I see alot of guys requesting if anyone else wants to go to TJ with them. Is it because its dangerous toi go alone or is it just to have a buddy to share the experience with?

I think it's more to share the experience.  Going alone isn't dangerous as long as you pay attention to what's around, and stay off the back streets late at night.  With another guy or two, you can draw on their experience regarding different chicas, different clubs, even SG's. Plus it's someone to talk to while watching the ladies before you make up your mind.  Either way, TJ is worth the trip.

I have been going to TJ alone every weekend for almost a year now and have had no problems what so ever.  I usually walk across the bridge into the zona if it is before 10 o'clock and I can see plenty of people.  This is somewhat risky but just use your best judgement.  I ALWAYS take a cab back.  Never walk back to the border alone when it is late. A cab costs 5 bucks and they drop you off right at the border.  If you take a cab both ways there is no risk at all.  Once you are in the zone, everything is well lit and there is a large police presence.  DO Not do drugs and ignore anybody who tries to sell them to you.  The cops know all the dealers and if they see you talking to them they will know.  Doing drugs is not worth the risk.  Adelitas and Chicago clubs are super safe and on the up and up.
Good luck

I disagree.
I disagree.
I've talked to tons of guys that are wussies.
Many dudes in San Diego won't cross over the border for fear they will be robbed, beaten, stabbed or killed.
Yes, TJ is the murder capitol of Baja but it's mainly the drug wars that get people killed.

Let the stereotype of how DANGEROUS TJ is, keep going so the Zone isn't over crowded.
As it stands, on Friday and Saturday nights, the bars are sardine cans.
I've yet to go to the Zone on a Friday or Saturday night since the sessions are more rushed, and the chicas have the shark feeding frenzy mentality.

sharing the experience?
I do that on the TJ website I'm a member of...

that's where all the good details and some pics are shared so you KNOW ahead of time, which chicas are good, which are bad, which will do BBBJ's, anal and other good tid bits of info...

Okay what's the web site? Or do you not share?

I've put up the sites before but the Moderator of this board does not want posting of other websites

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same here.  I used to go to TJ alone maybe twice a month when i lived in san diego.  I've been going to TJ for the past 6 or so yrs.  I never got in trouble, not ever got into a situation that looked questionable.  

The only time i take a cab back is when i'm really tired and don't want to walk.  Usually I walk back to the border, and I've never been hassled save for some harmless beggars asking for $.  I'd say just try not too get too drunk, but otherwise it's safe imo.