My recent review from Verizon..
I have already said my peace on the other board that he wrote it on..

I should have left the moment I arrived.

Hopefully my other reviews will just show that this was someone that just didn't like me.

I admit I have gained weight, but I have gained 15lbs, but forty.
I am 38, seriously.
And I bathe all of the time, sometimes too often..

I gained weight when I lost one of my dogs in October. Just recently I got my self back together. There were a few months where I had to cancel dates and I just wasn't myself, that happens after a tragic loss (I watched him get attacked and killed and there was nothing that I could do.) I also offered dates discounts, etc, whatever.. While most people understood (those that know what my dogs mean to me)...  
I have just started in the past month getting my head back to where it used to be with my newly rescued dog, but this review is from a person who didn't like me the moment I walked in the door.

And that's ok, but he should have just asked me to leave.

Have a great day! And I won't let one person get me down, so that's all I have to say about that.  

xo

Edit: I was late due to a confusion of the hotel. In Las Vegas 90 degree heat I ran from the one vacation club to the one across the street. Within this confusion the reviewer said that he was waiting at the planet Hollywood shops valet, which is where I was.. So I ran back there, but couldn't find him. He was across the street, not at there. I tried to call him to find him, but it was text only.

For what it's worth.. We never even set a time to meet. He told me he would contact me when he landed and then we would meet. So, there is no late. It was just a 30 minute mission to find him. When I got there, his attitude towards life should have just had me leave, too. But I didn't. And he didn't. So you live and learn.

But please know, I don't weigh 160.. I weight 135.
And if by admitting I'm older, well.. My other site profile said 37. I hadn't updated it since October, when my birthday is... So, yes.. I am not 37, I am 38. Just as I post here.
And the rest, well.. Take it from the fingers of an angry man.  

That's all.

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dont stress about it, I just read several of his reviews and the juicy details, it's obvious the type of person he is... guys like that are not worth our time to meet them or the energy to even screen them.  

 
have good nite beautiful!

I always collect toiletries and donate them to a woman's shelter.

Today I donated what I collected along with $300. I said it was courtesy of Verizon. I'm sure they're thinking the phone company, if they are even thinking anything, but I felt I was able to wash my hands from this.

I learned that even while on vacation mode I still have to pay attention, lol.
Darn pool, sunshine, Vegas...
xx

Don't stress over it.  Verizon sounds like the type to avoid.  One thing not to like a lady, another just to be mean.  Just read his other reviews, clearly a jerk.  Move on and put your energy into feeling better.  I know how heartbreaking it is to lose a fur baby.  Takes a bit to get back to normal.

Most of his other reviews are not real high scores, but in the overwhelming number of his reviews he expressed satisfaction, but not this time. I don't know exactly what LWAM to get on his bad side, but she certainly got there.  

I guess we don't have to wonder if it's a fake review as she certainly seems to remember him and her only defense is a matter of degree of her weight gain and age discrepancy.

One thing that does surprise me a bit is the fact that none of the guys have stepped up to defend her, normally when a "well reviewed" provider get slammed like this in a review a dozen or so or her fan club will step up in an effort to mitigate the damage, and in some cases the lady even gets a bump in business over it. So far in LWAMs case all I hear from the guys is the sound of crickets chirping.

BFD, so it's a year off. Her TER profile says 36-40, so if she's 38, she's in the correct age bracket. At least she's not up here saying it's a fake review even thou she actually met with him. That guy was just plain mean and could gotten his point across without being horrid.

Steph :-/

I'm not sure if TER is his free therapy.. I mean, he must feel better after interjecting himself in to 99.99% of the posts on here.. I can't imagine a more fun way to spend my life. But who am I to judge?
xx

That was my point.  Why find the need to be mean?  Says more about him then her.

I have been focusing mainly on something else near and dear to my heart (ruff ruff!) and I have really only been meeting with people that I know and have built a relationship with. They understand as many of them have spent time with my dogs, too. I decided to take a little getaway vacation and went out of my comfort zone by deciding to meet new people... But that's ok. I learned a little lesson here. So moving forward...
xx

She also claims to be 120, and that is plainly no longer true as she even admits to herself. Actually she admits to a LOT in her response to this review.

I wasn't there and neither were you. The one thing we can ALL agree on is that he most definitely has a hard on for LWAM after seeing her, and not the good kind. Whether it's justified I guess only the two of them will ever know.

I also find it ironic that not a singly guy has chimed in to defend her. I recall her claiming a few years back that this was HER board. Why no support from the guys? Surely she has sent out a dozen PM's by now asking for some support.

I just disagree with him on this point. The reviewer went out of his way to be  cruel. And you didn't come up here ranting and raving about the review, you just said your piece with no malice.

 BTW in the future if you're ever in a situation where a guy asks you to leave even after some services were provided, IMO give him his money back *if* you think he's going to blast you to hell and back in a review. I don't *think* he can review you if no fee occurred, plus if he were to write one I doubt he would write the things this dude did. All I know is if a guy was that unhappy with me and ask me to leave I would give him back his $$ even if I didn't want to. You may disagree an you were certainly within your right to keep it since you did provide some services to this guy. Please know that I am in no way criticizing you. Hell I don't know for sure if he asked you to leave or not just because he said so.

Steph xox

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He had no issues with me while I was there.
He wasn't the happiest person that I have ever met, but.. He never asked me to leave.

We even chatted about different things.. Restaurants across the street, how timeshares work.. This was *after.*.

I had an overnight once and the guy woke me up all night long. Eventually at 5am I said, "look I think I should just head home.. You mentioned you would have stopped at an agency on the way home if we didn't meet, how much is that? 250? Ok.. Here you go. Have fun."

This current reviewer never at any moment said, "I don't think this is working out."

Another time I left because a guy was beyond drunk and he started being very rude. Not to me, but to the waitress at the restaurant, someone in the lobby of the hotel.. So I gave him back the majority of the money and basically kept $100 out of the whatever it was.

I am a very fair is fair. If I have to cancel I always add extra time or offer a discount.. I do this for fun. Of course to make money, but also fun. I always preach that I don't think I am better or the guy is better, we are both equal.

I just want to clarify that at no moment did he say anything about ending the date.

I'm thinking since she said she had gained 15 that she weighed 135 at the time. Alyssa said the guy didn't like he from the moment she got there, so you two actually agree on that point!

I've noticed that her attitude on the boards has changed in a positive way since losing her dog in such a horrible way. People can change their outlook. I'm think if she got this review 2 years ago, her OP would have been much different.

You and I just disagree on this one, because I'm basing my view of this on how I view her now. Unlike some ladies on TER who are just as haughty now as they ever were, if you catch my drift!

Steph xoxo

As long as there is a "meeting" the guy can write a review, but I will concede that if the money is returned it makes it a LOT harder to make the case he felt ripped off.

Personally I think there is more to this than either party is letting on. This guy sounds PISSED, and while he is a tough grader in every other review before this one he always found "something" positive to say, even in his 5-5 reviews.

Reviews and rebuttals are by definition a case of "he said/she said" unless of course lopaw is involved. lol We almost never get the complete, unvarnished truth, and have to make our best guess as to who is the most believable. You know the saying "his side, her side, and the truth" Even listening to only her side of the story, it sounds like not only did she show up not looking like her pics, but she showed up without her head screwed on straight either. and that is HER side of the story, lets say the truth is even halfway between his review and her rebuttal, it still sounds like a VERY bad date.

I stopped getting involved in other people's problems/posts.
Since I lost my dog, I just really haven't been posting.

I used to always get involved in everyone else's problems, which essentially takes away from any time to focus on yourself.

I started ignoring many people and it has made my escorting life much more peaceful.  
It's very easy to get sucked in to this internet life, it's not as easy to just let it be.
I read a dozen or so articles online on how to ignore people online that really bring no positive or happiness to your life. It took some time, but not too long. I don't even click on things anymore that have no interest or value to me.

It makes the internet such a peaceful place.

She states that she has already "said her peace" on another board, so who's to know exactly how she reacted there with out having read that post. For all we know she went all LWAM on his ass on THAT post.

LWAM has several reviews that state she was "older and heavier" than advertised, so we only have HER word that she is now 38 and 135, rather than 40 something and 150+

You might view her differently, but to me she doesn't seem the least bit different from the LWAM of old. Expect perhaps a few years older and quite a few pounds heavier of course.

I would hardly want to try and disparage someone for posting too much, but for a woman who has "stopped posting" you still managed to make the Top Ten posters list on the LV board.

BTW, why didn't you dispute your review on that board, seeing how it's the place you get the review?  

Were you perhaps hoping it would just get buried here on one of TER's deader boards?

you and Steph can debate this as long as you like, but the truth is, the review is simply mean spirited.  I have no idea how old she is, how heavy she is, but the one thing that is clearly obvious is that Verizon is not a nice person.  If he did not like her, he should have walked away, not to mention that even if he saw her and felt that way, why be so crass about it.  He could have stated his objections, without being an awful person.  I have read a lot of reviews, with low scores, without someone being so nasty about it.  Like I said, says more about him then it does about her.

NONE of us were there. Perhaps Verizon is simply not a nice person, or perhaps what LWAM was so bad it elicited this VERY nasty review. It's not like he is a first time reviewer or that he has any prior incidence of being THIS harsh. It's pretty clear to me that she made him VERY unhappy, unhappier than any other woman he has ever seen, which "might" be saying a lot about her and not him.

It's not just the physical, I read several reviews by him where he felt like it was a B&S and in none of those cases did his criticism rise to these levels. I think "something" she did REALLY pissed him off. You seem to want to give LWAM the BOD, I am not so quick to exonerate her and blame him. TER thought it was believable enough to let it stand

True, but although not his first review, it is his first in several years.  And btw, he rates her attitude as great. Understand that we were not their so I will leave it there.

Peace

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First of all...he seems like a very unhappy and nit picking person.  I agree that we should not misrepresent ourselves (they should not either); however, we are human beings.  We change weight.  We can be late or early.  We respond to the chemistry that is happening and it can be off.  We change our hair color and style...who cares?!!   Men who truly appreciate women enjoy our changes and imperfections as we age.   There are many quality gents out here that I have had the pleasure to meet a few who adore every inch and bit of experience!  So no apologies.  Chin up!!

Also who cares what was said in the past or whatever, she doesn't seem like she is "owning" the board these days. Lord people change and also many come across differently on these boards than they would in real life.  

  Sometimes people forget that we, providers are people too. Not just commodities.  

  Not sure why GaG, is so surprised that other men haven't come on here to stick up for her. I know they certainly have though just not on the boards. I have had clients say to me that she didn't deserve such behavior.  These boards are really such a small percentage of this hobby/provider community.  

  Everyone enjoy your weekend!! Peace, Love and Happiness to All!!

END OF MESSAGE

If I am not mistaken, it is little woman.  I could be wrong, but...

Last word Alyssa Marie.

It was a nickname given to me (quite ironically) by the people who post non stop on the General discussion board. A place that I haven't even looked at in over year. I can say that I have never once been the top poster on these boards. That's something that the one person that uses that abbreviation can't say. He has been since like 1972. Take it for what it's worth. I don't want to be a part of their clique, so.. There ya have it.

If you were "just saying hello", why would you bring the limelight upon yourself by mentioning this incident / review?

The negative energy you feel must be overwhelming. Is that why you brought this up?

Truth be told, had you simply NOT brought the attention to yourself here, many of us would have not ever known about this.  

I have not seen you nor do I plan to and this bringing of drama to the "game" is the biggest reason why. Your reputation on this topic is well known by many.

Lastly, I am not supporting the reviewers comments and the way they were laid out. I agree with others here that there are nicer ways to word things and derogatory wording has no place here.

And perhaps pickup new clients.  Some guys like bbws.  She also has a cute doubles partner.

Just goes to show..

Being a BBW isn't a bad thing, but I am not one.
Having a cute doubles partner is not a bad thing, but I don't have one.

Sorry that I can't comment more, but the people replying to this are on my ignore list. For obvious reasons. It's amazing when you don't agree with certain people on the internet how they can take it so personal. That's what the ignore feature is for. Move on. Life is too short to spend it on drama. Especially when it has nothing to do with you.

If you don't want to spend life on the "drama", why then do you create it?

Chicken Little just called LWAM a BBW.

How about this - Alyssa is awesome, and you're a choad. Happy now?