If I've seen a certain provider in the past and there are certain "aspects" of the session that I particularly enjoy, how much emphasis should I put on that without trying to coordinate the session?  If there is a, and I hesitate to use this term, "routine" , that a provider follows, is my voicing my preferences upsetting the apple cart a bit?  I realize that all providers are different but would love for the ladies here to shed some light...I'm not talking about introducing something into the appointment that is new, just more of a good thing...  Example: kissing...there , I said it...lol

There are many who LOVE LOVE LOVE to kiss and there are some who do not like to.  
Be prepared for either result.  I do not think you can go wrong with good open communication.

But I have found that when I compliment a provider on how she is doing something or gently let her know what is enjoyable, I've had great success deriving the most pleasure from activities I desire.  In fact, depending on the personality of the lady, I simply gently suggest we partake in what I like and she is ok with.  While I'm fairly vanilla in my wishes, I've found this to work very well.  Good question and I hope the ladies respond.

Thanks.  In this situation, it's from a provider that included it in the first session and it was amazing!  Just not sure if I want to sound greedy or presumptuous...but like you said, if they LOVE to do it as well...it's a win win situation!!    Personally, I would exchange kissing for other aspects of the session.  But that being, Spontaneity is also good.

good advice...thanks!

Most of the ladies I have met are very willing to lead an encounter, and are very good at leading. Most.....also welcome a little feed back as to what you would like and what makes things good for you. Reviews are your friend and give ideas what might be somethings you can gently request. Once she knows the direction you want to go the fun usually amplfies

lots of ladies love to kiss; lots of ladies love other stuff, too.  Read the reviews and you'll have a head start.

That's a great approach.  One thing I do on a first date with a provider is inquire early on about her boundaries, e.g. "Go ahead and get comfortable."  "OK... but, what will make YOU comfortable?", or, "Is there anything I should know before we start?"  Sometimes the lady states specific ground rules.  Sometimes her response is more like, "I'll let you know if I don't like something (wink)."  I normally have an idea of the ground rules based on reviews, but I like to confirm them with the lady anyway.

At least in my experience, most of the ladies have no problem with emphasizing something you really enjoy so long as they are comfortable with it as well.

I need the client to tell me, ask me, don't be shy, I am there to provide you with a session that you have funded and it is part of the service to give you as much enjoyment that I can. Unless it is something totally bizarre or unclean.safe, etc. I have to admit when you tell me, "I like that can we please have more? or that feels so good is it alright if I keep doing this for awhile, well, it turns me right on, Woman are the same in this respect, hearing that you are pleasing your partner is all part of the intertwine of wants and desires just creates more heat and togetherness. If you like it, that in turn strikes a note with me as a provider and creates such a nice heat! JMHO so go ahead ask, express, tell....