I've done the FS provider thing a few times now and while I thoroughly enjoyed it, I'm thinking massages with HE would serve me just as well and save a few bucks. Mostly because I hate condoms but always use them of course and that, to me, makes the FS experience that much less pleasurable.  And I never cum in the hat cuz I hate that too, so why bother going to FS providers?  Anyway...I did one FBSM a couple years ago and that's my only experience. She advertised on BP and used her apartment for in calls.

I've never been to an AMP and really want too. A-girls turn me on. A Nuru session would be a dream come true for me.  So...can you experienced guys help me out with some pointers? The city I live in has about a dozen places I think provide what I'm looking for but I don't know the process when I get there.

Thanks.

Step 1. Relax.
Step 2. See step 1.
Step 3. Ignore the numerous haters on this board that will tell you "MPs are dangerous and you will get arrested." Remember their motivation is to get you to see escorts, not go to MPs. So they try to plant the seeds of doubt and fear into your mind.

After you get over your fear, keep in mind that the worst thing that can happen at a MP is they can say "No."

At an AMP, you get buzzed in, pay the door fee, select the girl you want. Depending on where you live, you will get a table shower (NICE!) followed by the massage. The massage is usually a real massage, but then the massage ends when she asks you to "flip" or "turn over." Again depending on where you live, some AMPs are "full service," so you need to tell them you only want HJ. Other areas are HJ only, so that is the only option.

It all sounds clinical, but it's better when you're actually there. And once you are known at an AMP, you won't need to ask for what you want, they will go right into the teasing and the HJ.

Spas with non-asians are trickier, again depending on where you live. Some white spas are known "jack shacks," meaning they tease you with big promises that need more and more money, but never deliver on anything more than an air dance and an invitation for you to "jack it yourself."
If you're sure that the white spas in your area are not jack-shacks, then the process should be similar as with the AMPs, except there won't be a table shower.

As you already know, the majority of non-asian massage providers do not work in spas, they are independents. You find them on BP or wherever, as FBSM providers. They should be less expensive than FS providers. Some will use their own home, others will want to meet at a hotel.

Yes-Relax-Good advice!  I totally agree with Pitt Panther's analogy and highly recommend Asian spas over any other.  There are quite a few Asian spa's with TER reviews-do a search and also search the telephone numbers because each gal will have different reviews but the telephone number will bring up all gals reviewed under that number.  By doing that you can see what the pattern is regarding full service, CBJ, BBBJ, etc....And the service will  vary from County to County in a lot of areas depending on how big a deal law enforcement wants to make over them.

I know several and they all excell at make a HJ last and last and last.  I've had very good experiences with all.

There may even be an Asian tantrika coming to the New York area in the fall.

Also-Just to add to the list -  you will typically be asked "Have you been here before?"  Always answer yes.  You will then be asked who you saw?  Tell them you can't remember her name-that it was a month ago or so. The girls usually are rotated every few weeks so not remembering who you saw last is no big thing.  Have your money ready for the door fee-basically act like you have been there before..

And how much cash do I need to bring?

The "Massage Fee" in the Atlanta area is generally $60 to $80 - I like to tip an amount equal to 2 times the "Massage Fee" or an additional $120 to $160 depending upon how you feel with the selection you have made or who is available.  $150 in tip to the gal usually gets it done!

40 to 60 for HJ
BJ and FS are more....but I never partake in that at an MP

ANd to add-That is for Full Service-not just a happy ending or bj..

Had one favorite K-girl who used to offer it but her AMP got shut down in a sting.

Not necessarily ZERO, I just got a great BBBJ at an AMP in Orlando.  Nice TS, Nice Massage, and an even nicer BBBJ for a reasonable tip.

what does bbbj mean?

don't you find that statement rather contradictory?

I will grant that BBBJ in an AMP is not the norm, but the chances are much better than ZERO.