It occurs to me that some reviews are rather negative. This is tough work and some days people are just "off".  Perhaps we would be better off not doing a review if it is negative and based on only one visit. This is a such a sensitive thing and both sides are better off if there is maximum courtesy and benefit of the doubt.

For the ladies the risks of running into a jerk are quite clear. And horrible.  For the guys you can just walk away at the start if you feel uncomfortable.  Guys are at way lower risk other than losing the time.

Just a thought I wanted to share. No offense to anyone and good wishes to all.

I think you said it better!  I was trying to get to the same place. Thanks for providing clarity.