I HOPE to be able to post something definitive soon. We have four ( 4 ) POSSIBLE locations; one of which would be PERFECT in every way. One I've already posted about. I'm waiting to hear back on the other three and still have to check them out in person. Chances are we will get a location and will have a party. Please stay tuned.

As you can see, I don't give up easily.

On Sat. I have a meeting with the owner. A tentative deal is already in place for a SPECTACULAR ! location. Unless there is an unforseen problem or glitch of some kind ( I've  learned the hard way to leave myself an "out" lol )we will be closing the deal and locking up the location. Please tune in on Monday for a further update.

When you have a place and a party then set up an evite or something and people who want to come will come.  This is not about setting up the party. Its about your need for attention. Speaking of attention, I was at the NYmng and observed you toungeing a couple of providers in a civilian atmosphere (you initiated this). You ignored the rules of decorum which were set up for security.  Apparently your need for attention over weighed the need for security.

Was my attire O.K. ? Certainly hope my grooming was up to your exacting standards.
Did you land on all the ladies who grabbed my ass at the M & G ? Since you're so concerned about what other people do ? If it bothered you so much, why didn't you say anything at the time ?

I don't know why, but more and more folks like you insist in dropping a turd into other peole's punchbowls.

The bottom line is: If you don't like my posts, don't read them. Afaic, enough people are involved and concerned and thus appreciate being kept up to date.

....you have 4 updates on this page! Hmmm, if the ladies are held to one ad a week, maybe you should be as well.  And if you reread some of your posts the poster above is spot on.

On...off...on...off...on with conditions....off with conditions...oh I knew it was off on Monday, yet I am posting updates that it still is on for Wednesday when I know it is off.

I have no dog in this fight, but I would say no to starting a new thread again until you have a definite plan or at least have the courtesy to post on one of your original threads.

I only met vadhaman once, at the last M&G, and that was to get info about his party. But as someone with past experience in planning events for my professional colleagues, I can tell it you it is a thankless job. The world is loaded with armchair critics.Vadhaman is trying to accomplish something here. Give him a break! The NY/NJ M&G scene is terribly inadequate as it is. Let's not piss all over someone who's trying to make it better. And what does this have to do with his behavior at the party?

...as to posting it in the correct spot, obviously your reply was meant for the other poster I believe.

But to address some of your comments, I to plan social functions and know it is a thankless task, but the originator of the pool party does seem to be a drama lhama....if you read this page you would see that.

I also do not think the M&G scene in NY is as dire as you portray it.

Yes I read the entire thread, so I am aware of your disapproval of vadhaman's actions on the board and the M&G. You have your opinion, I have mine. That's what the board is for.
The NY scene is fine, but when I look at the M&G board, it seems there is a lot more going on in other major cities. Not having any personal experience with action outside NY, it could all be BS.

As Ghost pointed out, why do you think the NY MnG scene is inadequate? Its been my impression that the NY MnG's are considered among the best. And the people who run them are drama free. Perhaps you meant the NJ MnG scene leaves a little to be desired.

This is the Big Apple, a world class city. TBM goes above and beyond in the work he puts into his parties. But only three a year? Is this the best NY can do? Maybe someone else can do one or two more. I know there are other types of parties like Eyes Wide Shut, but my tastes run to M&Gs. I love seeing all our ladies dolled up and ready to play. Just want more. Just my 2 cents.

.....you say you have social planning capability, must be easy right????  Otherwise, just keep watching the boards and see when dates pop up, take a trip.  I am amused how different regions give out information.....it's just a social gathering, but some make it like the secret, secret old boy club.....

I'm sorry for not being perfect. I'm sorry for any drama. But how is it my fault if the owner of a party site gets a serious personal family situation that requires me to move the party ? What am I supposed to do if- I go back to the owner of the original location we'd planned on using and he agrees to rent to me.I send him a confirmatory e-mail and two days later he writes back saying " Sorry.I've got a better offer " ?

In any event, there is a happy ending afaic. See the latest update.

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dude is trying to plan a party and you get on his back? If you don't want to read updates as they happen, skip the thread. Get happy people, and stop picking on someone because they are trying to do some good for the community.