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Tenoch1 1539 reads
posted
1 / 19
Is my GF a Provider?

have a nagging intuition that my girlfriend has worked as a high-end escort and might even still do so on occasion. There is no conclusive evidence. However, everything taken together presents a strong circumstantial case.  

I don't have anything personally or morally against the profession or the business in the general. My concern would be the level of deceit and not being able to trust her in the future.

Are there any thoughts as to how I could at least assuage my concerns? I have run all of her numbers through the search engine, a general profile of her, etc, and I've come up empty handed. I'm not really sure what else to do

Cumbledor 890 reads
posted
2 / 19
You need to break up with her.

And send me her number.

DeanMason 852 reads
posted
3 / 19
I only date...

Providers.

Vanilla is boring and lazy. Providers are warm.  Send me her number and I will let you know.

Tenoch1 862 reads
posted
4 / 19
Re: You need to break up with her.

Lol. I suppose I shouldn't have expected too many serious replies. Cheers. =0

swish44 577 reads
posted
5 / 19
Sorry Your girlfriend Loves my Cock better!!! EOM

Posted By: Tenoch1
 
 I have a nagging intuition that my girlfriend has worked as a high-end escort and might even still do so on occasion. There is no conclusive evidence. However, everything taken together presents a strong circumstantial case.  
   
 I don't have anything personally or morally against the profession or the business in the general. My concern would be the level of deceit and not being able to trust her in the future.  
   
 Are there any thoughts as to how I could at least assuage my concerns? I have run all of her numbers through the search engine, a general profile of her, etc, and I've come up empty handed. I'm not really sure what else to do.  
   
 

Chauncey Gardner 711 reads
posted
6 / 19
Trick question

So you're posting on a board for hobbyists.  You're "running" your GF's numbers behind her back. You're seeing patterns in her behavior that you associate--presumably based on experience--with being a provider. And you're worried about whether YOU can trust HER?   The inmates are running the asylum.

Giovanni007 135 Reviews 601 reads
posted
7 / 19
Ok, I confess...

She is having an affair with me and we are so much in love now that we are thinking about tieing the knot in Vegas next weekend.  She was thinking about asking you to see if you want to be the best man!!!

EasyGoing4U 64 Reviews 556 reads
posted
8 / 19
Some guys have all the luck. (eom)


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amptor 5 Reviews 666 reads
posted
9 / 19
Ask her opinion

I thinks bring up the general topic of high end escorts or whatever. Talk about an article in the news. Gauge her opinion. If she isn't an idiot, it's not hard to have a separate phone number and email for her previous business.  

...

You could also post her pic and let all of evaluate if we have seen her or not. :)
Posted By: Tenoch1
 
 I have a nagging intuition that my girlfriend has worked as a high-end escort and might even still do so on occasion. There is no conclusive evidence. However, everything taken together presents a strong circumstantial case.  
   
 I don't have anything personally or morally against the profession or the business in the general. My concern would be the level of deceit and not being able to trust her in the future.  
   
 Are there any thoughts as to how I could at least assuage my concerns? I have run all of her numbers through the search engine, a general profile of her, etc, and I've come up empty handed. I'm not really sure what else to do.  
   
 

MSON123 44 Reviews 661 reads
posted
10 / 19
Whats the problem

I think it is unreasonable for either side to expect monogamy from the other. So what is to trust?  
After many years in the hobby and marriage I have learned a few things. There are all sorts of levels of love. Sex can be a part of love but does not define it. If you partner is Happy and content they do not look to stray from home. But if you are not meeting ALL of their needs you can not expect them out of some twisted idea of "trust" or morality not to fulfill those needs elsewhere.  

It starts with communication and wanting to be with the other. As we age there are biological functions that may make sex undesirable for one of the parties, Just because one does not want sex should not be a requirement that the other can not have sex. Sex is a primal instinct. Perhaps you both need to look at what you want from the other in a relationship. If you think she is straying find out what she likes the most from it (money, excitement, adventure, weird sex..) . And if it something you can do then do it. If not and it still bothers you then move on you were not meant to be. It is all your decision not hers! So Whats the problem. Why are you wasting your time trying to find out. What will you do if the answer is not what you want

loveboat 579 reads
posted
11 / 19
You are accusing her of infidelity ............

and yet you are here. Don’t you think this is a double standard?

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 506 reads
posted
12 / 19
Why not ask her & see if she will be honest? E


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oralconniseur 10 Reviews 582 reads
posted
13 / 19
Is that not being hypocritical?


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Carla_capri See my TER Reviews 789 reads
posted
14 / 19
why don'' t you ....

relax ....
YOU SHOUID be proud of yourself  she is giving YOU  free what she charge  for the   others.... common!!!
SEE  the good side of situation  

 
you mention...... " everything taken together presents a strong circumstantial case."  
your  Suspicion on   THAT...  is because maybe you are  Seeing ESCORTS too ???.. so?  trust her ...hum..
anyway  
have fun  
Iife is really short

anydos 524 reads
posted
15 / 19
I wish Carla was my girlfriend.

Of course it would probably kill me in about a week, because she's a force of nature, but what a way to go.

needacure 438 reads
posted
16 / 19
re: is my GF a provider?

Trying to be serious. It's uncomfortable. I have a seen a few providers who are basically full time saying they go back to their boyfriend in the evenings and weekends. It's kind of a turn off unless I don't have too many extra feelings.

re: what Carla said, personally if I had a GF who is pretty and sensual enough to be a provider, I wouldn't be seeing providers anymore.  

That said, my own logical nonjudgmental thought to your question would be to hire a professional detective/spy to help you get the answers you want

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 420 reads
posted
17 / 19
Put a couple of benji's on the nightstand and see if she takes it. (eom)


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clubjeffe 107 Reviews 436 reads
posted
18 / 19
Is this a joke? C'mon! Really?

WTF?!?!   Dude, you have to be joking.  You think that your girlfriend may have been a high-end escort.  Yeah, so what?  Do you really think that you are the only guy to fuck her - either in the past or in the future?   If she is still working - how does it get in the way of your relationship (other of course than in your own head)?

I've dated ladies 'in the profession' prior to moving to CA.  It takes a lot of communication and honesty.  Just like any relationship.  

First off you just need to ask her.  She might think that it's funny and you'll both have a good laugh about it or she may in fact be still working and then you'll have to make a decision.  You'll have two options ....  You can let your imagination run wild and ruin any chance that the two of you could be together or you could just relax and enjoy it.  

But if she is still working and you are a jealous type of guy - save yourself the grief and just break it off now.

Carla_capri See my TER Reviews 640 reads
posted
19 / 19
Re: Put a couple of benji's on the nightstand and see if she takes it. (eom)

or weeding ring on her finger
see ......she may  want be private provider
AND she gets  great profit  divorce in 10 years providing
got the idea??

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