This is the BEST advise I could give a provider starting off.    Be honest, take REAL pictures, and be REAL.   You look the way you do and guys like all different looks and styles.   I do agree...they should have reviews for guys.  100 %, I think that would be great.  I recently saw a TOP 10 provider (Amber in LA) and the first thing she said to me was wow..."She was right, You are HOT" referring to a reference she called and/or emailed.  Women do their due-diligence....but a website for reviews of guys would be amazing.  You would read things like "he was fat", he was too hairy, he was really old, he couldn't get hard...it would be fucking awesome.  It would be great reading pleasure that's for sure.  Anyway...please chime in

If a Provider made a website for women to rate clients....a lot of these NOT so nice guys like Ickny, back_in_black, vetchief and others would really be exposed.   That would be worth the price of admission.  And you girls would really know what you are dealing with before they showed up.   Another plus would be that you could ask them things like..."Do you mind shaving before you come", "Can you man-scape before our date", "can you please be well grommed and showered prior to arrival" ...All great comments and suggestions

I'm confident the ladies would love to read of the OCD addled, hypersensitive, cigarette smoke phobic, insufferably finicky, narcissistic, messiah complex behind the author of this OP.

I can tell you right now we don't care if you guys are over weight, older or having trouble with erections.  
What we girls want to know is if you have showered, are respectful, etc.  I have never ever even once had another provider ask me if a guy was hot or fit or whatever. Only how he treated me. We are women, not men. Women are emotional and men are visual.  

I know you guys think looks and performance are what matters most to women. You are so wrong. Seriously, we get lots of dick and quite frankly you all have one. We want to see men who are passionate and don't treat us like walking vaginas. We want men who want to know us, not just drop a load and high five yourselves on the way out. Laura is a classy lady. I can assure you her site won't disclose body types or erectile issues. That is inappropriate. And if a site like that existed, I for one, would want no part of it. Makes me mad just thinking about it.  

I will take a 60 year old gentleman with a good heart and passionate kisses over a young, fit guy with no clue how to treat a lady any day of the week. Period.  

Why am I so offended by this post?!?

xo - Hannah

Hi There

Its the only way is be honest and keep it real. What do you have to fake it.
Not a good business trait.

Alley

xo

As entertaining as that may be, this ain't the dating game or a popularity contest. This is a business. If you're a handsome client it's a plus, but the money will always come first.  

A provider's favorite client will always be the gentleman who spends the most.

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Whenever I have a guy say, "believe me.. You will find me attractive." Or, "I don't look like the normal guy who does this." ... I kinda, how do I say this politely? ..  

Hannah hit it right on the button for me.

When a girl asks for a reference I will usually reply with answers to the following -  
Was he respectful.
Was he clean.
Did he show up on time.
Were there any issues with the donation.
Did he overstay his welcome.

The only thing in regards to physical structure that I will share is if he is either
1) short and didnt want me in heels  
Or
2) if he needed a different type of condom

And neither of those are for anything other than my fellow girl to have a heads up.

The good looks is gravy brother.....it's all about the MONEY.  I understand that completely.  If I was a Male escort (I should be) and a hot women paid to have sex with me:

1.  I would take the money
2. Be happy she was HOT
3. Make her cum like she never came before.

Money is the #1...Bottom line.  I'm very wealthy for a reason son.....

She was BLINDED by the size of the envelope not your supposed looks!
Seriously this was a funny post!!!
I look like Johhny Depp when there are 4 Bens in a envelope!

escorting has changed my perspective to men

my last boyfriend was 40

im only 22 but i learnt to accept him and i found his kind soul attraction more amazing
then his exterior  
and thats what made me fall for him

 
NEVER EVER JUDGE a womans opinion to a man

 
of course money is a big part of this game

 
but for you to assume the ladies would bully a client on the review system  

 
is only because you would do it  

if something annoyed you

and sweety  

if a guy has money and he isan ass hole it doesnt mean all providers would stick around and service
him...

certainly not me

First, regarding the authenticity of a ladies website including pictures, description, etc., I 100% agree.  Ladies that use pics that are 10-15 years old don't help anyone.  Word does get.  Just like the ladies talk, the guys do to.  Most of us know that the reviews do not mean a while lot.  They are a guide and thats it.

Now, regarding what a woman looks for a in a date, believe me, what a lady wants is someone who is respectful, whom she feels comfortable with, who doesn't smell (in all areas, lol), and genuinely wants both parties to have a good time.  In the end, this is a business, and the ladies are doing this to make money.  But, the ones that last in this business and have legions of followers and regulars also show their appreciation by gents who simply treat them nice and that they enjoy being with.  I have had several 2 hour appts that have turned into 4 hour or even overnights.  I have had ladies who actually returned part of the donation.  Many many time, I have lunch or dinner with ladies off the clock.  And I am friends with a few ladies.  Mind u, I am not that great looking (just ok).  But I do treat the ladies with respect and I am always on time (also a major +).

This business isn't rocket science.  It is not hard to get perks.  But u treat a lady like a hooker, that is exactly how she will respond.

I always give this advice.  If a lady is having a good time, there is a pretty good chance u will be having a good or better time.  Cuz,  really, the ones that are successful in this biz, get the regulars.  And thats all they need.

A guy being hot has nothing whatsoever to do with a lady seeing a gent.  And every lady will tell u that.

My two centavos.

Bond

The problem is, the number of top local providers that won't see him is growing every day and it has nothing to do with his looks, its because of his attitude. He's currenly shilling for a provider because she's giving him special rates for every new guy he sends her.  So not only is he a narcissistic chauvinist, he's now a full on pimp.

I  couldn't agree more. The only thing that would get someone refused is if
he is disrespectful or has bad hygiene and they don't need a review board
to determine that. Indies communicate and bookers communicate. If those  
negatives exist you will not get a return text of call. If you are not too good
looking it really doesn't matter as long as you are respectful and considerate.
That is the determining factor.

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Several years ago a beautiful, highly reviewed provider that I had seen several times gave me a reference to a friend of hers in NYC who I wanted to see while I was visiting there.  She copied me on the e-mail she sent.  At first I was a bit taken back that she didn't describe my age, how I looked or the shape I was in.  Instead, she said I was "clean, safe, respectful and a gentlemen."  This was what was important.  Her friend saw me and I saw both of them several more times over the years.  Anything else, like being good looking, in good shape is, I believe, icing on the cake.