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Pollenbroker 24 Reviews 1291 reads
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This is a profession that involves physical intimacy.  Because of that, both providers and hobbyists draw certain boundaries.
The principal sex organ is the brain.  A provider's ability to create a gratifying experience mostly depends on her ability to stimulate you in the head.
I have had BBBJs that were as flat and dry as Death Valley.  
I have had CBJs that were sensuous and push-over-the-edge hot, hot as a firecracker --- check out Natalie Chambers or Trinity Lake if you want an idea.
Is a really hot CBJ as good as a really hot BBBJ?  Well, probably not, but I don't think it's fair to slice the salami that thin.....I've had extremely hot BBBJs followed by really lackluster FS, so the whole experience wasn't that great.  To look at the BJ in isolation is misleading.
Bottom line:  live in your head, not in your dick.

-- Modified on 4/21/2013 10:23:38 PM

jchan1132629 reads

Why do some providers only offer cbj?
Is it disease? Fear of CIM? What?
I get that there may be some case-by-case reasons, but to be in profession and have a blanket policy seems odd.  

Doing some research before asking the question, I learned one of my Potentials does only cbj, so she is off the list. It's sad because she is really hot, but I want what I want.  

I ask out of curiosity, not criticism. Providers can operate anyway they choose. It's their business, so to speak.

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jchan1131709 reads

Ok. If it dumb, then tell me me why? There are numerous providers that offer bbbj, so I imagine your insult is cast at them as well?

Here is an article from the internet.

Syphilis is danger. The greater danger appears to be DATY, but that is not cbj.

So, I ask again....why cbj? Disease?

If it is a preference to avoid CIM, ok.  It is a simple question that does not require an insult to answer. If you you can't answer constructively, why answer?

Related Link: http://std.about.com/od/riskfactorsforstds/a/oralsexsafesex.htm

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jgoodman2221701 reads

Because...

IT IS THEIR BODY AND THEY CAN MAKE WHATEVER CHOICE THEY WANT WITH IT.

Thus endth the lesson.

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jchan1131370 reads

I am all for them making a choice because it is their body. I am not trying to persuade anyone to change their policy. I just want their reasons. Read this with curiosity, not criticism.
The question remains, why do some offer cbj and others bbbj?

So far the answers have been predictable and obvious.  
There are hazards present in all lines of work and this happens to be a potential voluntary hazard, or not.
Unless clients are also engaging in the act as providers, I was hoping for some candid and informative provider feedback. Can we have some

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truetobetold1207 reads

some are more health conscious while others are less...I really don't understand why a CBJ is a deal breakers for some

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belindabell1394 reads

Why can't the reason be as simple as because it is our bodies?  There are many reasons why.

Here are a few:
1.  Disease
2.  Dirty stanky nasty penises.
3.  Cheesy substance under foreskin.
4.  Gag Reflexes (from the taste)
5.  BBBJ is reserved for a real life love relationship.
6. Cavities  

In case you didn't know, there are ways to prevent CIM even with  bbbj.

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jchan1131204 reads

Thank you for answering the question.
This is actually the type of 'against' list I was looking for.
I wish you the best (really!) and there is nothing wrong with your position because it is your body and business.

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fartsonhigher11055 reads

"Why" need not be asked when "personal preference" is sufficient and the possible reasons for that are so common and obvious.  I don't understand why people are so curious in these situations. It just doesn't matter.

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vorlon1184 reads

He asked for provider's perspectives on why some only offer CBJ.  Nothing wrong with trying to understand why some escorts do and others do not.  This is a discussion board after all.

-- Modified on 4/20/2013 11:59:58 PM

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mschambers1465 reads

Most ladies who do CBJ are nervous of what you can catch from that type of contact and also don't enjoy the personal anxiety it causes to be sucking that many bare dicks without knowing where they've been. The pros of CBJ outweigh the cons. I have had many gents say there is only a slight difference. I see no one is really taking interest in this topic so I felt the need to reply.... but search through old threads again with a huge day span and different keywords and you'll find your answers..

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jchan1131331 reads

Thanks. I did a search and did not find similar topic. I know it is a personal decision.

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TrinityLake1661 reads

I don't understand your attackers.  You just seem genuinely curious for the reasons.  I will speak only for myself.  Simply put, I don't trust anyone to not CIM, and it is a disease thing.  That being said, I have done my very best to eliminate the reason most men are against CBJ.  If you ever want to know what I mean by that, you'll have to just take your chances with a lowly CBJ girl ;)  Of course, you don't have to, because there are so many amazing women in the area that offer BBBJ, and there's no need to compromise what you desire!  

As for all the attacking... come on, please!

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jchan1131222 reads

I appreciate your reply because I had thought about seeing you until I read that you are cbj only. I respect your reasons.  

Thank you.

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dxg9641117 reads

jchan....
if that is your nly reason for not seeing Trinity...go see her.  I was on the fence but took the plunge.  Words cant explain how she does this:)

my 2 cents

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jchan1131165 reads

Posted By: dxg964
jchan....  
 if that is your nly reason for not seeing Trinity...go see her.  I was on the fence but took the plunge.  Words cant explain how she does this:)  
   
 my 2 cents  
Oh, Ok.....Do you think she will have me.....?
I am willing to be Pursuaded because she is so sexy....If she can make Portia revv, then I think I may have to give myself to her. Will I be the same afterwards?

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TrinityLake1264 reads

There are plenty of gents for every gal.  You simply want a BBBJ.  If that is the experience you're going for, then go for it!  If you are looking for way more than JUST that, you might want to consider opening yourself up to other possibilities.  

Trinity

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LuvWhitney1418 reads

Come see Trinity and I for a duo's experience.  
She makes me revv too!!! MMMMMMmmmmmmmm ... Don't believe me? Just ask her. LOL!

 
 Otherwise, yes, go see her solo! You'll never be the same! ;-)  

 
Xoxo,
Whitney Cohen

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Pollenbroker1292 reads

This is a profession that involves physical intimacy.  Because of that, both providers and hobbyists draw certain boundaries.
The principal sex organ is the brain.  A provider's ability to create a gratifying experience mostly depends on her ability to stimulate you in the head.
I have had BBBJs that were as flat and dry as Death Valley.  
I have had CBJs that were sensuous and push-over-the-edge hot, hot as a firecracker --- check out Natalie Chambers or Trinity Lake if you want an idea.
Is a really hot CBJ as good as a really hot BBBJ?  Well, probably not, but I don't think it's fair to slice the salami that thin.....I've had extremely hot BBBJs followed by really lackluster FS, so the whole experience wasn't that great.  To look at the BJ in isolation is misleading.
Bottom line:  live in your head, not in your dick.

-- Modified on 4/21/2013 10:23:38 PM

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jchan1131184 reads

As with all of us, to each his own. We are all fortunate to have such a great variety of excellent providers to choose from to satisfy the experience we seek.
In reality, I do not enjoy or seek FS from the hobby.
I only want 1 service done very well.
I seek providers that will do this well and that's it.
In fact, I am not into all the extras in that area, either.  

I appreciate everyone's answers to this "dumbest question".

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