If you are a lady giving bj, how does a guy putting his hands on your head affect you?  Do you like when he plays with your hair, has both hands on the sides of your head and just goes with your movements or maybe even pushing on your head as well?

I don't recall ever assisting her head movement while tending to my head but I suppose I'd consider it if requested.  

I've had all different types of things said by the girls while they're giving me a BJ. Just a few examples are pull my hair...don't touch my hair...fuck my mouth/face...don't move, let me move my mouth...oowww...gag gag..deeper...

... for grabbing a solid hank of her hair in my hand and using it as a handle to move her head just the way I like it. One time, long ago, I did it without first negotiating a clear understanding and agreement with the lady. That learning experience has stayed with me. She didn't actually hurt me for my presumption, but the tongue lashing I received was  not the one I'd been hoping for.  

Although I do sometimes encourage her to adjust her pace, etc. to what would feel best for me.

I've sucked a lot of dick and found you guys are all different in what gets you off. Some like it fast and hard, some like it more sensual. Some like me to stare into their eyes and some it makes uncomfortable. Some like their balls played with and others prefer I use that hand to play with your ass.  Well actually not to many of you don't like their balls fondeled in some way, lol.  It's not too hard to figure out by your reactions.  You can do whatever you want to my head and hair as long as you don't jerk it around really hard, a few times I've had a sore neck the next day. Just move it the way you want it and I'll get the message.  As long as I'm not physically uncomfortable I'll do whatever you want to make it hot for you.

Agreed.  And equally important, I just let her do my thing.

I like to reach down and hold a boob, not enough boob holding in life.
slowly up and down, tongue and lips on the head and wet.
the ones that do it good, don't need directing, it's just good.

Not to hijack the thread...but welcome back Freyja....are you back working?

Sorry guys I'm not that Freyja.  I'm a new one that posts with a alias so you guys can get some insightful and helpful answers without the usual b.s. from the uninformed and delusional johns and the escorts worried about disrupting their cash flow, like me .  Everyone wins.

from one in three posts to one in five largely because of attacks on them for posts as you have noted.  I hope more women come on as aliases. The board is better for having you here

I'll come to this party wearing my Portia Eden Attire.....

I agree 100% with what you said "Freyja".   No two guys are the same in how they "like it"....there is no one standard way to suck a cock.

lol.

Re: I'll come to this party wearing my Portia Eden Attire.....

My eyes open, My eyes closed. It doesn't matter to me.......just as long as it's you  

In my humble opinion you are one of the very best in the biz and exactly what we need more of.  If I had a cock I would want you sucking it.  I've even gotten a tiny bit jealous hearing the boys rave about your skills.  In person your sexuality energy is electric.  Hopefully one day I'll have the pleasure of having your face buried in my lap... of course I'll reciprocate.  A girl can dream.

Eyes closed, slow with lots of tongue for an extended period of time.

Everyone wins?  Not sure I agree.  The original was a real sweetheart!  With such an unusual name.  Not sure she'd agree with you.  

All of that works for me and sound real good right about now.

Nothing better than staring a beautiful woman in the eyes when she's got her lips wrapped firmly around the base of my tool and feeling the head of it throbbing in her throat... With her long hair tickling my thighs and a gleam in her eye knowing she's got it all in...  Ahhhhhh heaven.....  Now just gotta find that woman!!