It depends on the arrangement. Ideally, it would be a casual arrangement, like booty-calls with drinks and dinner dates.

Done it.  Currently dating a UTR one........works out fine.

...but I'm open to alternate relationships.
Now...are you going to introduce yourself to the board with a photo and a website and some reviews?

(and I think you may) drop me a line.

Given the right chemistry think I would be ok with it, think it could be the same type of friends with benefits that I have been looking for since my divorce.

Yes, depending on what the rules are. I'm no paragon; I've cheated before. But depending on the ground rules, if there were mutual feelings and interests, yes.

when one person "falls in love"? As a casual relationship, it sounds like dating a provider might be great fun.

However, I think it would be tough to make it last.

...working name. I know some other providers have done the same thing. I won't ask you what your working name is.
I can understand your anxiety about having reviews on you posted here on TER. They are pretty explicit, by design. Since you've been a member for a while, I'm sure you're familiar with the rules about provider TER accounts and reviews. Can reviews be legally implicating? Not really. Reviews are merely hearsay. Just because someone writes something about you on a public forum like this, whether it's good or bad, doesn't mean that's it's true. Deny, deny, deny. I can compare this to our current political campaign season where candidates are airing ads in which they make wild allegations about their opponents that are clearly lies or at least grievously misleading. If a provider gives her clients the best service she can within her advertised menu limitations, good reviews can only help her. We've had probably thousands of posts in which we remind each other to only see well reviewed providers, and that's the way I hobby. Other guys enjoy seeing non reviewed providers. If that's the  way they want to hobby, and if that's the way you choose to be, I have no problem with that. In the end, I try to keep it light, keep my mind open and always remind myself;

                                     'Relax....it's just sex!'

First off, the provider would need to indicate to me that she'd be open to a dating/intimate relationship. I get the impression that clients pushing requests for dating, 'serious' relationships, offers to 'manage' her provider business, etc., are both not uncommon and not appreciated. Those kind of clients turn into stalkers, and I refuse to become one of them.

With that said, if a provider made it plain that she wanted to date me, I'd have to imagine it was for some reason other than sex. Despite my male ego and my best efforts, I'm pretty sure I'm not the best fuck a provider's ever had, and even if I were, why would she date me and do for nothing what we've been doing pretty regularly for donations? I mean, I get why I'd want that deal, but why would she? (And if her idea of 'dating' is just longer sessions including dinner and travel for bigger donations, well, that's not dating, just advanced providing.)

Instead, I'd think she'd offer to date me based on enjoying spending time together, having compatible personalities and shared interests (other than sex): in other words, the same reasons a non-provider might want to date me. And if I honestly felt the same, I'd definely try a relationship with a provider.

The one caveat to that interest would be that I know that I'm not poly - I have a number of poly friends, but I'm not wired to be able to live that lifestyle. If the provider's interest was actually in having me join her poly family, I'd have to decline.

You have to navigate the boundaries, and the guy has to have a strong ego, but it can be done.

I consider any 1/2hr session a "fling" and any session 1hr+ to be a "relationship", providing the "bare-essentials" were provided...

She would have to bring the idea up and convince me she was seriously interested in this.  And I would not be easy to convince; I've heard too many tales of this sort of thing going really badly.

I would be fine with her continuing to be an escort.

Can't say I'd expect a provider girlfriend to stop providing, just as she wouldn't expect me to quit my job.

I imagine the biggest challenge in having a relationship with a provider would be expectations about how much time we'd spend together. At some point, we'd get to the point where she'd get a call from a regular and choose to entertain him rather than stay home with me. Intellectually, it would make sense that she'd want to earn money, but the first time feeling like I was less important to her than the hobby would be difficult to handle.

I also have been there and done that.

The gal I hung out with was meet in my normal life.  I knew of the hobby as I had a good friend in college do it.  Fortunately I was brought up to be open minded.  Does being an escort make that person a bad person, no!  We all have our reasons for what we do.  I found out what she did due to inconsistencies in her stories.  Remember if you are observant you can learn a tremendous amount about someone.  It went well for awhile and then I learned it just wasn't the right timing for us.  

Would I do it again?  Yes in a heartbeat!  Most of the quality escorts I have met have been some of the most intelligent and capable women I have ever met.

not at the moment. Looks like I mistook Diva for someone else.

In a New York minute, why wouldn't you. If you have great chemistry and truly enjoy each other you just remove the donation and go out enjoy the "normal" parts of dating. After all they are women with real lives to live.

After reading this I think I know who you are, at lest your working name. Send me a message, so we can chat in private.

Really. Being a courtesan is a job. Many men may not be able to get their big heads around that, but it is true. The jealousy thing rears its ugly head. But once you are over that, it becomes just another job.

So the answer to your question is yes, but no more or less than I would anyone else with any kind of job. It depends what kind of a person they are.

I saw a young lady yesterday that i have a crush on

Posted By: DivaLady

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,

Ive worked as an Assistant/Screener for quite some time and recently decided to throw in my hat
with the ladies and start "providing"

Its been pretty awesome, yet I have a question, because recently had a client say..
" Too bad you are not on the market " in regards to dating..

Im a pretty open individual and have been in open type dating relationships and identify as Poly..

I myself would love to date and work as well ,, but how does one go about doing that? lol

But I wanted to hear opinions of my fellow Minnesotans ,, ladies and gents..
Plus I thought it would be an interesting topic of conversation.

Thankyou in advance

~Diva xoxo

I would love your input on this ,, as