I recently had an issue with a girl giving a bad reference on a client. They client is brand new to the hobby & only had 1 reference. He had a great time & thought she did as well so he obviously used her as his reference. When I contacted her. Her first response was "He's great!". So I scheduled with him. I then started receiving more emails from her saying, things that were opposite to her initial email. This now confused me. So I told the client I was going to have to cancel our session. He of course was confused, just as much as I was. I then explained that his reference (the provider) had given me information saying that he wasn't necessarily safe. He then forwarded me all the emails she had been sending him, since I verified him through her. She had started emailing him, trying to set up a date. Also, expressing how much she likes him & wanted to see him again. After seeing these emails, it was obvious to me that she told me these not so nice things about him to detour me from seeing him. So maybe he would continue to book with her and not another provider.  

This has happened to me in the past as well.  
It just comes down to simple jealousy.  
That lady has no problem seeing other guy but its not ok for one of her clients to see another lady.  
This hobby is about variety and fun and the possibility of connecting with someone.  

References are about safety and anytime a provider forgets that and tries to leverage her references for her own personal gain she's not only hurting the entire hobby community, she's also putting herself in jeopardy. I would hope any provider that did this would be quickly outed. References and white lists are only as good as the providers reputation.

Funny....I had the same experience a couple of days ago (from a classless/UNEDUCATED provider), where she  forwarded a copy of my PRIVATE e-mail., to the CLIENT.....Verifications are PRIVATE...

Yes although it has gotten better and the ladies work together much better now than in the past but still a long way to go.  Unfortunately some don't get it that teamwork keeps everyone safe.

Network & make a provider friend who is reputable & professional.  I find it easy to ask for a reference from providers I know & have met at M&G's, etc.

I could not agree more with you!

I know how you can prevent the other provider from saying bad things about her customers.
Just tell us who the lying weasel is  

The lady you are accusing, is a very well respected Escort, and told you truthful info on the Client. I have worked with her for a few years, and she is a stand up, classy lady!. I receive wonderful verifications from her, all the time.

No where in the op is the word "desperate" used. She just explained that the other provider was trying to keep the client to herself.  

The emails that were written between the providers, is something you have NOT seen "Crazy Talk"/AKA "AA/OP., so YOU have no clue what is going on.

Dear super kray,

Kayla, You fail to address the fundamental issue....why did your provider friend initially give the gentleman a favorable verification and then follow up with contradicting negative information? No one on the board (other than you, AA, and the anonymous lady AA posted about) know who the client is, what name calling seemed to occur, or who forwarded emails along. All of those things are a dispute none of us have enough information about to appropriately comment on. However, you did not dispute the claim in the original post......so.....did your friend give the guy a positive reference initially and then contradict that? If so, why?