So a certain someone recently posted a review during my visit to Chicago/Milwaukee.

I need opinions... If the appointment starts off on the wrong foot (this person NCNS me one day, and then rescheduled the next so I already had a sour taste in my mouth about him)...

Would you rather I end the appointment right away, and send you on your way (with your $$ in YOUR hands - no hard feelings) and save your money for another appointment? Or that I continue the appointment and risk not having a good time because of the awkwardness/rudeness that's occurred?

Please bear in mind this person walked into my room, immediately asked for a discount, and started asking about 'menu'. The 3 rules you just don't break...

Thanks!

*kisses*

~Tiffany~

First, it doesn't make much sense to me that you would reschedule with the guy at all if the prior NCNS were the only issue.   Why reschedule and when you have this big concern about the risk for him not having a good time.  Sounds to me like your real issue was with the other things you mentioned which I think most seasoned providers would consider cause for ending things at the start.  

Its pretty clear you are referring to this review:
www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?ID=161235

His version makes it a bit more of a gray issue as it appears the NCNS aspect might have been an honest misunderstanding and the discount thing might have been about how he felt jerked around with regard to location and the delays which were more on you, although not exactly your fault.  I also don't think its all that unusual for a guy to ask about the menu once you are both naked and clearly beyond the point of any real LE risk.  And did you screen him otherwise?  




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......my two cents is politely refuse the appointment and send him on his way.

Also, you have enough great reviews.....including from me , to not worry too much about that guy in Milwaukee.

See you again soon!

and nobody wins.  Not sure if it is such a good idea to bring this up to the MN board. Not good PR for you, IMO.
Since you already had his money, his question was fairly legitimate. If he wasn't TER then not knowing your menu is a good question.  Or, you can say, "don't worry abut the menu", or something like that.
His question about the discount was also legit- mix up the day before and his patience waiting for the hair dryer repair. I do think you should have at least suggested some additional time-

But, since you didnt keep his money, I give you credit for that.

Did you ever repay "morning-glory," the guy who wrote your first review and described you as "a total rip off?"  He said you ripped him off for $300. Or, was there more to that story too?

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=775914

This is a situation where I think you are best served by not drawing attention to the review given the overall good review history you have.  Sometimes shit happens.  I will say that not keeping any of his money speaks well of you IMHO.

None of us know exactly what went on in that room.  But, BOTH parties agree that there was no chemistry, and they weren't getting along all that well.  And, Both agree that Tiffany refunded ALL the guys money.   Many providers would have given the guy minimal service, and kept his money, or told him to leave, and kept part of it.  Tiffany did the right thing.  The weren't getting along, it wasn't going to get any better (for either of them) so she made a complete refund.  The hobbiest was out some time and travel, but no money.  I am sure he could take his $300 and still get laid that night.  So, no loss.  

I have no idea how it all started, or who might have been more accommodating, but it ended up fairly for both parties.  I am not taking sides. I am just going with the information that he said AND she said.  I guess you could call that enough verifiable information.

If I were the kind of guy who'd try this kind of emotional blackmail, I'd probably not be satisfied with anything less than BBFS for free.

If I were to NCNS a provider, I'd expect to be the one to make concessions to get back in her good graces.

As for 'he said, she said', my own experience is that the party with more to lose tends to be more honest - if a man has nothing to lose, he has no reason not to lie.

My opinion is, as a client I want to have some fun. If you are sure you are not going to be any fun, the best thing might be to end the appointment right away, but do not expect no hard feelings.

I would suggest that you try to put your "sour taste" aside and try to start over, possibly offering a token discount or extra time (if available) and really try to rock his world. Hopefully he leaves happy and you can choose to avoid him in the future if you wish.

This is not the easiest thing to do. I worked in customer service for 12 years and had to service the customer with a smile even if they were poor customers.

Joe

Since a lot of this discussion involves my review, I guess I should weigh in. I posted the review and was going to let the matter drop at that. Then I received an email from another member warning me that if I did so that Tiffany would threaten to blacklist me. Sure enough I received an email from Tiffany saying just that. My reply to her was that I stood by my review, I had no intention of ever booking with her again, and did not wish to discuss the matter further. I told her that if I did end up on a blacklist I would release the email she sent me on to the boards.  I am not sure if I should do that right now or not. If you read my review, I made it very clear that there was a mutual misunderstanding regarding the scheduling of the appointment, and I was very apologetic about it when I contacted Tiffany about it. Unfortunately I did not receive her messages because my phone was off and I expected our meeting was the following day. Things obviously did not go well, but I was very clear about the sequence of events in my review, and I believe that I was fair.  The appointment did prove to be a waste of time, but I gave her what I thought was a fair review. If you read my reviews, you will find them fair, obviously individuals have different tastes and experiences. I have walked out on providers who do not post accurate pics or it feels wrong, I try and give the members here an accurate account of what happened, and my opinions of the providers looks and performance. I was fair to Tiffany, I gave her credit for a nice body and for the refund, but it was not a good experience and I think other members here deserve to know, because I would expect you to do the same. I considered the matter closed, until it was dredged up again. I think Tiffany needs to move on. I have.

Having been in sales most of my life, understanding customer satisfaction is important. Knowing your customers have access to TER I think it may be good to decline an appointment if you feel off about the date.
However, I've been in situations where I thought this is not going to end well and have turned a bad situation into a great ending.
Having read the review, in retrospect maybe you should have sent him away.  You are in most regards selling a product, the reviewer has been mostly dining at McDonalds. Your menu is a bit above his regular dining establishments. His view was he has had better at McDonalds for less.
A  Good lesson I have always told people when we are shipping a product "pretty sells". Polish that car, wipe the fingerprints off, empty the ashtray .
I would rather have had my phone call go unanswered, and got a quarter pounder when I was looking for steak.
Please, no disregard for you. If I show up in flip flops and shorts my customers are not likely to write a check for big bucks.
I am looking forward to dining with you.
S.H.

Providers threatening reviewers over poor reviews is much more serious than a poor review on its own.  The problem as I see it in this case is that it is hard to prove anything one way or another.  In such situations, truth is a three edged sword.  Whom do we believe and why? This could easily turn into a train wreck that accomplishes nothing useful.  I would suggest that both parties take their dispute offline and settle it there.

Really. This is not acceptable. That sort of behavior is loutish. That, and once you have some hostility/resentment built up, I can only imagine it's very difficult to do a good job. He was very lucky you saw him anyway. He should have been grateful you did. I will be happy to see you again, as always.

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I hope you will be returning to Milwaukee again.  I saw your ad, but could not free up my schedule to set an appointment this time.  One bad review among all the other good ones would not change my opinion about seeing you.  I think it's best to move on and not dwell on this.  It does no good.

Well first off, I would never threaten anyone. And I most definitely did not. I simply just asked an honest opinion of others, not for it to turn into a dramatic dispute on the boards. In regards to the "accusations" this will be my only response. To those who gave their opinion to my question, thank you!

http://theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=21&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=fuck&SearchType=1&Author=stef&DayFrom=9999&DayTo=0&MessageID=85437&frmSearch=1

http://theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=21&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=victoria&SearchType=1&Author=DJ!&DayFrom=9999&DayTo=0&MessageID=84338&frmSearch=1

Tiff,

I have never and will never do what this "not so gentleman" did!  Treat each other as you would like to be treated and all will end well.  I have always wanted but never had the chance to see you in Milwaukee, next time I will.  

Good luck and I hope to see you!

Be Safe and Great!!

Kevin

I simply think it is better if they resolve their differences privately rather than having yet another train wreck littering the boards.

If I was referring specifically to that thread, I would have linked to it myself.

I would rather have you be up front, call things off and send me packing. If I make you uncomfortable or we start with friction (and not the right kind ) it would be hard for you to be at your best. This could lead to the negative things guys post about providers, i.e. "she is a clock watcher", "she just laid there",  or "she was not into it".
My best interactions have been with providers who I have clicked with and I feel like I have clicked with them. When I feel like we can both be comfortable, I have more fun, because the provider is also having a good time.
I would rather save my money and you save your reputation. Besides, if he is starting with breaking the rules with you, it has the potential for a lot of "no", "stop", and "I don't do that" as he pushes what you will let him do.

Just my thoughts.

thread?

What's your point?