I'm not much into the AMPs that are basically brothels pretending to be legit massage places.  For one, the actual massages are usually not that good, plus the ladies are typically very high volume.  However, it is my experience that asian ladies that really know how to massage are the best.  For one thing, many white CMTs act like something is going to jump out from under the sheet and bite them when they get around the lower areas that often need the help.  Asian massage therapist on the other hand are usually not the least bit shy and will dig right in.  

There is a legit AMP, or more or less legit AMP, that I have been going to for some time.  Massages are great.  The old owners were very strict and would fire therapist caught giving happy endings.  However, it has been under new ownership for a couple of years and happy ending have become a bit more common there though not all therapist do them.  

There is this one cute Chinese therapist there that I have been seeing for some time and she seems to REALLY be taking a liking to me.  Granted, part of it is I'm a good tipper.  But each time things have gone a little farther.  First me feeling her up over her shirt, then under her shirt.  Then feeling her up while also running my hand along her crotch.  Then her starting to kiss me repeatedly on the lips.  She now contacts me between visits by text to see how I doing etc.  She speaks almost no English so the way we have a conversation is through google translator or other electronic translators.  

I have been very, very, tempted to see how far this will go.  She is just so cute.  With the last visit not only was I feeling her up under her shirt, but I also had her pants and underpants down fingering her.  I was just about to try going down on her when another therapist walked by the room and spooked her.  She jumped about a 6 inches in the air and then pulled her pants up.  There are no doors on the rooms, only curtains and it is quite common for one therapist to stick their head in to ask another therapist a question.  Plus about a week ago she seemed to drop a hint about wanting to have dinner with me.  

I don't know if she is looking for an easy way to get permanent residency here or what.  I wouldn't think she is looking for a true LTR because for one thing, having to use an electronic translator to communicate is a big issue, LOL.

I don't know what to do.  I really want to do her.  She really likes me and is just so cute.  But I'm concerned she might get the wrong idea and I definitely don't want to hurt her feelings.  Or she might be okay with just a fling.  I'm also kind of having flashbacks to an uncomfortable situation I ran into many years ago with an stripper I went home with.  First time or two was fine, then she went all psycho and started acting like we were getting married soon or something.  In that case I was making repeat visits to a different state so the solution was simple, fly home and avoid going back.  In this case, I would not have that luxury.  

Such a dilemma, escorts are easier as it is clear what the expectation is.  But temptation is temptation

of whether to go farther with her can be distilled down to this:  Does she shave her pussy?

Seriously,  you have already given her your phone number, and if she has not been stalker-ish or abused your trust in that regard, you should keep expanding the boundaries until and unless you get to a point where you feel uncomfortable with where you're currently at.  I know form my own experience that its always dicey dating a girl that speaks little English.  There are myriad opportunities for misunderstandings.  I recommend asking her out to dinner and see how she reacts, both to the invitation and if she actually goes.  You've been in the game long enough to know when a woman is into you.  Play it by ear a day at a time.

I bit over a month ago the answer was no, full bush.  However, the last time it seems there had been some work done down there.  Shaved, no, but maybe a good trim.  A full bush is not all that bad.  If a hair gets stuck in your teeth you can simply use it later for dental floss.  

If your sole intent is to just do her, then I would probably keep things just the way they.  I don't see any point in trying to figure out if she's potentially wanting something more than what you want.  False impressions create problems.

from the description of her she doesn't even have the looks to the top kgirls or definitely the sex skills of the top girls.   go bang a top kgirl like rebecca or something and you will be going "amp chinese girl who?".

Part of it is probably the challenge that is tempting me.  The other part is I like low volume and with her I suspect she hasn't gotten any for quite some time.  She is still really cute.

If I put some fresh out of the oven brownies in front of you, told you to leave then alone, then left the room, you know full well you would be tempted to sneak one and eat it if I wouldn't notice.

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so no i wouldn't eat her.

You have not seen her or photos of her.  Granted, most K-girls are 9's on looks.  With her, if I was rating her in a review she would be somewhere between a 7 ad 8 on looks.  However, looks are secondary to me, within reason of course.  I look at the overall package.  She is actually one of the younger, hotter, ladies there.  But your comment about drama........yeah, that is my concern and what is causing my big head and little head to argue a lot.

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I used to go to AMP's that sometimes had extras on the menu.  Never met an AMP girl that shaved.  Trimming is a start, I guess.

The final consummation is even better with the long build up you are describing.  Variety, surprise, anticipation are almost necessary spices for me these days to enjoy the meal!

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and she thinks you guys are getting married FOR SURE!!

You seem smart, you could learn Cantonese or Mandarin - whichever she speaks - and you'll probably have to after her dad and brother (who own that business) figure out where you live...

Seriously man, she's somebody's daughter and she's still in high school...

LOL, I know the owner and no they are not related.  Many of the ladies there seem to come over here from China for several months then go back, so no she is not in high school.  I would guess her age, with the asian adjustment, to be somewhere between 30 and 35.  She is no kid, in general I prefer ladies over 25 anyhow.  Much younger and it kind of does not seem right to me.

Good example of why I don't like to use my phone to pose.
or ppst, or post I should say.

I was kidding brother.  

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