Certainly TER reviews and profiles, but you really have to take them on average since perceptions can be so varied.  There are other review sites out there, but naming them on TER is discouraged by policy and the mods.  P411, not being a review site, doesn't compete with TER so I think their mention is OK.  The ladies in there are allowed a brief description of activities they like.

Having re-read your question, I have to say I learn about these ladies in person before I review.  How else could I honestly review?  Is that what you meant?  But before meeting, I rely heavily on TER reviews and profiles, and sometimes TER RO board posts and regional posts to make the decision whether or not to meet.