If you massage the lower back & work your way down slowly you can gauge when to back off. Edging can be done with practice, just remember slow rhythmic movements then slowly back off. Took me a few tries but I think I got my technique down. I have been told that what I do is similar to tantra, but I think so.
One is where the guy is bought close to the peak and kept there by reducing stimulation. If stimulation is kept at the same level or increased the guy would ejaculate. So stimulation is reduced by reducing speed, pressure and changing points of contact. This is a more difficult technique.
The other is bringing the guy to the edge and then backing off and then starting again. This is much easier.
Some ladies are able to intutively tell when men are close and make changes or back off to prevent ejaculation. In fact the more times a guy goes to the same girl the better she knows his body. Other ladies ask the guy if they are close. This is fine too, but the only down side is it interrupts the guy's pleasure trip.
I have been told that what I do is similar to tantra, but I think so.
Sorry, meant to say "I do not think my technique is similiar to tantra." I have wanted to learn Tantra, but it looks extensive Anyone have experience or a regular gal they see for Tantra?
found a massage gal that does it - never experienced it as things are usually a rush to the finish with many bodyrubs ; the experience was phenominal indeed!
Meganrae in Denver did a great job of this for me. I'm not sure she would label it as edging but she took me to the brink and then backed off again and again, sort of like the second tantric technique mentioned above. I love this, I think, because it is so self-indulgent. You're the focus. It really does enhance the pleasure and when you finally do come it's explosive. But it's also not your everyday wham bam thank you maam, so maybe I'm also reacting to the novelty.
yes most real tantra providers are very good at this technique; but also if you are close some will smack your cock, not harshly but quick and it actually backs you off the cliff; sort of speak...they also incorporate the breathing so the guy can help prolong his build up by breathing thru it, longer you build up the better more intense feelings of bliss
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I know it's been awhile since the last post, but I came across it, and thought I'd throw my 2cents in. Abbie Angel in Milwaukee, WI does a phenomenal job of what you call edging. She is more tantra, though, because she has me deep breathing along with it. It's an amazing experience. She has me hooked. Everyone should try it at least once.
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