I'm watching a dating show, and they keep talking about how their partner makes them want to be their best self.
MARRIED (or divorced or widowed) PEOPLE-Did you/do feel that way about your person? Or did/do you feel other things about your person and just not that?
When I was married, I probably would have answered yes, but that's because (at the time) my idea of my best self was really wrong.
I wouldn’t say I’m my best self because I gave up many of my passions, I find I have less to talk to people about so in that sense I am no longer my best self, but I’m am more content in my daily life, my emotions are more stable not the rollercoaster I lived in my 20s so in that sense I am a better version of myself.
In public, especially on a broadcast, people tend to say what they are expected to say. . Nevertheless unless someone is antisocial everyone tends to behave in a way that seeks approval of those around us. More so for spouses. . Plus if you go into a marriage you have to accept that you are going to have to compromise, give up some things, give up some control. There is always going to be tension in that.
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