This is not a rant and I'm not angry about it. I've been in this game long enough to know that it happens way too often. I'm just providing this information to others to inform their decision whether to try to see this provider or not.

No drama. Just the facts.

The only thing missing is a link...which Sophia?

Was rushed to the hospital with a cracked rib this morning, after experiencing excruciating pain for the last week. I apologize for not contacting you. You did cancel on me prior, which I did not post anything about.. I did not receive a phone call or voicemail from you? Thanks for trashing me on TER! (; I am taking medication for swelling and pain, and still taking appointments.. We will probably not be meeting in the future. Have a nice day.  

Bummer...cracked or broken ribs are painful. I slept on one side for 3 months once.
Get better and hope you're on your feet (or knees or back) soon.

He trashed her without telling her he was posting (just as another hobbyist did on Misty last month).

He did attach a link. It's at the bottom of his post.

I'm still taking appointments despite the injury..  

... now I'm going to offer some free advice you did not ask for and are free to ignore. But it's worth every penny you didn't pay.

The link was attached as a modification--it was not in the original post.

... you can see the same phenomenon with my reviews. It's because some providers I reviewed have since been delisted (retirement etc.).  The reviewer can still see those reviews but no one else can.

I believe it means that some of the providers he reviewed have been delisted, either by choice or not.
The reviews go away but the review count stays the same

If it is not a rant and you are not angry, why did you come here to publicly bash her? It is unfortunate that you did and now she says she will not be seeing you. She is a wonderful person and provider. Actually she cancelled our first appointment the morning of and called me the next day to re-schedule. We have had another cancelled appointment and quite frankly, I was more concerned for her safety and well being on this occasion. I'm sorry to say but you sound angry that "twice is my limit." Quite frankly, you would be lucky to see her if you can and she is NOT flakey. Geeez. What do you expect??? Sophia, you are great and do not deserve this!!!!!!!!!!

Damn, minn4evr, very well said! Excellent words and advice...I'm taking it whether Sophia does or not.
You almost make me afraid to post/comment even though I'm usually (at least I think so! Lol) trying to help. I certainly will pause first and choose my words more carefully.
Thanks again.

Thank you & see you again soon (;  

Knots,
You know I can't count that high, right? I lose interest, start thinking about MN providers, etc.

Something about this time line makes me wonder.

..... further humiliation here on the board.  While I agree with some of what you wrote, it would have been far better to share this with her via PM.  IMO, you delivered what I refer to as a jab sandwich, feigned concern for her at the beginning and the end with a nice jab in the middle.  I also agree with WK2014 (something I don't do often) that the OP wrote in passive aggressive mode, yes, thinly veiled, but the reader gets the message...don't see her.  You gave him the proverbial pat on the back for that.  Not good!  

Re: Oh and you're definitely going on my favorites list , do you visit DC? eom

I haven't yet, but you make me want to! (;

And reporting a NCNS is not trashing someone unless it is not true.  I personally would have given her more time to respond but I've never told someone who NCNS'd me that I was going to post about it on TER.  I understand it is a tough business and that shit happens and often at the worst times.  I've been canceled on while on the way to an appointment.  Very frustrating but at least I wasn't left hanging and when that happens is when I get cranky.

We all can learn from minn4evr's advice this way.  

That's hilarious!!

Advice or no advice, they'll figure it out eventually...or never, but the invisible hand is always at work. Top ladies don't earn their spot with excuses.

And do that before you go barging in and show that you have no clue about what is going on here.

Kindness often goes a long way, your suggestion sums it up best. Be gracious and generous in how you treat others, it turns out she was unavailable, posting a long diatribe on someone with great reviews is a poor reflection on you.

...in addition to his antics on the RO board, just take a look at the General Board on any given day, he argues with everybody over on that board and sucks up to the providers shamelessly.  

Unhelpful, pseudo-compassionate, narcissistic, shit stirrer.

I really liked your post about saying "things happen" because it was not on purpose.. I felt blasted but I do take blame for not making contact sooner than seeing his post. It is what it is.

I'm sure you have been.  What is relevant is  
1) your jumping into the middle of the something you know nothing about and making a post that clearly shows your ignorance and
2) your reputation as the biggest brown noser on TER.

There's a fine line between being gracious and generous and being taken advantage of and it's often hard to tell where that line is exactly.  And sometimes even really good providers lose sight of how they got to be that way and start thinking that the normal rules of courtesy and customer service don't apply to them.  And sometimes people just screw up.  I'm a pretty forgiving person so long as I don't feel I'm being taken advantage of.  And I also think that people who make mistakes should own up to them.

Rod-most all of te ladies here are wonderful, but you will not find any more friends here then on the general board.

It's the kind of attitude that would have served you well as your first post. A NCNS shows a lack of respect and disregard for the value of the other person's time. Things do happen, but NCNS suck for whoever they happen to, and there are very few good excuses for a guy or a gal not letting the other person know what's going on. Most people have the ability to communicate at their finger tips and a little communication goes a long way.

1)  I've been active on this board for over 10 years.  I'd say I know a good bit more about it than you do.
2)  The only person I have been hostile towards is you and I told you exactly why.  And I know you get a far harsher reaction from other TER members all over the country; I've seen some of the posts.  I don't suppose it ever occurred to you to think about why that is and that just maybe you bring it on yourself.
3)  You know nothing about what sort of client I or the other people on this board are.

Because they rally to your defense when called to White Knight you when you screw up or because they have poor reading comprehension and write drivel?  It looks to me like 2 quick emails or calls to the OP would have saved all this and your time calling out your Knights, I hope you have offered a nice discount for their time.

Anyone who looked in on our little board from time to time would KNOW this to be true.  His credibility on this board is without equal.  

your reputation as the biggest brown noser on TER

Now Rod...it's time for you to go back to the newbie board.

I am almost never like that but you are that 1 in 100 for whom it is well deserved.  It was not random.  I did not have a bad day and decide to take it out on you.  I made it clear why I disliked your posts and disliked your presence here.  I know very well that you often you have gotten more hostile responses than mine.  You can play the innocent all you want but those who have experience with your posting habits are not deceived.

It seems like he has gone on a bit of a "world tour" of TER making friends every where he went.

I can only say to the nice folks here in Mn that we will do our best to keep him safely medicated back on the Newbie board where he belongs, but I hate to make promises I can't keep and he has a history of not taking his meds and escaping to bother the nice people on other boards, all I can promise is that the nurse will do their best

However I'm 100% certain that they've had enough of his pity and victim card nonsense as well.

I was out drunk that day. lol

I am still waiting for him to blame the chilly welcome he got here in Mn on us, even though none of the usual suspects said a word until he had been thoroughly pummeled by you locals.

Again my apologies, and we will try to keep him on his meds and not allow him to play in traffic where he could get hurt.

How did all you 'board boys' so successfully and covertly incite all these nice MN folk to turn on poor Rod? Damn you guys are magic! Black magic!

I don't want to tell you how to do your job but clearly he needs a stronger dose of medication and perhaps stronger restraints.  The fine ladies of Mn don't need his shameless and inane ass kissing.  He can save that for the session when the meter is running.

It's a well orchestrated effort to coordinate the emails and PM's to the hundreds of thousands of members here.

I think the fact TER hasn't shut this thread down is indicative of their weariness with his pathetic presence here.

I was never "called" to her defense....................never mind, you are not worth my time or energy, I. I have only spoke the truth and I will not get in to an on-line battle with such nit wits and assumptions "Professor."

a good train wreck from time to time.  It is entertaining at least!

"I would see her in a heartbeat"