KDMS -- you did write a review. It is at the top of this thread and it's pretty informative. The words of the wise, experienced mentor, the Senpai. Thank you in particular for telling us about your peepee.
Also, it used to be (probably still is) against TER rules to write mini reviews like that, because of the lack of checks and balances. In other words your post was not just a review, but a shill.
Next, it is clearly not up to the provider, not even up to de-listed providers, whether you write a review or not, unless, of course, you have come to some sort of honorable understanding with her. It is up to you. Nothing weird about it.
The only thing that IS weird is sharing in public the flawed internal logic of your adolescent conversation with yourself... quote:
"I don’t think I’ll be writing a review on her just because it’s not cool to do so without her consent and it’ll be weird if I contacted her and say, “can I review you on a site?”. That’s definitely weird." That's definitely weird.
Lastly, "no review policies" on the part of providers make me think at least twice. Perhaps 50% of the time they're in place because the provider anticipates that the review would not be good (enough).
Bottom line -- write reviews. It makes the world go round.
Except when you don't feel like it, in which case don't take the lazy option of boasting on the board about the review you're not going to write. Just to be clear, if Melissa wants publicity, your post hasn't helped much; it will quickly disappear into unsearchable obscurity. And if she prefers to be more UTR, well you blew that too, O Wise One.
