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vorlon 119 Reviews 1551 reads
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This is not a service like any other.  Because of the intimate nature of what they do, I believe the ladies have every right to decline to see certain clients for whatever reason.  Depending on what that reason is, I may think very little of it but it's their call, not mine.  And better to be up front about it than have an unpleasant moment when you get to her door or vice-versa.

rambleon11710 reads

So many ads I see these days by women of color as well as white providers say, "No back males." What's a black man to do? Does that include other non-white males such as Asian or males of African descent? Are Latino's okay? I am not African American or black and have never been but it seems like eliminating the problem of dealing with pimps (who I assume are always black??) by refusing to see black males is like saying all Muslims are terrorists type way of thinking. Is there more to this than I know? Just curious.

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Its_U_I_Know1920 reads

Too Bookoo?

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MsChayse1776 reads

You've been on these boards long enough that you have the answers to that question. Not to mention you've witnessed the Train Wreaks that are incited EVERY TIME this question comes up.

I was going to break out the popcorn & beer, but instead, I think I'll just open a nice bottle of Merlot, & curl up with a good Lifetime Movie.

Happy, Happy New Year!

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Drumsticks1586 reads

....a veteran poster would even bring it up again on this board. By the way, do you know who the fuck shot J.R.???

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MsChayse1154 reads

Ok Drummy! You owe me a keyboard! ROLMAO!

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happy39guy1286 reads

The exact quote was "What we have here, little yellow sister, is a magnificent specimen of pure Alabama Blacksnake. But it ain't too goddamned beaucoup".

Full Metal Jacket was one of the best movies of all time...

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Apollo-x1491 reads

Lead to animosity, speculation, innuendo or worse.
I am also a firm believer that providers are free to be intimate with whoever they choose, and preferences do not necessarily translate into racism. This is not corporate America that we are dealing with here.

Of course I know the MN crowd is above turning this subject into a train wreck, right ;)



PS: I have nothing against trains. I have conducted a few of them in my day with devastating results :)

-- Modified on 12/30/2011 9:36:21 AM

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LuckyLuver1479 reads

Thank you Apollo, hopefully everyone behaves.... lets hope so. Providers have a right to see whoever they choose. I doubt if its a racial thing, probably just a preferance, I would think.

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vorlon1552 reads

This is not a service like any other.  Because of the intimate nature of what they do, I believe the ladies have every right to decline to see certain clients for whatever reason.  Depending on what that reason is, I may think very little of it but it's their call, not mine.  And better to be up front about it than have an unpleasant moment when you get to her door or vice-versa.

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rambleon11054 reads

there is more to the answer than what I think I know. I'm sorry that people can't be civil and I get tired of lectures from Leann!

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TC Guy1600 reads

Because they are more likely to be pimps/thugs.

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gingermpls1298 reads

I don't care what you are ! What I  filter for is professionalism , being able to communicate CLEARLY, and only asking me BASIC questions.

If you are not professional acting on the phone , your pretty likely to be the same in person

If you use "slang" such as " I can tap that twice" or "I seen your ad your a dime" "can I make your booty bigger"- lol jk I like that one :)

If your can't understand me when I say $230 for the hour and you reply " $$100 the hour " in a forgein accent 2 times after I told you my rate no

and /, or asking me vulgar questions bbbj, Greek, even gfe and kissing is too much !

Posted By: ldm51560
So many ads I see these days by women of color as well as white providers say, "No back males." What's a black man to do? Does that include other non-white males such as Asian or males of African descent? Are Latino's okay? I am not African American or black and have never been but it seems like eliminating the problem of dealing with pimps (who I assume are always black??) by refusing to see black males is like saying all Muslims are terrorists type way of thinking. Is there more to this than I know? Just curious.

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beyes5872071 reads

Yes, I understand everyone has the right to see who they want to.  I also recognize everyone has filters. But first, the lunacy about pimps and thugs pejorative.  It's that stereotypical BS that puts more of a sting in this issue.  Equally, 99.9% of the ads single out African American males; rarely any other racial groups. Finally where I am not happy when I see it in a provider's ad, at least they have the decency to post their preferences, where many do not,  leaving one to ask the question if they see African American men. I hate doing it, but it is a necessary evil.

As far as asking about particular services...to use a 2011 term; Really? Only African American men ask about services?  Let's don't get altruistic here, this is an adult entertainment clearinghouse site where your services and performance are listed.

Wishing everyone a happy and prosperous New Year.

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mark.4444862 reads

It's a complex subject where the rights of the individual and the rights of society clash on the most basic level. To me, the rights of the individual almost always trump, so then it just comes down to a matter of style. By the way, 411 asks about weight, smoking, circumcision and more! Which questions are PC and which are not? Anyway, here's the pic:

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beyes587806 reads

Frankly, I don't get the point of the picture.

As I said before, we all have filters.  We all have prejudices.  The difference is when you are in a position of power. RACISM is where one's filters and prejudices are institutionalized, normally to the detriment or exclusion of the targeted racial group.  

Democracy has always been messy in US history. Freeing of the slaves, women getting the right to vote, Japanese enternment camps, integration of the armed forces, integration of various sports, eating at certain facilities, attending the university of your choice, voting, Americans with Disablities Act, Gays openly serving in the military and I could go on. Rights changed, in spite of and because of individual filters and prejudices.

So frankly, I won't spend a lot of brainpower worrying that someone won't see me in this hobby, whatever their motivation is. But to not be cognizant of it, on all the levels of motivation?  Well...

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mark.4444888 reads

On it's most basic level, this classic modification of a restaurant sign describes what happens when government gets involved.

The sign could and should, I suppose, be much longer to include any group that has an identified status. The "joke" of the pic is that they literally can't refuse service to (pretty much) anyone because of legal protections.

Any deeper levels one chooses to bring to the pic are up to the individual. Kind of like poetry ... make of it what you will beyond the obvious.

Anybody remember "Deep Thoughts by Jack Handy" from SNL?

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