I've noticed that more girls are using the word submissive in their ads. Do you think that this means that BDSM services are being offered, that they are opened to BBFS might be offered, or these girls are throwing words around.

However, a friend of mine was visiting me over the holidays and he wanted to try one of these BP girls who advertised this way.

He called several girls who advertised they were "open minded" or "very open-minded" (with me sitting right next to him), and asked them what "open-minded" meant to them. Most answers had nothing to do with being dominant or submissive. One girl said it meant she would do "greek" if he wasn't too large. Another girl told him it meant for a slight raise in her donation, she would be willing to do BBFS.

We found the BBFS troubling (yes, we know it goes on) and he ended the conversation with her immediately (on another note, I found that she would even talk about specific services on the phone to be problematic / dangerous - but sometimes, that's what you get when trolling around on BP).

He ended up seeing a girl who did not advertise that way and according to him, had a fair time (I think he settled on a girl who was getting $150/hour).

Bottom line is that I believe the girls on BP have no clue what they're getting themselves into by writing what they do since there is no "unified" meaning to it....kinda like a GFE....it simply means different things to different people.