A post earlier this month mentioned the lack of BLS in the non-provider world.  I found a particular comment by OmegaZap rather funny, but true in my experience.  "I am pretty sure some memo was sent around to every non-provider women on the planet saying "those are supposed to be left alone".  I want to find whoever distributed the memo.  And when I do, I will throat-punch them."  

I have personally never had a non-provider engage in any BLS without being prompted.  I am just curious, if this is pretty common in others experience?

For the ladies, were you sucking on a guys balls at all before you were a provider on any regular basis in your relationships?  If you weren't, were you surprised at all about guys wanting it?

With one glaring exception, I have always found throughout my "civilian" life that they are pretty universally avoided.  I don't think it's unique to the "civilian" world though, as during my first several years in the "hobby" I found that providers more or less left them alone too.

Generally, they're left alone unless you make a point of asking for some attention, in which case they're given a little cupping, a squeeze or two, and then they're left alone.  My one glaring exception was many years ago, a GF that just couldn't keep her hands off them.  We talked about it, and she said that for whatever reason she was always totally fascinated by them,  couldn't keep her eyes off them, and just found they were a huge turn-on for her.  They got way more attention time-wise than the "other stuff", like a 2/3 - 1/3 split, and I was in HEAVEN.  I can't speak for all guys, I just know for me, more is better.  Before, during, after, it's all VERY good.  But she was the rare exception, not the rule.  And it may be I'm the exception, and not the rule, for how much I like it.

But I will say, since my "return" lately, times seem to have changed, there's a noticeable difference.  "BLS" is actually listed as a "service" on P411 now...  MANY reviews on TER make references to the "boys"...  And in my few recent experiences, all I had to do was ask and they were well cared for.  Not sure why it's different know than it used to be.

Lick, suck.....stroke, rub

.... I've always loved a man's scrotum, the glorious sac that holds the nuts. I've always showed the balls loving- in my pre-provider days.
As a hedonist, I think the body should be rubbed, kissed, licked, nibbled and when I say the body I mean all of it. It is surprising how many *different erogenous zone people really have. In the spring of 2011, I hosted a poll, on my popular blog, asking how my readers enjoyed their balls to be stimulated. In tandem, I asked all of my visitors for that month how they liked it (the visitors had the advantage of mouth on demos). Some men are VERY sensitive and do not like their balls to be sucked, only licked lightly.
When you are with a provider, please tell her how you like the boys handled.

Side note, what is interesting to me is on 2/10 I sent an email to a gentleman with this in the content:
"....men have skin on part of their body, so highly evolved; I love and find very fascinating the flesh of the scrotum. It's amazing what it does and can do. All warm and relaxed the scrotum is loose and heavy. Yet when cold it's the opposite. And when aroused and close to climax the skin becomes tight and closer to the body."
So I find this conversation carrying on and I love it.

I am curious, to add to the OP's post, how do you men of TER like your boys handled?
A. Caressed lightly
B. Licked lightly
C. Sucked on lightly
D. Sucked on a little more firmly
E. Sucked on hard
F. After your balls have been licked, sucked and thus wet... imagine your cock is being sucked WITH your balls being rubbed and stroked (slippery from the play just prior)
G. All of the above and then some


Ok....enough about nuts....I'm going to find some protein.
Millions of kisses from thousands of miles away,
Samantha sofa king Good

Re: Lick, suck.....stroke, rub

F.   Love it.   Even better if she alternates between sucking my cock and licking my balls.  

One girl while licking and kissing my balls (and area between my ass and balls) would play with the tip of my cock gently with her fingers , drove me wild.

My GF never used to engage in any BLS, but I admittedly was pretty hairy.  As soon as I figured out how to manscape, the balls got plenty of attention.  Plus, having a clean shaven nutsack feels pretty fucking amazing.  Once you shave them for the first time (which can be daunting if you've never done it) it is then very easy to periodically do 'maintenance shaves' to keep your balls hair free.  I recommend one of those four-blade razors, brand new out of the package, and make sure the shaving gel does not contain menthol/cooling agents (unless your a glutton for punishment).

Re: Lick, suck.....stroke, rub

G for me.

Oh yes, grooming is a must.  I just take care of it in the shower with my razor.  I have never had any issue at all with a warm razor and simply being all warmed up and the boys are "hanging loose" .  The first provider I saw (out of all 2 of them so far) complemented me on it and did a wonderful, wonderful job in the BLS department.  She said she gets the forests, which make it much less appealing to go there.

Re: Lick, suck.....stroke, rub

I would say starting with A and working through B, C and D.... skip E and then move on to a combination of F and C/D.

...because she can!

Similar story as others have posted. Although I had shaved only my shaft for years, my partners would neglect the nads and I'd find it necessary to ask for them to knead my balls during oral or coitus. Then I got smart and started shaving the boys and things changed for the better! My last GF quickly figured out what shaved balls meant and she would always incorporate BLS into our sessions. One time, (and not at band camp) she devoted an extended over 40 min. session to nearly exclusive ball play, sucking and licking one, then both, and near swallowing my nuts whole while giving a HJ. Now, I can't think of a time when a provider didn't incorporate BLS into her repertoire.

So, Samantha Suckingballs Good, I like 'em sucked and licked all ways, softly, very firmly, suck 'em and stretch 'em out as far as you can until they pop outta your mouth. Squeeze 'em firmly, lightly run your fingernails over them...it all feels good! Also, one of the most exquisite pleasures to experience is having your balls sucked by one gal while another gal is sucking your dick! OMFG!!

You gotta hit the area with a weed-whip, like a moustache/beard trimmer if you have one...  Actually have to be more careful during this stage than with a razor, as a fold of loose skin can get in between the teeth of the comb on a beard trimmer, and you can get cut.  But once you're down to razor-level, you actually have to be a lot less careful than it may seem, I have never had so much as a close call nicking myself with a razor there.

One recommendation...  At least once in your life, have a woman shave them for you, it is hot as hell.  Actually, providers could just offer shaving as a service...  both ways even!

There are some that are designed to work well down there and so long as you aren't careless, it is easy to get rid of the hair without getting cut.

I officially offer shaving to any of my clients!  HAPPILY!!!

Who knew?  I've always taken care of this myself.  But I have to admit this could add a whole new dimension to the experience!

I've told many men... if you cut down your timber a little I would be happy to play down there.... but I just can't get past feeling like a cat with a hairball when one of yours goes down my throat without asking. Sorry, but I just can't do hairy balls.

If you need manscaping, I am happy to provide for a reasonable rate! Include that in your email as it isn't listed on my site. You must bring your own razor, I can provide scissors (which work too).

xoxo
NATALIE

Nobody wants to implement dental hygiene in the form of pube-flossing.  Also, if I need a weed-whipper to find your crank, that's just not a good time.  I will happily cornrow that shit.  Hah

Just push it aside and keep eating.
With all seriousness though, I agree tidy balls get much more attention. However, some of the the gentlemen I see are married and trimming/grooming *could raise suspicion. Thus, the result hair jungle.  I am not one to EVER discriminate against a man's balls because of the amount of 'forest' he has. One solution: wetness slicks the hair down.
There are other techniques myself and other professional are implemnting that work wonders for those that cannot tidy the hair jungle. If anyone is interested, please email me at [email protected] and I will give you ideas and solutions.

Yay for scrotums of all size, color and forestry plan!
SG

I've never had a lady friend (non-provider) engage in BLS. I've only had a few providers do BLS and it is a great experience & sensation! I've had one provider in particular who uses some great tongue action! I'll keep in mind and ask more providers to do that...

I said....
"If anyone is interested, please email me at [email protected] and I will give you ideas and solutions."

I will not be publicly giving those ideas out. If you want to know email me like the others have. The answers are likely different as to who the audience is. (gender to make it more clear).

Off topic: I went from one awesome vacation in Laguna Beach, California (high end resort) to another amazing vacation in Puerto Rico. I really wish all of you could enjoy THAT with me!!!

Meow!
SG