you do not smell as fresh as you should!  A fellow provider and I had an interesting discussion on this topic recently. Ladies in this biz (most) know that freshness below is required, but what's up with guys not cleansing their bums and expecting a finger in there??  I don't know about other ladies, but I for one am not putting my finger anywhere that does not smell appealing or that I will have a surprise when my finger is pulled out.  Now some will say, "look what comes out though" , really?  We will not do that.  The same preparation for ladies in the Greek industry should be used in this case as well. Please be mindful of not only the front but also the back.  And it's too late to wash it once I smell it because all I can imagine is what must have happened before I arrived.  So, if you plan to requests a prostate massage and never had one, be mindful and scrub the entrance of the bum!  

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I agree that a thorough scrub and perhaps even an enema (with the original fluid removed and clean warm water substituted) are very important if requesting prostate massage.

But also, for the ladies, wearing latex or non-latex gloves for prostate massage is critical.  Because even when someone does clean very well, sometimes shit happens.  And a glove pulls off very easily, goes inside out, and gets tossed in the trash.  It is easy to don a fresh glove.  Much less disruptive than running to wash hands.  Sexy black gloves in your exact size are best.  For example, I have tiny hands so I prefer to use non-latex (nitrile) black gloves in size Small.  I think they're super sexy.  I've never seen a doctor use black gloves and I only use them to play so that's my primary association with them.  Plus on a safety note, cuts in the fingers or tears around the fingernails, etc. can spread HIV and other blood-borne infections and since I am also a chef, and always have some kinda tiny cuts or scratches somewhere on my hands, it is never worth the risk for me to put my fingers inside of someone without a sexy black glove on my hand.  The risk is minimal, but you never know what someone might have, so safety first, always.

I am even more shocked when men are not clean and they want my FACE down there.  Guys, rub your asshole with your finger and then stick your finger under your nostrils and sniff.  If it doesn't smell like roses you need to try again.

I guess this doesn't matter as much for guys who are not interested in prostate massage, but the massage is such a pleasureful and mind-blowing experience that I think it's a shame when someone is ready to try but doesn't take the time to prepare properly and then isn't able to experience it.  I've been thinking about adding a page to my website about this to provide a proactive reference for guys who want to make sure they're properly prepared.  Although a google search also does a pretty good job.

I've been specializing in prostate massage for a while but I just went to a class in Manhattan the other night taught by a specialist who recently wrote a book about prostate pleasure, so I'm experiencing a renewed sense of excitement (and I learned a few new tricks)!

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Gloves!!! Yes I totally agree!  Please say that you would like this service so that I can be prepared and come prepared.  And I will kindly inform you on my expectations in order to provide the service.

Great tips.  Add the page girl.  I have compiled a list of tips since the smell from hell incident I recently had

....you have to get clean before we can get dirty but I don't mean THAT kind of dirty lol.  
I'm pretty sure I make clear on my site (damnit need to double-check lol) if they especially want any penetrating play they have be already prepared just like they'd want me to be.  
Fair is fair ..... also laughing but totally serious.

END OF MESSAGE

I am a firm believer in latex gloves and I go through more of those than I do condoms to be quite honest.  Still though, once poop has  happened, you can't turn back.  How do you maintain a sexy atmosphere when there's poop?

Luckily I see a lot of fetish guys who know that cleaning their bum is part of the territory if they want me to have a fullfilled, no holds barred, session with them.  

As I like to say, you wouldn't want hygiene to keep me from any territory we just MIGHT end up covering, now would you?

Cheers.

Whit