.............. but this is how I see this world of providing!
I have found - and I do believe "IT AIN’T ALL ABOUT THE BENJAMINS".
I do think that there are 3 categories of women in this world of sex for pay ...................
#1 - Courtesans. They truly love to please their men. They have the ability to find a quality about each and every gentleman that she provide her service to, and to make a session seem like an “it’s ALL only about you” session. They can be particular about whom they see. They don’t care so much for the “I just want to fuck your brains out for an hour” kind of guys. If one inadvertently slips by her screening, she will most likely turn him down for a second date. (Unless he is REALLY hot and he REALLY turns her on!!!) These women are secure in their vocation, most likely single - could be in a relationship though - take pride in the service they provide to true gentlemen and love to please. They mostly see guys with a high maturity level, that treat women with dignity and respect. They take pride in the job they do and if providing were legal and socially acceptable, they perhaps would be proud to tell any and all “I’m a Courtesan and I'm proud of it”!. The men they enjoy seeing, often bring them presents, will take the time to have a drink or a bite to eat during the session and these women like - and take pride in - setting the mood with candles, soft music and a comfortable ambiance.
These women - make love to you/let you make love to them - and most often enjoy it themselves. It's not all just about the money. The men who see these women are nice men.
#2 - Prostitutes, Call Girls, Hookers. In it only for the money! They don’t particularly like men, some may – but they ALL only need men / use men as a means to pay the rent. They don’t have civilian jobs – but really would rather have one vs letting the men they see do whatever they want with their bodies, but are too, I hesitate to use the word but, I'm going to say it - lazy, to go out and get one. The men they see – and they will take them all - want to just pound them into the mattress for a frenetic 1/2 hour or hour and they are willing to let them – as long as they get paid. As soon as the guy is out the door or she leaves his room and heads off down the hotel hallway, she erases the last hour from her memory. She tolerates what has just happened, and feels as long as she is getting screwed by men, she might as well be getting paid for it! They see a high volume of men and typically, do it for only a short time but sometimes will be in it for years because they don’t like having to get up 5 days a week and work a regular job for a living. The men they see just pay the going rate, bring nothing else to the session but their dicks, and want the gal to do to them all the things their wives or girlfriends won’t do. Again, they pound you into the mattress a bit roughly and want you to allow them to do anything/everything for them with your body because “bitch - they are paying you”!
These women just let you fuck them. It is ALL about the money! They are good actresses for the hour they have to tolerate the men they see. They often make you think you knocked their socks off but are faking it to get you to move the hell on. The men who see these women are usually pricks and can be real assholes in life. Many of them are the fuckers at the bar you want to go coldcock just on principle!
#3 - Escorts. (GFE) - Fulltime providers ... pretty steady volume of clients - but for the most part, they enjoy pleasing men, and enjoy being pleased themselves and enjoy meeting a variety of guys. Some have civilian jobs that still allow the time for a steady volume of clients. They don't particularly enjoy the pricks they occasionally encounter and after meeting with one, vow to be a bit more critical in their verification process. Some go on tours, many don't - kids, pets, regular jobs keep this from being an option. They rely on a steady volume of 1 hour appointments every month to meet their day to day living expenses. Someday, will probably move on from escorting if the circumstances of their lives change enough so they don't need or want the inherent hassles that come with providing. Some are married and provide with the consent of their significant other. Many have kids - or even grandkids if they are in in the MILF category. Most are honest women, making their way in the world. They enjoy their jobs as escorts.
These women for the most part enjoy the sex and go with the mood of the encounter. The money is, for the most part, pretty important to them - after all this is their means to pay the bills - but they have many sessions where it seems the money is secondary - they enjoyed themselves too because they enjoy some hot sex too! They have to do a bit of acting sometimes because some of the guys are a bit inept at sex but their task as a provider is to see to it that you have an enjoyable experience with them. The largest variety of guys are typical here. Nice guys, pricks, quiet guys, buffoons, chest puffer outers, complete fucking assholes, the homely - and the occasional handsome dude .......... - (that be me!)
There are for sure, some sub-categories here .............
Low Volume Escort. Usually have good civilian jobs, some might not be employed at the moment but usually are - and are part Courtesans. They really enjoy the sex and the additional income that comes with being an escort. Most will be picky with whom they see, have a limited amount of sessions – that may include dinner, the theatre, etc. each week/month and look forward to what they know occurs on their “date”. They pick men that they enjoy spending time with because it replaces dating or a relationship at that particular point in their lives. They might do it for years rather than have a boyfriend because they get the best of both worlds. Someone to take them out “on a date” once in a while and they get their sexual satisfaction – with no strings attached.
These women knock your socks off with mutually enjoyed sex. The men who see these women are usually nice men - or they get thrown off the list!!
The Occasional Escort or Semi-retired Escort - they see only a couple favorites to fulfill both their financial and sexual needs. No new or perhaps an occasional add-in client because he talked himself in with an intriguing introduction that created an interest in her - to want to see him!
There are many good people and - some bad people in all categories. They are made up of college students, wives, mothers, grandmothers, single girls, lesbian’s, bi-sexual women, - but also the drug addicts, alcoholics, thieves, criminals ……. It takes all kinds to make the world of providing sex for pay go around.
Again, I hope I haven't offended any of you ladies .............. this is just the providing world as The Edge sees it.
