choice simply something i enjoy. But the question is, whats considered GFE?  I have a STRONG opinion about this topic but i want to hear your thoughts.

I left that envelop on the counter. This arises from having a great deal of understanding about interpersonal discourse. I believe that this goes into understanding or breaking down the psyche of your client. Thus, you would be able to reciprocate behaviors and cognitions that occur during the session. You would treat me like a girlfriend that I picked out realizing that my girlfriend is going to be different from another man’s girlfriend.  

This is exactly, (almost exactly) how i perceive GFE. Not exactly about a sexual preference, i want to be your girlfriend rather it be a hour or a day, to make you feel like a king a true physical and mental connection. Deep kisses snuggled up into your strong arms. Pop corn and a movie, long intelligent conversation over a nice romantic dinner. How about we play basketball or watch the game together and have a hot steamy massage later? Or i could kick your ass in some COD, up for a challenge bring it on hot stuff!! I want you to feel as if no other man matters, this delicious time is all about catering to you. A new and exciting friendship that will last.  

This is SUCH a loaded question!  This taps into what each person feels a GF is about. In fact, I have often though that acronym a bit interesting. Does a GFE mean bbbj cim?  Well... Not sure a girlfriend is any more likely to do that!

Its just for fun, and no I don't mean male escort, as I hardly see you seeking a male escort.

I am certain that your clients enjoy pleasing you as well as the reverse.

So what would you consider BFE, although you do not have to answer that, as you have already lightly addressed the subject in your reply to others, in this thread.

Thanks and Merry Christmas to All.

I'm uncertain how to answer this, do you mean BFE as in male escort?

It should go without saying that the time together should "Make me forget I dropped the envelope". If you are looking for repeat visits, the LEAST you can do is attempt to create the fantasy that we are here together because of a strong desire to please the client.

Understandable, everyone has their different preferences which are respected. My menu is not decreasing that's for sure .  

Ahhh i see i see, well to answer your question i think a BFE would include deep sensual kisses filled with hugging and snuggling, for you to make me feel just as special, a true connection between the both of us. I love to laugh, laughter would be a huge turn on for me. A little joking around not being so serious. A connection that will last,  of course a delightful sexual connection with multiple "pops" for the both of us

I'd say you already have a good handle on what defines a TRUE GFE. What I really like is you going beyond services in the sheets or the art of seduction being restricted to a sexual encounter & candle light & wine.(not knocking it of course)

as far a sex stuff goes-not providing BBBJ is a deal breaker at the $300+ level. When it includes CIM, that is a nice treat and BBBJCIMNQNS is the bow on the package.  FIV is another fav thing that doesn't show on your profile.
In addition the the other nice GFE things you mentioned.   IMO

For me ... That's it exactly.

That's it

Posted By: mariahlove

Ahhh i see i see, well to answer your question i think a BFE would include deep sensual kisses filled with hugging and snuggling, for you to make me feel just as special, a true connection between the both of us. I love to laugh, laughter would be a huge turn on for me. A little joking around not being so serious. A connection that will last,  of course a delightful sexual connection with multiple "pops" for the both of us

Well I'm glad you agree sweetheart. I must say Pink defines it much better than I.....

Are you asking "thats it?" or saying that's it.

Thanks Leann

Plenty of 12 year old kids on the net that will do that for free!

Lol believe it or not I've had a 3 hour date and we played COD, he got that ass handed to him not once but twice. It got steamy after that haha it was a fun date to say the least, some guys are just into it and I'm down for sure!

Leann, you are cool sh#t have i told you that? Thank you for recognizing what i was stating, most men do appreciate a woman who can have a little fun with video games or watch the game and scream at the tv together, or get dirty in fish bait and go fishing i enjoy that to. Oh and we can cook i say its a win win, lets crack open a beer and loosin up! Its all about fun and joy who's to say what one can or cannot enjoy?

1. What you look like
2. Your body type
3. How much
4. Your profile on TER  
5. Your review numbers  
6. Now, if I see a positive cooralation that I think might be interesting for me to persure, I'll read the reviews
7.  The GFE thing is unrelated at this point. Mainly because it's all YMMV until I decide to see someone .  
Bbbj, dfk, fiv, daty are the acts I want to do. If I believe you're a good actress I may reach out.  

Tough game, maybe we should get together and they'll win ha!,

If providers are going to advertise GFE, there should be an expectation of a defined level of service.  If a GFE session does not include bbbj, dfk, and daty, I would be disappointed.  

You should set the lettuce aside & eat more carrots. They're good for the eye sight.  

.... BBBJ in defining "GFE". I can understand why some link them together. But it's no deal breaker for me. I know some excellent GFE providers who do only CBJs, they have their reasons for doing so, and for me it in no way diminishes the GF aspect of the E. In fact, I know some providers who are so great at the GFE that I'd still want to see them if they offered no BJ at all. In that sense, they'd remind me of some real girlfriends I've had!

I don't think it is as simple as a list of menu items but certainly things such as deep kissing and BBBJ are something I consider seriously.  But I have also gotten CBJs from ladies that I absolutely considered GFE providers.  IMHO The most important part is the attitude you as an escort bring into the session.

GFE for me means we both had a very erotic and intense connection.  From the sex to longing looks gazing into each others eyes.  From kisses that leave us BOTH tingling. If I leave feeling like it was wham bam thank you mam, then it was sex not GFE.  If I leave feeling like I was crushin' on you and maybe you on me a little bit, which I hope happens, then it was GFE.  I saw a provider once in NJ about 5 years ago that I think about regularly to this day.  THAT was a GFE experience.  We both were really into each other or at least really in the moment.  GFE has to be both ways to be great.

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That's exactly what it should be ... Have your rules ... We all have our preferences but treat each other like for that moment in time that person is your SO ... Forget about the cash and just enjoy ... Whether its conversation, dinner, gambling , shower, massage, movie, healthy argument over politics, whatever ... Enjoy each other!!

If they did you wouldn't be hobbying lol just saying muah

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Thanks love, its all about happiness and joy

Posted By: brilove

That's exactly what it should be ... Have your rules ... We all have our preferences but treat each other like for that moment in time that person is your SO ... Forget about the cash and just enjoy ... Whether its conversation, dinner, gambling , shower, massage, movie, healthy argument over politics, whatever ... Enjoy each other!!

Exactly my point, Bri. The term "GFE" often is tied to activities most "GF's" ( or wives) would not do. I think "menu" and "GFE" are related but separate topics. Now... Nice menu WITH a "GFE" attitude and connection and we are all happy

My view of an accurate GFE would include:
nagging me to leave my wife And children
always wanting to go on a trip somewhere
anytime, anywhere sex - always in the mood
BBBJTCNQNS  
Calling at inappropriate times
Able to cuddle indefinitely  
PDA ok
Doesn't complain about anything about m

unlimited access to your credit cards
you taking out my garbage  
you doing yard work
you cleaning out the garage
you changing the oil in the car.

IMO, the debate (GFE or not) should not be about how you 'felt' after the session, it should be about what is being 'advertised' beforehand. Otherwise, this question would be about the correctness of terms we use to write our review, and not about the accuracy of provider's ads.

AAARRRRGGGGGHHHH! Flashback to my married days. STOP PLEASE STOP!!!!!!

....replicating that feeling of dating someone new, where you are eager to learn everything you can about that person.  Everything is fun no matter what the particular activity is...  Also, as stated by others, forgetting that what is actually happening is a transaction is a very good indicator that the GFE is working very well.

roll over and fall asleep because I had such a loooooooooonngggg day!

As we know, GFE has many various activities and expectations, and emotional desire associated with the term.

I think that it was Bri, who posted further down in the thread, asking how many GFs and Wives actually do give a BBBJ with CIM, and so on.

A better way to approach this, is with the idea of what the client's idea of what he desires, be it the sexual acts, the attitude of the provider, and as well, how is receptive is the provider ?

While it is true that many GFs and Wives refuse to do GFE, the desire overall, of the client, is to have that need met, thus the client is seeking a provider, who will provide that fantasy that the client seeks.

That is really a better way to approach the subject. Will you the provider, provide the services that a client seeks, of which he has a fantasy of what he would like for a girl friend to do. without resistance, or whining, or pissing and moaning. LOL

This truly is, where the providers, Provide such a wonderful service to us guys.

And by the way, Thanks for asking us what we want, it shows, that you truly do want to attempt to meet a gentleman's fantasy.

My actual fantasy, is for a provider, to pay me an hourly rate, and then provide the sexual, physical, and emotional fantasy that arouses me.
LOL Just Kidding!
Merry Christmas !

Now about that Christmas gift, for me, ( see Above description of GFE ) or a lump of coal ?

It's about having a "static electricity" connection... you know.. kinda like when your not ticklish... but the way I'm touching you, caressing you & cuddling with you... your soooo full of "giggles"... not laughing... but, soft feel so good giggles. I hope that makes sense!  

Thank you as well r taking your time to post, i love hearing what makes guys happy! I thrive to make that happen in reality.  

I know a woman that would exchange BJ for oil changes. Unfortunately, I was not the mechanic. I should paid more attention in shop class.....

I would take her to down to Jiffy Lube to make that trade happen.

My wife did when we were first together and my last GF did it all the time.

A girlfriend is a succubus. An emotional black hole that survives on the attention she steals when demanding that you do things that you don't want to do at a time when you don't want to be doing anything other than what you were already doing. They then use their pussy to leverage you into a legally binding contract known as "Marriage" which essentially makes you her slave.

That is why I avoid the girlfriend experience at all costs and opt for the hooker experience.

The girlfriend experience is ONLY what you allow it to be! We are all in control of our own emotions. No one can make us feel a way we don't want to feel! Take charge of your emotions!