Okay you happy hobbyists......What is your preference/desire?

When you arrive.....do you desire a scent-filled room from scented candles?

How about a woman clothed in sheer....exposing nips for you to explore?  Personally I like black negligees, but I look good in red too.

Glass of wine?

Music?  Kenny G.......Frank Sinatra?

Get right to the deal?

I would LOVE to read your thoughts.  So would a lot of us to "provide" better.

Black negligees - especially on blonds! One that gives a clue about whats underneath but does not give everything away.

Being pretty new to the hobby (3 experiences thus far, with first review pending), I am starting to get a feel for what I prefer and how I like things to start off and progress from there.

With regards to attire, I think my preference would be to see the lady in something sexy but not too revealing. I like to leave a little to the imagination when I first walk in which helps build the anticipation of what is to come. I am also finding that I like to start things off a little slower, rather than disrobing and jumping right into things moments after the door closes, with some chatting to break the ice all the while, ideally, kissing, cuddling and letting the hands slowly start to explore each other. For me anyway, it's just a preference of trying to reach a certain level of comfort before getting too into things.

For ambiance, relaxing music with volume up just enough to hear but not loud enough to distract, though back round music is ultimately not required for me. Somewhat lower level lighting, to set the mood, is nice, just not too low level as I do very much enjoy the visual of who I'm with. If things are a little too dark in the room, I would be missing out on something I very much enjoy.

So those are my own preferences regarding the topic. Hopefully you or someone else will find them useful.

Agreed, but thro in some nice red wine to talk over and I think we are set.  I also enjoy being flirted with or tempted into starting the fun rather than being jumped at the door!

Love sexy clad dress, either negligees or a really hot dress.  Often enjoy feeling like I'm being seduced. Mood lighting is always great either candle lit of low lighting.  Nice mood music is good, nothing to loud or top 40ish.  

Good to see back on the board Cates have missed you.

I would say something sexy but not too revealing, like to have fun removing or watching you remove them, Im partial to black white and dresses or skirts.

Music is always a good idea, soft enough to fill the room but not so loud that we cant talk normally over the music.

I dont have a significant other so I dont mind the scents however I know other people would.

Being new, and at the bottom of the age bracket most providers prefer seeing, I would have to say light scent candles are fine, no Kenny G here though Ol Blue eyes would be fine.  Depending on the pace of the meeting some rock would be ok too.  Sheer is ok, but thigh highs and a matching set would be perfect

similar to others here....I love something sheer but not too revealing.  The atmosphere should be candlelight with soft music. I love candles! All senses are fun to explore and stimulate so I love even some excessive perfume ; and the room scents there but more subdued. I also love the feeling of being seduced and teased or led into things, and then I can take over, - so jumping right into things seems to feel slightly rushed. I feel a deep welcoming kiss at the door is not "jumping into it" and that is good. It is exciting for for me to see you "strut" (walk) and all kinds of thoughts go through my head just being able to see you walk away from me or around the room a little. A glass of wine seems to almost be a symbolic sign for a little "relaxation" and I always welcome that.....it's a great icebreaker. Sexy talk and asking me if I like what you have done to get ready, or if I like what I see, helps me feel special and welcome.   ...Thanks for asking !

As is often the case, moderation in all things so long as one doesn't over do it.

Some scented candles are nice, but too many is oppressive.  I also have a tendency to hobby during the daylight hours, so candles are often not very noticeable.  Leave the perfume in the bottle, please.  Nothing smells better on a lovely woman than soap and water.

Sheer cloth is great.  A sundress or just a nice bathrobe with nothing on underneath can be fun as well.  Leaving the thigh highs on throughout the encounter is a turn on to say the least.

Sinatra.  Definitely.  Dean Martin, Bobby Darrin, basically the whole American Standards catalogue and you have me at your mercy.

I've always enjoyed a pseudo-passionate DFK right inside the door prior to gift exchange.  Really sets the mood right and eliminates any slight nervousness, especially if it is a first encounter.  On the other hand, an immediate drop to the knees during the first two minutes is a bit much, in my opinon.  Speaking only for myself, chatting on the couch for the first fifteen minutes is not why either of us is there.  Others may have a different agenda.

You have to promise not to read my thoughts if we get together.  Some things are just private, but I really envy your ability to do that.

I personally like scented candles, it adds a nice touch.
I met one lady that went so far as to use red light bulbs in the hotel lamps.  I thought that was a really neat thing for her to do and told her so.

As far as dress, I'm a sucker for thigh highs or fishnets.  Nothing sexier than a lovely lady dressed with some thigh highs, garter, and very little else on.

Music, I'd love to walk in to a room and have her crank up some AD/DC, Shook me all night long!  I have yet to have that done, but would be amazing!

Heels, that's all you need.  Stay behind the door until I'm in, close the door, few words and maybe a kiss while you're unbuttoning my jeans and pulling my pants down as you kneel down and take me deep into your mouth.  If done right, I wouldn't notice a 3 piece band in the corner of the room....That's my kind of start to a nice encounter!

Maybe once we hit the mattress, Ride of the Valkyrie would be nice, lol!

The atmosphere could be candlelight with soft music, a sexy clad lady in either negligees or a really hot dress accented with a pair of CFM heels.  Enjoy feeling like I'm being seduced.   A deep welcoming kiss at the door would set all senses in motion.   Atmosphere at the end of the session; with me leaving a sexy clad women would not only make the session more memorable but make my return to her  sooner and more likely.  I have experienced providers that dress after my time with them in some very unflattering attire that make me question my desire to see them again even though our time was great together.

The red wine, the soft romantic music, scent filled room. all these things add greatly to the experience in my opinion.

I don't really care much about scents but candles are a nice touch for an evening appointment.  I like somewhat revealing clothing, the kind that teases by showing some with the promise of even better to come.  I usually prefer to have something to drink between rounds.  I like to get started with some nice kissing mixed in with some conversation and then down to the fun.  Afterwards, having some good conversation while resting up for the second round is idea.

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