Start with a few sessions with older providers you have seen who are still working like Kayla, Jenny in the Valley and Dahlia! Once you see them you should have some recommendations that will help you expand your universe! You probably haven’t seen Dahlia’s new D-Units ( not so new anymore!). She will have friends for you to meet! Then you’re off and running!!
Thank you for your input. I love Dahlia and her "sorority sisters"! I'll look her up again.
AA = African American
I'm also a PhD in a STEM dicipline too.
I have a degree in Black Studies because I am raising young AA & Latino men in training. I would be happy to whitelist you here on TER if you want to book a date. Welcome back! I delisted from p411 and do not advise using that site. I do not do references. Never asked, or required a reference from anyone I do not know personally. I am old school. Check out my stellar reviews here. I don’t mind driving to make a new friend.
My website is linked below. I’m overdue for a photoshoot, but here’s a photo of me celebrating my 47th Birthday this week. 😁 Many won’t see AA’s & I am happy to provide for all kind humans. Smile for me!
Hi QueenBia,
You have a way of speaking that feels genuine and grounded. I like how clear you are about who you are and what you expect. I appreciate that. You seem like someone who values connection as much as conversation. I’d like to meet you and see what kind of energy we share.
MysteryDude
Now there are 2 of us! (AA that is)
I sent you a PM with a couple of suggestions. However, if you have been on the sidelines since 2016, prepare for some serious sticker shock. In LA, $800 is no longer unusual and $1k is no longer rare.
If you're interested in the K-girl space, read their websites carefully--several won't see AA men.
Having said all that, it's a great time to be a player. I've had some fabulous experiences with some fantastic gals in the last few years. Sure, the price has gone up, but there are some truly gorgeous women out there willing to engage in some lively debauchery.
There are a lot of providers that are able to screen you without a reference. I'm one of them. I'd be delighted to help you get back into the swing of things. [email protected]
Hey, no worries at all—nine years is a long break, but jumping back in is totally doable. A lot of folks rebuild from scratch by being upfront about the gap and using alternative screening like work info, LinkedIn, or even a quick video chat. Yeah, there are still plenty of friendlies around who get it and are open to that, especially if you're clear and respectful from the start. Being AA hasn't changed much in terms of options; most are inclusive these days. Start slow, check out some community forums for recent tips, and you'll be good. What's got you wanting to dive back in?
I stepped out for a decade before jumping back in.
A time and place for everything.
If i were you id start with the Gina Rollins and Jemmy of the Valleys to get your references going and work my way up to some Vicki Chase action.
I'm newer to the hobby, but I've noticed even in my time in it, there are a lot of AI profiles and OF managers running escort accounts on sites like Tryst now. Tryst is full of fake profiles now, even with higher prices points for the hour, like escorts over 800/hr. A lot of the OF or AI scammers are lower price points as in, 10/10 girls for 250 or 300/hr too. They won't have websites or social media linked, just OF or sometimes just OF and a WhatsApp number only. I see everyone from k girls to girls 1000+/hr. Depends on my mood. If it's not a k girl, I always check someone's social media presence, review boards if they allow reviews, read their ad and websites, then book. Just do your research and don't rush it.
Hi Mystery Dude.
I can only provide my insights as a provider.
1. When a prospective new friend doesn't have recent (within the last year) references, I'll sometimes accept the most recent he has.
2. I do have alternatives to references.
3. I personally do see AA clients. I do know some ladies don't, which, being as that is, is a personal choice I guess.
I hope this helps, be safe and have fun!
xo xo
Alyna
Welcome back! A lot has changed in the last 9 years! You’re definitely not alone in feeling like it’s a whole new world.
The good news is that screening has evolved quite a bit, and many providers no longer rely strictly on references. There are a variety of options now-each provider has their own methods that you can inquire individually about.
As for being AA, I’ll be honest-it’s unfortunate that you even feel the need to ask that. Speaking for myself and many providers I know, we see and welcome people of all races, backgrounds, shapes, sizes, and abilities. As long as you’re respectful, genuine, and a grown adult (legal age, of course), you’re good.
I actually took almost 3 years off myself, and even that felt like coming back to a completely different landscape-so I can only imagine how it feels after nine. But once you get familiar with the new norms, it’s very navigable.
You’ll be just fine 😊
