Got stood up for the 1st time last week from a well known provider. She did not even have the courtesy of emailing and letting me know she cant make it ............. what is the world coming to

Yea it amazing instead of treating their profession as a buisness they pull that crap with you . There are providers out there that realize that you could be a good client but most providers have a brain the size of a pea .Sorry to hear about that ..Move on

Posted By: arsn21

Got stood up for the 1st time last week from a well known provider. She did not even have the courtesy of emailing and letting me know she cant make it ............. what is the world coming to

RT is right on, but I would give the lady a reasonable amount of time for an explanation. She may have had a legitimate emergency, which could be continuing. However, if you contact her and she doesn't respond then name names.

Name names and let the shit storm commence.  
Get in touch with the provider and ask for an explanation.
Let it go.

RT Over & Out

I can't get several providers to reply to me, even with a few references.  Is a 'no reply' a 'no' like in Los Angeles civie life?  Who knew it would get to the point where I couldn't p2p to get a date!

You name names.......One never Knows sometimes accidents happen and may be in the Hospital where it may be difficult or can not get in touch...... I know because i was in a couple of accidents this summer and sometimes you may lose a phone number by getting a bunch of calls the number gets bounced off and there is no way to contact.

I would wait a week aleast before nameing names you may ruin someones business at a time when she may need to catch up on financials.....

Please Keep it safe with all those Drunk Drivers out there during the Holiday Season!

I can recall occasions where I could not make the appointments nor had the chance to inform the ladies..some stuff is beyond our control..you should find out what happened to her before posting the name...

It happened to me last week too. And it's unfair to the ladies who put up a reference for me -- I'm sure they wouldn't want to hear that after they spent time verifying me again the date never materialized.

In my case I lost my whole day at work. After being lead-on and waiting for too long out in my car I finally called her back and was like, "My day is burned, I gotta go. Next time don't lead me on." There is nothing I find more unappealing than waiting in my car.

Isn't this a website to post reviews, feedback and insight?  Isn't this a place for the discriminating hobbyist?  Seriously, what are the odds of a legit emergency versus she is who she is and just flaked on you.  Post the name and if there was a legit emergency you can re-track.

HAHA -- folks thanks for the support, but rest assured  that I have moved on! that night but just wanted to share the experience.

But i do agree with ginger tho: it could have been an emergency, + plus i dont like outing some in open market unless its a really serious event.  but no email from her yet

Thanks all your input !
Happy holidays and hobbying !

Posted By: arsn21

Got stood up for the 1st time last week from a well known provider. She did not even have the courtesy of emailing and letting me know she cant make it ............. what is the world coming to

All you did was make a post for sympathy. Your post is worthless to anyone else.