So far, I have yet to use a provider, so I have no references. Is there any other way that I can get approval to attend a meet & greet

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If you have never actually hobbied, and thus have no references, you are not qualified to be invited to such an event.  LE and media intrusion are risks that all M&G hosts/hostesses have to deal with, so references are a must   Membership with verification services that are absent of such endorsements should not be considered as adequate to secure an invite.  

My best advice would be to actually become a hobbyist, and develop a relationship and review history with one or more reputable providers if you wish to party and hang out with us.

You are going to need to see at least 2 reputable ladies and write a review. Or, if you have wish, a reputable lady to vouch for you.  What is reputable?  Basically, ladies that have a presence on the internet and have a presence on TER with recent reviews.  I would not consider a BP lady or any other lady with no reviews on TER to be reputable.

As a host, I usually reject 5 or so requests to my get togethers because the above is not met.  Bottom line, if u wish to attend a party, u need to do what it takes.  

Meet and Greet Hosts screen rather heavily.  We just don't let anyone in on their word.

Good luck!!  Hope to see u at the party on the 18th.

Bond

At least in regards to the M&G's I either help run or attend.   Screening in this hobby is paramount!  Party Hosts are not providers....therefore they DO NOT accept neither a hobbyist nor a provider as an invited guest based solely upon a verification site membership...i.e. P411, Date-Check, RS2K or TER's whitelist.   The requirements for being extended an invitation to a M&G are set by the host/hostess and are spelled out in the announcement.    

Rules are rules....sorry if this seems a bit "harsh".....but the safety of all in attendance is PARAMOUNT!!!  

Cheers!

If you don't have any OKs, being a member of D-C or P411 won't do you any good.