Women share something very private and special with us .They take a chance on us and share there lives with us.I have the utmost respect for them,as I do every woman.It posses me off when they are bashed in this form.

Yes, we are people with real feelings...

It helps me to see more men, make that gentleman who openly show appreciation for the wonderful ladies who allow us to be intimate with them.  If / when you meet a lady who falls short, write a fair review and DO NOT discredit all of the great ladies who make our life fun.  I don't know how they put up with some of the stuff they are forced to deal with.  I understand completely why a provider would want to see only people she has a good experience with.  
They give so much and ask so little, give them at least a bit of the credit they deserve.

I could not agree more that all these wonderful ladies deserve more respect. In my case I have a disability which makes it more "difficult" to see me as I need assistance with various things, not to mention I'm fairly new to the hobby. As I came into the hobby. I thought it would be difficult to find providers willing to see me due to my situation. But there has been nothing further from the truth. I have had several beautiful respectful, kind ladys reach out to me on this board that were more than happy to see me, despite my situation when they could've just gone to a "easier client (I hope to take some of them up on their offers soon. On top of that, being a "new guy" I have a lot of questions (sometimes probably stupid ones that they hear 1 million times but they feel managed to answer them in a kind and respectful manner. And they do all this without much respect given to them by the outside world. I can tell you as a person with a disability. If I got as much respect from the outside world as I do from these wonderful ladies, the world would be a lot better place and they deserve kudos for this.

The White Knight Cavalry has arrived!

Mysogyny, it strikes deep
Into your life it will creep
It starts when you're bummed being laid
Pay three Bens; feel like you have been made.

Are you guys (except Derpdydo) going to get better service after your "respect" posts?  Let me know because I'm going to start practicing my ass-kissing if it works.  

Nobody is kissing ass here. It's just a request for people to quit being assholes and show a little dignity and respect. Nobody is any better than  anybody else here. Quit looking down your noses at these ladies because of your preconceived notions about them.

http://www.returnofkings.com/29162/why-white-knights-voluntarily-enslave-themselves-to-women

get some sort of special treatment. It makes some people feel good about themselves to pay other's compliments or show appreciation. Some people are just genuinely nice--They let people over on the highways and hold doors for the elderly...and maybe even say something nice just to let one other person smile.

I love the Top 5 Posts This Week:

Pardon me for my anger but it's Buffalo Springfield!

I've met several ladies here whose ass I would love to kiss! (Some I have!)

Hey I not only hold doors open for the elderly I always hold the door open for  ladies.
That's the way my mother raised me.  

I kiss ass as much as I can, and you know what...I've been rewarded with many memorable experiences. But lets define kissing Ass.  

Count me as guilty too.......to all of the above!!

If you weren't kissing ass, then what is it? You and the WKs knew the providers would read your posts. You all knew they would read them. Stop kidding yourself and get a grip. You portray it as being nice to people cuz that's the way your momma raised you. Well, I highly doubt your momma would approve of you being a hobbyiest and then kissing the providers asses on top of that. Don't get morally righteous on us.

He got the Stills and Young part correct

Someone mentions White Knights and you mention Misogyny.  Is that an acknowledgment that WKs are truly manginas?

Let's take the "pathetic behavior" (ass kissing, White Knighting, and even politicking) out of the context of the hobby and into the real world.  
How many of us have kissed ass to advance our own agenda??? Job promotion (at any level), impress someone of the opposite sex, Get your kid on the traveling sports team, Close a big deal with a client, Get a political agenda past etc... I could go on and on. This behavior that many people on this board have issue with is deeply woven into the fabric of our society.

I don't know... I'm new here, so take this with a grain of salt, but I see a lot of bickering in here and some downright childish behavior. It comes with the whole "anonymous posting" thing, and I get that. It doesn't mean the people participating in the bickering are defined by this, right? They may be perfectly average people who just feel a little more brave/aggressive while online sometimes.  

You guys just reiterated my point, Abby, you as well. I could care less if you were excited to see me based in my posts. Super, there is a huge difference from the real world and p4p. If you don't see the difference, hopefully you'll figure it out one day.

I don't respect or disrespect anyone based on what they do for a living.  That includes preachers, teachers, hookers and their johns.  

There is NOT a huge difference from the real world and p4p, people are people and assholes are assholes. If you don't see the difference, hopefully you'll figure it out one day. If you want to see pathetic, look in the mirror.

Guess you were taught it's ok to see hooker even if your married.  I agreed with the ass kissing, that's all that your doing here.

Couldn't agreed more, well said, 2late.

Did your mom raised you to see hookers too?

Posted By: klumberg

Hey I not only hold doors open for the elderly I always hold the door open for  ladies.  
 That's the way my mother raised me.  

What you mentioned below is NOT ass-kissing, its compliment/show of appreciations.

If I had the time, I would have typed something similar as below. I totally agreed.

The choice to see an escort really has no bearing on whether some one is nice or not. The way you choose to conduct yourself and interact with others is what sets the good people apart from the bad people.

If it'll make you happy,I invite you to come and make me smile.  

Posted By: AbbyEmerson

I don't know... I'm new here, so take this with a grain of salt, but I see a lot of bickering in here and some downright childish behavior. It comes with the whole "anonymous posting" thing, and I get that. It doesn't mean the people participating in the bickering are defined by this, right? They may be perfectly average people who just feel a little more brave/aggressive while online sometimes.  
   
 So how hard is it to believe that there are some out there trying to share some extra chivalry here on the boards? Just as some of us like to rock the boat for effect, doesn't it stand to reason there may be some who play the other side for the opposite effect?  
   
 At the same time, there isn't always ulterior motives on either side. I think there are some guys who genuinely enjoy making the women in their lives (even the P4P ones) feel special. I know I feel better when I make a stranger smile. Does that make me a WK in women's clothing? Knowing this, I know there are some who just have a bone to pick with the world and enjoy getting people riled up.  
   
 With this in mind, I know of some in here I would be wary or excited to meet based solely on these posts.  
   
 Because, really, that's all I have to go on right now, right?  
   
 I think OP was just fine in trying to remind us all to be a little more courteous. I didn't see it as ass-kissing. Definitely not to the level of the shill posts, and those are generally left alone.  
   
 Again, I'm new here. I'm still feeling things out. I only know one of you IRL and, while I hope to expand that number by a bit, these posts are helping me figure out who I'm excited to meet and who I'm not. Just try to remember how you come across when you post. None of can truly say what the motives of each other are, and it can be very hard to convey our true thoughts in text. I think that's where smilies come in handy.  
   
 I hope this didn't come across as bitchy. I'm really a nice positive person. It's why I really liked seeing the OP message. It felt like an honest attempt at changing the temperature of the room. I just wish it had worked better.  
   
 It's springtime, the weather is about to get warm, let's smile a little!  
   
 Warm hugs!!  
 -Abby  
   
 

Sex slaves get knocked up so this is something to be passed down for generations...

I agree these girl's are more than capable of standing up for themselves. I don't think the original OP was about standing up for anyone. It was more a plea for civility in the way we treat these women here, a reminder that they to are flesh and blood with real feelings. As usual though when anyone writes something nice like this out come the same old ass-kissing, white night, looking for special privileges charges and that these women are "just hookers" and the ONLY thing they care about is our money. Well yes this is a business but in my business I always treated my customers with respect and I and I did the same for the vendors I purchased services from. And when those vendors met or exceeded expectations I had no problem letting them know or telling others who were looking for those same services.

You are relegated to spending your hobby dollars on 5 and 6 experiences because of the way you choose to present yourself. I choose to present myself as a hail fellow well met rather than the caustic scourge on humanity that you choose to be.

Superski,

Agree 100% with this.

Crosby Stills and Nash. Neil Young joined Crosby Stills and Nash to form Buff Springfield and covered the song with them  but by then it was a big song although Young's melodies on the electric guitar renewed its popularity.

...by not being here.

Tell me where all the woman bashing is and where the girls are being treated like a piece of meat and I'll apologize and shut up.  

What does ass kissing in the job force get you?  Some mid level manager, someones lap dog and yes man job.  Sure you've gained a couple more dollars but sold your self respect and the respect of those around you.  How many people known as "Brown Nosers" have any real respect from their colleagues?

I've seen more fighting over the most punitive issues over the past several days than collectively in months. Jeesh! The rainy weather must really be getting to folks.  

... that someone doing a kindness for another, asking for more respect for others, would be considered "pathetic."

If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Still missing the point.

Same principle as investing money...you want to invest and not touch the principal, live off the interest, and hopefully your money keeps growing to support future generations.

Go ahead and be an ass kisser all you want. But putting it on a message board is pathetic. If you think ass kissing is okay, then do it but keep it in the company, email, phone conversations, with said provider. If I posted as many times as the white knights on shill Friday or any other post they do, I would be branded. Enough with the bleeding,  stop already.

OMG Leah, you are so flipping awesome!  Every time I read your posts it's like an angel visited my computer and placed these words on my screen.

It was done in '66 when Stills was a member of Buffalo Springfield.  Stills did write it though.

To steer clear of hookers.

you have solved the age old question- what really are WhiteKnights

I think you were referring to Buffalo Springfield.

Unless maybe you pay me 3 bills an hour.