For the gents:  
What is something you wish providers did more of on your dates? And are there things do you wish we did less of?  
Feel free to elaborate and/or share your 'ideal' experience.

More kissing.  I like deep, passionate kisses; the feeling of connecting tongues, lips and heat. I watch a lot of lesbian porn, and I want a woman who will kiss me like the women in a Lezkiss video kiss each other.  

I find a lot of providers seem to want to move fast. Some get right into the action, spending no time on small intro talk. I'm not suggesting a lot, but 5 or so minutes getting to know each other helps break the ice. Then, let's spend some time kissing and feeling each others bodies with our clothes on. I'm not a big fan of providers who are down to their lingerie before we even engage.

Sometimes I will ask my date to tell me what they like. The best encounters for me are ones where I feel like she is truly having a good time. Also, I'm always hoping to up my game and I figure who better to tell me how to do that than someone with so much experience? When they do tell me, and then respond to my efforts, it makes the experience more believable.

With any lady I meet--civvy or P4P--is don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable just because I asked. After all these decades on this planet, I can usually tell when a lady is uncomfortable with certain acts, and I just can't continue once I sense that.  It's why I see the same duo couples over and over--I hate when a lady agrees to a duo and then spends the hour essentially avoiding intimate contact with the other lady. I would much rather know up front so we can avoid anything off putting and therefore have a mutually enjoyable session.

I hear this! I think deep, sensual kisses really enhance the connection. I love it, too! And I personally leave the gagging for the girls that are PSE, unless I have someone request it, then I'm happy to ablige. Good thing is there's someone for everyone out there... And one of many beautiful things about this hobby is the variety of companions available to meet one's preferences. Thanks for your response! xo

I think one of my favorite aspects of the encounter is the tease, the anticipation of what's to come.... The initial connection beforehand & the excitement that builds. I love taking things slow and progressing actually just as you describe. I feel this is what a true GFE date is xo

Or how about maybe you are in no need of instruction? Maybe you don't require feedback because you are already doing everything right....  
xo

Thank you, love!! xo

Oh wow yeah I can only imagine that would feel uncomfortable when u can really sense she is not liking something ... Glad u have some regular duo's you enjoy. As someone who really enjoys both men & women I can tell you that the few times over the years that I have had duo dates with women I don't know, it's not comfortable at all for me either if they aren't really into it. It can definitely be a buzz kill Lol. xo

It was a while ago with a lady who was UTR at the time. I was using the handle Phunhog at the time.  
I can affirm, attest and authenticate that you were a fabulous duo participant. Ahhh . . . memories. 🥲

Ahhh yes, I remember & I remember who you are speaking of....She was so lovely. xo