Thanks all, it cannot happen without you!!! I just organize them, the guys and gals make it happen.

I have tried to make them all safe, fun and no drama. Have I met your expectations?? If you do not want to say here or embarrass me, then please e-mail me.

Question # 1 Was the location too far to travel?

#2 Is it necessary to not use the same place in a row?

#3 How important keeping the location secret since it is no admittace without being on the invite list?

#4 By allowing a more risque venue, is that making the M&G more open for exposure and threats.

#5 Should I keep the M&G's as before and not allow the risque activity?

#6 By closing the M&G and going into a afterparty time, was that a wise decision?

#7 should after partys be at a different location?

a) Strip clubs

b) Suites at a hotel?

c) My house?

#8 Do you want me to do another smaller one at my home again?

#9 What do you want me to change? I may not, I know in the past I had heard, "do not give drink tickets" "do not have food" "do not charge as much"

I will give a answer for that here. I have to make sure the establisment makes enough money to either secure the room or shut down for the night, I cannot chance that guys will buy enough drinks and food to meet the mimumum.


#10 How often do you want to attend? The last venue wants us back next week! LOL

Most important. LOL LOL   Any lady want just drop by my house for a drink and pleasure NOW!!! A mini M&G!!!  LOL


Have a great holiday and remember who made it so you can enjoy it. Buy a service man dinner when you see him in a restaurant.

Ok, stop your nagging - I am checking this board.  My first post here.
My answers:

1. No

2. No. But perhaps rotation to a couple of places would help out those who do think it is too far.

3. Very important!  Firmly believe trust and attendance will suffer if done otherwise.

4. Not as long it is a closed, private event, and the risque you reference doesn't involve the exchange of money.

5. No opinion, both types are good.

6. Nice way to appease those that hope for more interaction and those that are okay with standard M&G.  Perhaps designate the time beforehand?  Not sure I agree with what I just wrote. Food for thought only.

7. Favor rotation to a couple of spots with exact location being confidential until day of.
7a. Okay
7b. No - too many exposure, cost, and logistical issues
7c. Only if I can come.  Would not recco a public large scale gathering unless you are into home remodeling.

8. Is the hot tub installed yet?  How about the dancer pole?

9. You put on a class act, ain't broke, don't fix it.  But - if there is an overage, donate it to your toys for tots charity (probably too much to suggest a "raffle" with me being the winner) If there is a shortfall, who are you again?  

10. Venue seems to have been well received by those in attendance as well.  1 x per quarter for official M&G, you put in way too much effort to make sure all have a good venue and opportunity for an enjoyable evening.  That is not a shill, that IS the plain truth.

Question # 1 Was the location too far to travel?

It's going to be a long trip for me anywhere you have it......of course south side would be better for me, but I'm sure not for the majority.

#2 Is it necessary to not use the same place in a row?

No, I thought the most recent place worked out really well


#3 How important keeping the location secret since it is no admittace without being on the invite list?

Very Important....let's not forget all the drama of last week and the problems at a M & G in Houston last year.

#4 By allowing a more risque venue, is that making the M&G more open for exposure and threats.


I'm probably not knowledgable enough to make a comment.



#5 Should I keep the M&G's as before and not allow the risque activity?

I have to admit, I like the risque activity as long as the doors are locked and people can't see in. I saw some talk someplace about a wet T shirt contest at some M & G...that would be fun.

#6 By closing the M&G and going into a afterparty time, was that a wise decision?

I think so


#7 should after partys be at a different location?

Not necessarily..I do know some of the ladies like strip clubs.


a) Strip clubs - just would get a lot of lurkers, like at the old "board " meetings at Pink Pony

b) Suites at a hotel?   might be good

c) My house? ...your call

#8 Do you want me to do another smaller one at my home again?

Never been to one at your place.

#9 What do you want me to change? I may not, I know in the past I had heard, "do not give drink tickets" "do not have food" "do not charge as much"

I thought the one we just had was damn near perfect.



I will give a answer for that here. I have to make sure the establisment makes enough money to either secure the room or shut down for the night, I cannot chance that guys will buy enough drinks and food to meet the mimumum.


#10 How often do you want to attend? The last venue wants us back next week! LOL

Once a quarter works for me
Most important. LOL LOL   Any lady want just drop by my house for a drink and pleasure NOW!!! A mini M&G!!!  LOL


Thanks again, Jimmy....you are da man

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You wait, you have not seen any REAL nagging and whinnning.  Where is that lady you said you were sending over for me?

Thanks for the comments.

#4 ,, I wish we could ecit messages without losing them for a spell, yes #4 would be definatly without any $$ exchanged, I have never nor will I ever allow $$ to be exchanged there and if I see it I will ask the person or persons to leave, I will not risk my safety.

Makes me think about the raffles,  maybe I will just do them at the private party.  I need to reword that to a drawing with no $ to enter.  Yep, that will be it.

Excuse me? - You must have me confused with some generous guy that shares.  

Seriously, I knew what you meant about risque but was concerned that others may not.  I will personally attest that you do everything possible to ensure the safety of all the attendees.

Question # 1 Was the location too far to travel? For me yes BUT i understand that it is necessary for the privacy of some.

#2 Is it necessary to not use the same place in a row? I dont believe so.

#3 How important keeping the location secret since it is no admittace without being on the invite list?
Very Important! I think for safety of the girls and the possibility of stalkers it should be kept secret.

#4 By allowing a more risque venue, is that making the M&G more open for exposure and threats.
I dont believe so.. Although the store clerk down a few stores was a bit threatening.

#5 Should I keep the M&G's as before and not allow the risque activity?
Ok. so as most who attended the last know I am all for risque activity. However I dont believe that complete nudity and sexual acts with members of the other sex are needed.

#6 By closing the M&G and going into a afterparty time, was that a wise decision?
I didnt attend but I think its a good decision

#7 should after partys be at a different location?

a) Strip clubs- always fun

b) Suites at a hotel? would not attend

c) My house? would not attend

#8 Do you want me to do another smaller one at my home again? I would not be able to attend. I prefer more public of a place

#9 What do you want me to change? I may not, I know in the past I had heard, "do not give drink tickets" "do not have food" "do not charge as much"

I think since it was being held around dinner that maybe more of a food selection but everything else was good!

Maybe adding a pole????  

I will give a answer for that here. I have to make sure the establisment makes enough money to either secure the room or shut down for the night, I cannot chance that guys will buy enough drinks and food to meet the mimumum.


#10 How often do you want to attend? The last venue wants us back next week! LOL
I would attend if held once a month. as long as I am in town.

Thanks Jimmy!

After all that was said I am looking forward to the next and offer up my help should you need it!

Xoxo Katie

I thought the location was great. Love to see Sam again. Then I drove 3 hours to get there, so I can't really comment om location being to far.
I really liked the interaction that the private party allowed. I'd be good with going to the same location again. But then a smaller MG at your house would be fun too.
I don't have a problem with the entrance fee. Pay that much to take the family to the movies.

Well just want to say thanks for a great party.

Question # 1 Was the location too far to travel?
Nope- 30 minutes for me, but the rush hour traffic held me in it's grip. Missed one of the lady's that was there at the beginning. I liked the privacy of the location,

JPW- did you receive feedback that it was too far? It was out of the Perimeter, so maybe some could not make it due to that?

#2 Is it necessary to not use the same place in a row?
No- it was cool.

#3 How important keeping the location secret since it is no admittace without being on the invite list?
You should keep it secret. If not,there may be someone that may try to get in, and could cause a problem if they knew the location.

#4 By allowing a more risque venue, is that making the M&G more open for exposure and threats.
JPW- not sure about threats (?).
It seemed the folks associated with the location were okay with the party atmosphere. Really, unless I missed some risque action, an occasional flash or bra/panties scenario would be something you see at just about every office holiday party LOL

#5 Should I keep the M&G's as before and not allow the risque activity?
JPW- it really was not risque. I guess you must have received some negative feedback (?). Me- i enjoyed the "light" risque party atmosphere. See my comment above re: similar to an office party.

#6 By closing the M&G and going into a afterparty time, was that a wise decision?
Did I miss something? I was near the last to leave (almost had to kick me out-HA). Was there something that happened after the party (darn- I did brush and shower LOL)

#7 should after partys be at a different location?
JPW- wow...I must have missed something. darn- PM me.

a) Strip clubs
Nope

b) Suites at a hotel?
Nope

c) My house?
Sure

#8 Do you want me to do another smaller one at my home again?
Did not have a chance to attend the last one. I'm interested

#9 What do you want me to change? I may not, I know in the past I had heard, "do not give drink tickets" "do not have food" "do not charge as much"
Charge was fine.
drink tickets are fine.
food is fine.
You did things right.

I will give a answer for that here. I have to make sure the establisment makes enough money to either secure the room or shut down for the night, I cannot chance that guys will buy enough drinks and food to meet the mimumum.
Understood..


#10 How often do you want to attend? The last venue wants us back next week! LOL
Once every 8 weeks is fine.I know i was buying me and certain ladies drinks (just come say "hi"- I AM EASY), so hopefully that helped

Iggy,  I stopped the music at 9:45 and made a anouncement that the M&G was officially over.  Now starts the after party, so lets party and get wild.  I guess you were doing something we all like to do and could nt hear as you were breathing thrugh your ears.  LOL LOL   Right Dakota, LL Cool D?  The after party was there, not saying I did not have a private after/after party at home.  I live about 1 1/2 miles from the restaurant.  LOL

In forgot to ask!  Did you like my bouncer? She is my biker/bouncer/chick. She is a bouncer at one of the wild club/restaurant in the Atl area that the club gets a little rough,  she can handle herself quite well! You like the tats?  Ron surely did, LOL

LOVED her.
She walked me to my car to ensure my safety (really) & we conversed for a short time.
I did feel safe with her at my side.
And she sure looked FINE at my side.

AND
The bartender was really cute. I asked if she was going to join the pool table party and she said she had no problem w/the activity and it looked fun, but then...who would serve drinks?

how do i get an invite for meet ant greets

can you come over this mrning and we see what's up and plan the next move?   I need some help this morning, or luch time, or this afternoon, or this evening, or tonight, helljust get over her and help me!!!  Lots of   Jimmy

Wow, so many have said, where or did not know or some thing about, the AFTER PARTY!!   I have always kept the M&G's at a high, no touch, no uninvited kisses, no groping, ect!!  This time I was asked to do something a little different, so strip poker, frolicking ect.  

I anounced in the e-mail, that we would have a regular M&G from 5 till 10 and then ajourn to the after party.

Well a little before 10 PM it seemed by many and the management that it was time to have more fun. I asked for the music to stop, yelled out that the M&G was over and that the After Party was to begin.  Lets Party.  I assume only a few heard or more likely, did not pay any attention to me, AS USUAL. Boo Hoo Wah Wah Wah!  (grin)  

That is when the after party began, it was THERE, just keeping my nose clean and trying to not get run over by the F****ng BUS by separating the two events, even if it was still at th same place.

Yes I did mention a after/after party, but that was very private with only me and a pretty at my house!!  

Does everyone now understand?  If not, ladies quit moaning and guys start breathing with your nose and mouth and not thru your ears and pay attention! I know what you are doin down at the Y. LOL LOL

I just wanted to separate the regular M&G from the frolicking. I need to do a better job next time, sorry about the confusion.

"meet ant greets"(GRIN) Go to the ant hill!  

First, a 1 time poster with no reviews would have a hard time.

 But most important, someone who asks a question without researching the board for info and find the answer leaves one to think he may be not really very interested if knowing.

This may sound harsh, but it really is not as I am sure someone else woud have said. "If you are too lazy to look for the answer before asking, then you are too lazy to attend."  Or they may say , "RTFFF",  "read the f*** forum first!"

But trying to be nice, I gave you the answer at the beginning. K?

JPW, I think it is possible there is some confusion as to your definition of risque and after-party.  So, just trying to help clarify -

To all:  JPW does a great job as host.  He provides the rules to all attendees to ensure that ALL guests are comfortable and no inappropriate advances are made.  Further, he combines mingling and fun by walking around and enforcing these rules as necessary.  It takes a great deal of tact to do this and it is one of the reasons why his M&G's are so successful.

When he is referencing an after-party he is NOT referencing an orgy fest or free-for all grope fest.  Although I am sure he hopes that occurs later with a select few ladies at his home.  Not that the SOB ever invites me to one of those, oh wait I minute..., sorry, I digressed

Seriously, it simply means that the ladies and gents are free to get more frisky should they so desire.  But at no time, does this mean any blatantly illegal activity is accepted.

And Chey - yes, I have relayed your request for a pole, especially since I was not even remotely considered as a suitable substitute

Cheers to the organizer, bar owners, bouncer and the bartenders.  The M&G was my first but won't be my last.  Had a great time.  Plenty of beautiful ladies, great food, and great drinks.  A simple answer to all your questions is don't change a thing!!  I thought everything was fantastic.  The only thing I would change is moving the day to friday or saturday.  I had a great time that night but a horrible day after.  Nothing like working with a hangover and 3 hours of sleep.  Haven't done that since college.

p.s.  That bartender was smoking hot.  I think a couple agency owners were there.  If you ever get her to join the hobby, please let us know!!

Weekends would not be good for guys with SO's. During the week a lot better for men that travel for a living.

1) the bar/establishment probably does a lot of business on weekends and the use of a bar would probably not be offered. I would guess that Tuesday are SLOW so it is a chance for them to recoup $ by offering the bar out to this type of closed party.
2) there are guys that have a family or SO/wife that could not get away at night on a weekend (luckily, not my case). I guess its easier to use the "work meeting" to extend the guy's time on a Tuesday.
3)This is a stretch-  I would think Friday night might be a popular date night for the ladies, and may limit their participation (I have no idea about Saturday).
4) This is a further stretch- Jimmy sleeps on weekends to recoup s. All of the other time he party's w/the ladies

Jimmy would know the answer(s), but I guess those may be reasons for no weekend activity.

Yes to all the reasons.  

 Too many guys can't come on the weekend.

Lets see,  OH, and other restaurants/facilities charege more for Fri Sat.

 Ladies being more busy,  not sure but many have families and spend the weekends with the family.

Yes, I sleep or race on the weekend.  Thats why I screwed up the post.  LOL LOL

 I had in the past tried to do Mondays as I travel for a living and it did not break up the week travel.  But Tuesdays work also, just stay out till Friday night.

I could have had the last restaurat on Monday, but they have a fairly large group of customers that come on Mondays, so I did not want, nor did not want them to upset their regular customers. But it is an option if/when we go there again.

The other reason, I cannot get or ask a restaurant to close the doors on a Fri/Sat/Sun.

 Maybe I can do a party somewhere outside on the weekend,  maybe BYOB so if the guys are slim.


 Hey MODs,  look I remembered 4 times to change to my Alias.  LOL   JimmyPW

When is the next M&G...and how do I sign up to attend?