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I think its probably the same for ladies also, when spending time with a friend, I want it to be all about us- simple and sexy as that. J. xxxoo

What is one thing that could detract from an otherwise good appointment?  For me it's if the lady begins (unsolicited) negative conversation about other ladies.  If it's done in a positive sense like "she's great for doubles" or "someone else you might like", I'm OK with that.  It's negative comments that detract from an otherwise good appointment for me.

Ladies and gents, looking for your thoughts on the topic

Posted By: xxxray31
What is one thing that could detract from an otherwise good appointment?  For me it's if the lady begins (unsolicited) negative conversation about other ladies.  If it's done in a positive sense like "she's great for doubles" or "someone else you might like", I'm OK with that.  It's negative comments that detract from an otherwise good appointment for me.  
   
 Ladies and gents, looking for your thoughts on the topic.  
 

Agreed and it's by far the exception to the rule.  So what would your distracting moment be?

BTW, I meant to say I'm looking for input on my general question, not my particular observation.

When a guy is doing it, that makes me not want to engage as much or be as friendly & outgoing to them because who knows what kind of gossiping he would do regarding me ?
Another thing I find distracting is people who are attached to their mobile phones.
Please.  Knock it off and put that away. It's not a fun time if I have to keep stopping whilst you take calls on my time.

Wouldn't I as the client paid for that time?

It's mine too because I don't like having to leave my other job just for someone to ruin it all being a meanie or a gossip or to sit on their phone the whole time .  
Imagine trying to eat dinner or cuddle and there's this big light in your face because they won't get off the internet...booooo hisss!  
 This is not just for you. Remember that . ;-)  
 

Posted By: Derpdydoo
Wouldn't I as the client paid for that time?

Rarely happens but a few times the hobbyist will try too hard to impress me ... What I mean by that is when he brags or goes on and on about his businesses, money, successes etc. We are not the girl at the bar ... You don't need to win us over. Don't get me wrong, I love listening to other's stories and lives, even difficulties they have overcome but there is no need to try to impress me or any of us ... Be yourself, relax and enjoy!!!

Idk I take it as condescending like as if they're bragging to show that they're somehow better than I am/we are .
 I will never say anything about it as we're supposed to just listen most of the time anyway.  
It's really, really hard for me to get in the mood or even try to be "sexy" with a guy when I feel like he's gonna retaliate against me later in reviews or something because I'm not kissing his ass or worshipping the ground he walks on because if his many achievements.  
Of course, I could be completely misunderstanding how guys work entirely hahahaha !
 Mostly because at the bar or wherever I've never had a guy try to impress me in that way whilst in the dating game.  

It's usually "Hey we get along let's hang out!" Or "I don't like you, I think we should start petting other cats. "
Xo - V

and bad hygiene.  If it's hairy and smelly, my face will be elsewhere!

Also, as lovely as my tatas are, please be able to take moments to look at me and talk.  Good conversation flips that 'switch' in my brain that makes me want to spoil the crap out of you.  I hate going on 'auto pilot.'  It's really not my thing.  There are plenty of amazing women that would just rather have the play without the conversing.

ooxx,
Trinity

Trinity likes it when you walk in, put your hand on her boob, and ask, "Are you turned on?"   NOT!!!

Posted By: TrinityLake
and bad hygiene.  If it's hairy and smelly, my face will be elsewhere!  
   
 Also, as lovely as my tatas are, please be able to take moments to look at me and talk.  Good conversation flips that 'switch' in my brain that makes me want to spoil the crap out of you.  I hate going on 'auto pilot.'  It's really not my thing.  There are plenty of amazing women that would just rather have the play without the conversing.  
   
 ooxx,  
 Trinity

LMAO... Totally dying here.  Ha ha ha!  Well-timed.

Problem solved buddy.
If women got paid for talking they'd all be millionaires.  Btw my statement is completely sexist and misogynist and Im going to burn in hell but I really really don't care

I think its probably the same for ladies also, when spending time with a friend, I want it to be all about us- simple and sexy as that. J. xxxoo

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