Hey everyone,
I want to make it a point to clarify off the bat that what i am about to convey here is NOT a plea in any way shape or form. I'm not asking for a handout. Though not typical, it IS an ad, and I'm more than fine with it being my weekly post, as the issue at hand and the person it concerns are way  more important to me right now.

Last week , I promised to start a new and creative weekly video project every saturday along with my ads. Not a sexy 'action video' , as its not my style, but rather something innovative and different that would bring a little commraderie and wit, even a sense of community in a way to our board here.  Its like cheers, and its the familiar names that make a place special. There was one member here that was as enthusiastic as i was about it, my cameralady/lovely assistant/ my friend, Amsterdam 69.  Many of you know her already, whether by name alone or in person she's a member that gives a lot of time, insight, and thoughtfulness to this board every week.  I guess thats is why i felt compelled to take this here....i need assistance in helping her, as she is someone both here and in real life that would do anything to be a true friend to others, without fail, and thats a rare treasure, and friday night as we were planning our lil debut, she was hit with the news of not one, but TWO tradgedies in her family, both of them her uncles, within just hours of one another. Mind you, these are her biological family members whom she is close with, but what made the situation so unique is that they were not together....one from her moms side was discovered, revived, and on life support but is not expected to pull thru the next few days, the other was on her dads side, found dead the night before. Both of them made known to her quite literally one right after the other, I've never seen anything like it, and i don't think any of us can really begin to understand or imagine what she's feeling right now. In light of that, its just not the time for our project to begin, and my focus has shifted to 1) getting her home to her respective families as soon as possible and 2) giving her at least SOME sort of time to cope and get thru it away from work. Anyone that has met her knows that she is extremely compassionate, and always comes through for those in need, and now she needs someone...I want to sell my car to help her.  So this ad is basically to sell my car, which isn't a brand new benz by any means, but its what i have to offer, and i'm selling it for $1000 less than its worth in the hopes someone will buy it and i can get her to her families ASAP and just give her room to deal with it.....she's fuckin devestated, understandably so.

I'm hesitant to post too many details about it here or a pic for obvious reasons of discretion towards  a potential buyer, but in short, its a jaguar, 130,000 mileage, new battery, engine runs great, body looks great,   dub tires, custom rims, brand new system custom installed just months ago, ....i freggin love this car, ive put a lot into it to keep it beautiful, and i hope whoever buys it will do the same.  I'm selling it for $2500....
email me at [email protected]  about the car. I'm trying to keep my phone line clear aside from work so email is appreciated.
I'm with her and will be throughout, and she wants to thank everyone for the expressions of support and condolences because the people on this board mean a lot to her, but also asks that for the next few days, maybe show it on this thread or PM so she can focus on giving her time to her loved ones on either side as they make arrangements. Thank u for taking a moment to even read this, and understanding it is done in the spirit of helping a friend, nothing more.

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What a Good Neighbor and Great Friend you are to Amsterdam!

My Heart goes out to Amsterdam and her Family at this time in makeing heavy decissions and my Highest Condolences go out to her!

I woudln't want to part with that beauitful Jag! It was nice of you to offer Mae, and Thank God it looks like the Boys are going to come through so you don't have to.

It is good to Have a Tight Knit Family in times like this to Help out in anyway.

In need of Traveling it is always good to have a Pilot ior Two up your sleve or any Airline empoyee that has seniority also......any Airline Workers out there just in case or even some TRAVEL AWARDS..
Just a thought!

I wish all well and God Bless, Its Great to have GOOD PEOPLE!

My thoughts are certainly with her right now.   I would never wish that amount of pain on anyone and I can only say that I know from experience that time can help to heal all things, even if the pain seems insurmountable as the seconds tick by.

Anyone would be lucky to have a friend like you right now.

Pay Pal...Green Dot...whatever...people seem to want to help. If you are willing to coordinate it, let them know what to do.

It was just a few days ago that she and I were on the phone.  Sad how things can turn around in a blink of an eye.  If there's ever a need or request, let me know.

...pass the hat instead.  Never met her but she seems to a prominant contributor here and that buys her enough credibility for me to toss in a small amount.  This isn't a hobby for paupers, I doubt many of us are hurting.  I'm in for $200, maybe an improtu M&G this week to collect contributions?  Alternately, QueenBee, if you're near the west side I could meet for a quick lunch and drop you some cash.

Considering what she contributes to thsi site, I think it appropriate to suggest we contribute the $ - surely between 25 or 50 of us $2500 is not that much.   I've never met either of these ladies and don't know that I ever will, but nonetheless I'd put the first $100 in.  PM me if you like.  This, to me just feels like the right thing to do.

....things are just that, things. But people are people and there comes a time to be human amongst the fantasy, and this is one of those times. LA is such a lonely place, when i read this it made me cry because i wasn't sure how people would react to it and this has been a really emotional couple days for us both, we've both just broken down a few times, and i know at the end of the day, we just want to know that someone is there and loves us, the real us. I was widowed at 24, my husband was the best man i ever knew and i still miss him. His absence means more than some peoples presence, and i know that pain in a real level and i just want to help her. I haven't left her side, she's hurting right now, but she's trying damn hard to hold together and help her family make decisions on BOTH sides.....its surreal.  Beat poet, i think she would be touched if you called to check in with her, she has a lot of respect and admiration for you, i think it would mean a lot to her.  I know all of your gestures are touching her heart right now, and she needs that. We all do......more than we realize at times

I would like to contribute.

I know Amsterdam and she is a wonderful person who certainly needs something positive to happen in her life right about now.

Thank you Mae for letting us know about the situation.

Never met either lady, probably never will, but Amsterdam has been a contributor to these posts and an UPBEAT person for a while.  Put me down for $250.oo.  RT

I think you go to a bank and set up an account. You'll get an account number and you can publish it here, so donors can send their donation through this account of this banks name and address. You may have to use a real name
to open this account or bank can suggest other ways if this is a problem. Hope this helps.

I met Amsterdam at the last M&G for a minute or two and she was a sweetheart. We can't make the pain go away but we can at least allow her to focus on getting thru this. Let me know how I can help.

i dont know amsterdam or you, but love the love this community gives, her posts every week make my day, im in for 500.00 just let me know where, i deal in cash only, so if you want to meet or where i can send it, or make it into a money order at the bank just need a name and address, my heart goes out to this lovely lady who makes all us gents smile each week.

I agree. I`m in but set up a way for us to give you the contribution

I really dont know where to begin... All I can think of is how much your support is comforting. You have no idea how much this means to me. I have so much running through my head. I lost an uncle on each side of the family. Both in different places. So I am trying to help plan services, and dont know where to begin with everyone. I feel as if i need to do it all. I am trying to be very calm and not be weak. I am only one person, but I have the strength to of a warrior. Especially, when it comes to times like this. So surreal. How things change so quickly.. I am so thankful to have Mae as a friend, as well as the rest of you. We all need eachother and know that I am always here for anyone. Thank you so much for all of your support...  I could not have done it with out her.

Amsterdam

Delighted to reciprocate. Please let me know where to send $200.  

O2

Please count me in as well.
I am heading towards the east coast now, but if you post a way to send you something, I will gladly help.

Balboa

I just woke up from the most sound sleep i ever had in my life i think, jeebus cripes folks, forgive me if i"m still a lil foggy,and bear with me here....

I admit, i really do not know all that much about ways to setup donation accounts but am still more than happy to do so.....If anyone has any suggestions, Im eager to take them!

A couple suggestions:

I like cash for its anonymity, it would be great if someone would organize a meet and greet in the next day or two for those of us so inclined.

For folks that can't or won't attend, PayPal could be an alternative. Warning that many people have an issue with that service for a variety of reasons but that's likely the quickest easiest service you'll be able to set up for remote folks. I'd suggest creating a new email with one of the free providers and a new PayPal account. You'll need to verify it with a credit card and/or bank account transaction to get direct cash out of it. Read the agreement closely in terms of how and when you'll be able to withdraw. I believe they also have specific accounts for charity/donation that may minimize or remove transaction fees too. And of course, once this is over don't use that account fr business (PayPal has been known to freeze accounts when used for prod/services they don't like)

Just my thoughts. Let us know what you decide so we can start sending.
BravoTango

But everyone here has got your back! This is why I love TER so much, the comunity is just amazing! All of you ladies and gents truly rock!! XOXXO

ok guys,

I'm trying to set something up for tomorrow, like a lunch and dinner drive where folks can swing thru, grab a bite and donate however they like......i have a paypal and greendot, but the paypal has my real name attached so greendot is always better. Im putting everything together now and trying to deal with about a million things all at once so if anyone feels like either cloning me or just assisting me on this one, please come on over, lol.

I will put this thing together in the next few hours and there should be info by tonight about tomorrows drive....stay tuned


godpeed mr bond....this provider will self destruct in 5, 4, 3, 2, ....blammo

Why not just set one up and we can all just good old fashion send some cash in envelops and stamps?

...please let us know when/where.  That would likely be deserving of a new thread now that this one has gone in a few directions.

Or, maybe overthinking here given the subject but perhaps when/where should be communicated by PM much like the M&Gs.  thoughts?

I'll kick in a hundred from out here in Vegas if you can figure a way for me to get it to you or Amsterdam, sweetheart.

Don't sell the car! You can still be kind to others without hurting your own situation, you know. Good intentions, but look after yourself and family too, okay?

Alan

First of all I want all of you to know that the concern alone is enough. I am very greatful to have people with genuine concern around me. The best way to donate or just to talk to me is to call me or pm which ever is more convient for you. I am so lost for words because I had no idea that people realy knew who I was. It is far and few in this world that people actually have genuine concern, and compassion for people. Again you are all in my thoughts and heart as well. It is way better to have personal contact instead of 3rd party contact. I want to hear from all of you and it would make me feel better. I dont know how much to thank you. I am just speechless.. Thank you.

Amsterdam

I cant even begin to thank all of you enough for your support. I am still at loss for words. All I can say is that as long as we have eachother is all that matters. You are all so wonderful. Again, thank you for the comfort. I dont know what I would have done w out you.

Amsterdam

Can you give any more details about the car, I have a relative looking for an older model jaguar.

What is the year and model?
Is it a clean title or salvage title?
Is it currently registered and do you have the pink title in hand?

A White 1996 Jaguar XJ6 with 130K miles for 2.5K?

My relative is interested, provided it is registered (apparently the last car she got wasn't registered and it turned out to be a lemon.

Let me know, she has the cash in hand and anxious to get a car....hope to hear from you

unless there is something rotten in Amster...I mean Denmark

Sweetie my best friend was trying to sell her car to help me out with a tragic family emergency. I didn't want her to sell her car at all. But if I were in her shoes I would of done the same. However, something else happened. This amazing community of people came together and came up with a solution. Something that was so genuine and heart felt. They took this situation of misfortune and turned it into a blessing that was unexpected. Not only were they looking one, but both of our positions. They banned together to help her keep her car, as well as help me get to my family. That is something that you rarely see anymore. I know for a fact I would never turn my back on anyone in a time of need. Escpecially in this community of wonderful people. They were able to kill two birds with one stone. I hope that everyone knows just how much it has touched my heart in so many ways. Just the genuine concern, and kind words helped more than anything. I wamt to say thank you to Mae and all of the fellow members of this community for showing that they care. Again I am lost for words....

Amsterdam