....by the habits of men who spend time with providers on a regular basis. True hobbiests, in the sense that they partake in this on a consistent basis. Men who have a group of let's say 3-5 of their fave providers that they see often. My question is this, and I know all the answers will vary and that's the fascinating part to me....
Out of your fave providers you see on a regular basis, how do they vary from one another or do they? Do you like a mix of looks or stick to a particular 'type' ie All Blonde, All exotic, etc. And do these providers seem to have similar styles, sexually? All aggressive, PSE types for example, or a mix of PSE and sensual GFE types that you may choose depending on the mood of the day? No wrong or right answers here at all, just purely curious and love to find out what makes men tick...
Xo

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Definitely prefer sensual with a connection mentally. Looks are a plus but
not the overriding factor. Sexually, it is pretty much what the provider prefers.
I find the session goes better for both that way.

I see a few girls regularly, all of them are GFE, but beyond that they vary quite widely.  One is a sporty Yoga instructor, another is a full time student, another would give hipster Barbie a run for her money.  In bed they are all awesome but very different from each other, I guess in my view if I only wanted one kind of experience then I'd always see the same girl.  Physically they are very different, one's Brunette (almost black) one is blond, and one is redheaded.  One is quite curvy, another is thin, and one is quite athletic.

At one time, I was lucky to have two ladies I saw on a regular basis.  
They were complete opposites of each other in every way.  
One was a short petite woman and the other was a curvacious fuller figure woman.  
One tended to be more PSE while the other was extreme GFE.
One was a intense, action packed hour while the other was a slow sensual 2 plus hour session.  

That's the most important. Some look better than others.
Some have better bodies and skills but I really like all
looks and styles as long as there is passion in the air.
A passionate lover often times will  make up for  what  
may be looking in looks but great looks  without passion
is just like a firecracker that won't go off. (Or get me off)

+1

Passion is what works.  Now, while i see exclusively Asian providers, some are tall and curvy, others short and slender, but the ones I return to exude a passion that makes me feel desired and wanted.  It is this passion that keeps me in the hobby.....  RT

but i would have called it "chemistry." i have seen many ladies but there are only a few i return to.  and the only thing they have in common is that they all make me feel as if they truly enjoy their time with me.

ladies, from a blond, brunette, asian and european that have with different body types, but their body type is not as important if there is sexual chemistry between them and I. I like a GFE, but in the true sense of warm bodies passionately enjoying each other. I don't like the AC on freezing because it takes away from the bodyheat that is important to enjoy each other. But what has to be common with all of them is that they must enjoy DATY, because I need to taste their sweet and sometimes tangy nectar.

je ne sais quoi...........simple as that.

Bi Duo Lounge 's playmate x

Chemistry is great but without great passion I don't return.
That's just me.

i think i mean the same thing as you, i'm just calling it something different.  or at least, without one there is never the other.  i've never had chemistry with a partner that i didn't feel the passion from both of us.  

IN  my opinion  I MAY BE WRONG
Men are hunters they want variety and passion but they are  easy nature ... ha ha  SOME oF THEM ..
most Guys that  I met have stress occupation and demanding  W work at home ..
so i may be wrong again
but  iF  you give them passion caring some good 'nice cooking  sometimes '
AND SHARE YOUR  GFE with him
they are most happy
not sure i may be wrong ...
cc


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My current ATFs happen to be both young, very pretty,  lithe and totally wonderful in 3somes. When I go more than a month or so without a 3some I start to get a glassy-eyed stare, begin talking to the furniture and find myself behaving like a Raymond Chandler anti-hero. My ATFs fix me right up, together or individually.  And each has a pretty wide though not inexhaustible menu.  And there a couple of other ladies who, although they don't do doubles,  tend to be a bit easier to meet on short notice and who are nearby and hey that matters too.

I'm not quite a full blown hobbiest but almost there.  I like variety both in looks and performance.  However my favs tend to. Be more sensual gfe than full blown PSE.

very simple....... FOOD.......SEX........ WATCH SPORTS....... SLEEP........ and finally.... LEAVE US ALONE.
the first two can be reversed in order at any time

And, in this case you're perfectly correct!  

Many of us have no problem getting sex, however the one we get it from does not seem to really desire us, or have sexual passion. The attached article points to one of the problems.

Ditto for passion and desire.  Nothing turns me on more than being with someone who seems to want it as much as I do (or more)!

What is GND?

I have 1 atf I see every other week or so. The service is great, she is beautiful, and the price is right. BUT she does not provide everything I desire. So I see others who can fulfill those needs Just not as frequent because of the $ issue.  

I would say.....YOU ARE RIGHT ON TARGET!!!
When the SO gets a little uptight I look for a stress relief and when the  
SO says she would never do a three some well that's when I call Carla .