In the last few months I have received PM's from two guys telling me not to see two different, well reviewed girls. I went through with both dates and had a great time with each girl. When I asked about the guy who tried to "warn" me off I found out about a feud of one sort or another.
I have only ever met one guy that posts on this board, everyone else is purely anonymous. Some guys use PM's to get even with girls or to try and ruin their business. The only way to find out if this is the case is to contact the other party.
Also, I have booked dates based on recommendations from PM's. In one case I used the guy who PM'd me as a reference for an UTR girl (He told me to use his name). The fact is that not everyone on this board is an angel.
PM'ing isn't a guarantee that anything you send will be taken as true; things need to be checked when $$$ and the happiness of my penis are on the line.
Obviously we, I, use it to communicate to one person and not the entire board. Do you use it to find out additional info on providers that may not be in the reviews / web sites? Do you think that is wrong? I don't see a problem with it. It is "screening" for us hobbyist. What I do feel is wrong is when you send a PRIVATE message and then that inquiry gets communicated to someone else. Thoughts?
I use PM's for additional screening and to get the lowdown on a provider that I intend to see. I have hit home runs doing this, and have avoided costly mistakes. If someone sends me a PM, it is for my use only, and is not communicated to anyone else unless I am told to do so. I will refer any questions to the original author of the information. I respect the opinions of the others using this board and I think that we all should. my 2 pence.
I use PM's for the same thing...communicating with one person whether it be a hobbyist or
provider. Sometimes additional information is gleened from the exchange which isn't
available in reviews or web sites and I don't have a problem with that either. I do tend to agree
that whatever info is exchanged should be kept private unless you or they ask and get the
OK to share with others.....if it was meant for everyone it probably would have been
posted on the Disc Board.
In the last few months I have received PM's from two guys telling me not to see two different, well reviewed girls. I went through with both dates and had a great time with each girl. When I asked about the guy who tried to "warn" me off I found out about a feud of one sort or another.
I have only ever met one guy that posts on this board, everyone else is purely anonymous. Some guys use PM's to get even with girls or to try and ruin their business. The only way to find out if this is the case is to contact the other party.
Also, I have booked dates based on recommendations from PM's. In one case I used the guy who PM'd me as a reference for an UTR girl (He told me to use his name). The fact is that not everyone on this board is an angel.
PM'ing isn't a guarantee that anything you send will be taken as true; things need to be checked when $$$ and the happiness of my penis are on the line.
Great points. How about when a fellow hobbyist askes for additional info on a lady and then the hobbyist that is asked the question tells the lady that she is being inquired about? I don't think that is very cool but that is just my opinion.
a lady whom I may consider a friend, you bet I might let them know about it, especially if I had any indication that the you might be weird, harmful or a waste of her time. Not like some white knight, but a courtesy "heads up".
I try to be very straightforward with the ladies that I choose to let handle my unmentionables. I think if you were expecting some loyalties between hobbiests, you set the bar a bit high.
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PM's I usually use to get some additional info or even scheduling information specially if it is with a provider I have not seen before. I find it helps build rapport before the encounter and things usually go smother and are more fun since we have had some interaction beforehand.
I have had a few inquiries from individuals regarding UTR or new girls I have seen and that's perfectly fine as I have reached out to some reviewers to get a detail or two extra that wot make the review. That said I have seen a few providers that might do something special for our appointment and ask me not to share it in the reviews however if I get an inquiry regarding something like that I check with the provider if it's ok to share or not, I don't provide details of who is asking I only say hey someone asked this should I say that you do or just keep it to myself.
Also I have reached out to providers that have a profile in other cities and their pictures show up in the area with a local number. I mainly do that to see if it's really them or if someone stole their pics.
...is that if you're gonna share info about a location, providor, meet & greets, your own reviews et al....you had better have some idea who the hell you are talking to. Nothing is ever completely secure or safe, but I won't tell shit to a PM from a newbie or anyone else that doesn't have either a history of reviews or participation on the board(s).
I don't pass along things a provider would wish to keep confidential either. PM's don't come often from unknowns, but there have been a few and I tell them straight out that I've got nothing for them and don't even know what their asking about....
I am in the same boat. Great points.
I don't send PMs I have received from someone else to a 3rd person. I might send some of the information to someone else depending on what the information was and if it was OK with the original sender but unless the original sender gives me the green light,I won't reveal the source.
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