Even though many on this site look at BP with disdain, most still look through the ads.  That's where I'd start.  It would not hurt to have a presence here either.  Start with a pic, even if you leave out your face.

1. To link your handle to your reviews. You can find the link below.

2. Find a free website builder, there are tons of them and setup a free website for yourself. Link your website to your profile. Ad a TER banner somewhere on your website.

TER Banner Instructions:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?boardID=33&Messageid=75544

3. Post an ad on the TER Minnesota Ad Board.

4. Try to get listed on P411 and setup a profile there. I am personally not a member of P411 but why give up a free listing for you.

If you want to pay for an ad:

1. Backpage is the cheapest and will probably get you results immediately.

2. Eros.com is more expensive but also very popular.

3. I personally don't care for Slixa and don't visit that site. Waste of your money IMO.