There is a provider I am a huge fan of.  The last few times I've seen her she has gone downhill.  She's put on weight, her eyes are bloodshot, and her performance has suffered.  

Should I post this on the board?  I like her and don't want to hurt her.  However, I want guys to be forewarned.  I have done a review of her and can't do another.

I think you should let people know but in a respectful way.  As long as your not just trying to trash her, thats why the board is here.

Did you discuss this with her??  You never know what underlying issues might be there...  and you really have no idea if she is treating others the same as you….
You could have posted this under your real handle so that people could PM you for details...  But you are behind an alias????

The other possibility is…. time for a break and get a fresh perceptive on things

-- Modified on 3/22/2007 12:07:38 PM

I agree with Fletch as well. Be a gentleman and ask her what is going on. Do it kindly. She may be under stress or have a health condition.

I must agree with Fletch, MDL and Natalie.

Talk it over with her nicely.  She might have things going on in her life and not realize that her performance has gone downhill to the extent of hit hurting her business and repeat visits.

She might be preoccupied with her life and not realize that she is no longer rocking your world  It happens to everyone now and again.

If there is something that I have learned in this hobby is that a little sugar can go a long way!!!... Be a gentleman have some respect and understanding  and be honest with a gal when your not happy! Just don't ever leave drunken VM when mad at someone!! Just another lesson to learn for me.... OoOOppps

-- Modified on 7/20/2006 5:41:15 PM

I do believe you are allowed to post a new review.  YOu just don't get credit toward VIP status for it.  

As for the ethics question.  It really your call.  If you actually engaged her services under the new conditions, and if you think it wasn't just catching her on a bad day considering your previous favorable experiences, then IMHO a fresh, but considerate review is fair.  It would be inappropriate to name her on the board.

It will replace your old one and you won't receive VIP credit for it.  As others have said, I suggest you talk to her first and see what kind of response you get.