When she's enthusiastic about being there, seeing me, and spending time with me then that's what makes for a great time.

When she makes you fell like a king.  It's mostly like Vorlon said, It's attitude.  But it also is the little things she does too.  Like offering you a water or something, helping clean up, and making you believe that you are the only one for her.

When I spend time with my friends, my world melts away. My pleasure and my companies pleasure is the only thing I focus on.
-I forget I am even giving a service because of the attention to detail I give to the body (mine, his and maybe even hers).

What GFE means to Samantha Good on a physical level:
If a female is really into her boyfriend, she would be willing to try (do) things he liked in bed.
A 'true' girlfriend loves to please her man any way she can (it's always nice when the boyfriend wants to do the same).
Now, if that is a sloppy, dt gagging bj so be it. If it is laying in bed for 3 hours talking and caressing, so be it.

Be in the moment, enjoy yourself and the rest falls into place.

Soft and sensual,
SG

Starts with communication, emails or phone conversations about meeting, presenting she is happy and enthused with prompted replies and is focusing on our possible date. Like she is treating you like a KING, focusing on only you, the date will be GREAT!

That was coming home and finding her naked in bed, with my (former) best friend!  But that's not something I am seeking in a provider.  LOL

On a serious note.  A GFE would be a level of intimacy.  Non rushed, some kissing, some cuddling.
It's more about the quality of the time together than a specific activity.  

But other peoples opinions may differ.

who posted the other responces. As for Ms. Good.... She is descibing, and provides a 10 "once in a lifetime". So her responce is accurate from her perspective, but she is so far over the top......(I'll stop before this becomes a shill for her and a few others.)  I consider myself fortunate to have had a few of those (10 expieriances), includeing a couple I have not done reviews on for various reasons. So I suppose they are not really once in a lifetime... But hey this is all make believe so maybe it is cat lives

It is all about how people click, and the lady can controll a lot of that but not all... It requires chemistry and the guy has to contribute as well. It absolutely takes two.

When I am with a lady such as we are discussing here... I become focused on her, pleasuring her to the best of my ability, trying to read her and respond, and just plain enjoying the moment and the company. For that to happen, she needs to be really into it as well. My physical pleasure is secondary yet assured in such an encounter.

BN

For me it's about sharing, we should both be into the give and take.  A real GFE is accepting of a BFE as well, so there is a level of intimacy.  Kissing, cuddling, are huge.

I think SG sums it up pretty well.  Just have to meet that lady!

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