have a nagging intuition that my girlfriend has worked as a high-end escort and might even still do so on occasion. There is no conclusive evidence. However, everything taken together presents a strong circumstantial case.
I don't have anything personally or morally against the profession or the business in the general. My concern would be the level of deceit and not being able to trust her in the future.
Are there any thoughts as to how I could at least assuage my concerns? I have run all of her numbers through the search engine, a general profile of her, etc, and I've come up empty handed. I'm not really sure what else to do
Lol. I suppose I shouldn't have expected too many serious replies. Cheers. =0
Providers.
Vanilla is boring and lazy. Providers are warm. Send me her number and I will let you know.
Posted By: Tenoch1
I have a nagging intuition that my girlfriend has worked as a high-end escort and might even still do so on occasion. There is no conclusive evidence. However, everything taken together presents a strong circumstantial case.
I don't have anything personally or morally against the profession or the business in the general. My concern would be the level of deceit and not being able to trust her in the future.
Are there any thoughts as to how I could at least assuage my concerns? I have run all of her numbers through the search engine, a general profile of her, etc, and I've come up empty handed. I'm not really sure what else to do.
So you're posting on a board for hobbyists. You're "running" your GF's numbers behind her back. You're seeing patterns in her behavior that you associate--presumably based on experience--with being a provider. And you're worried about whether YOU can trust HER? The inmates are running the asylum.
She is having an affair with me and we are so much in love now that we are thinking about tieing the knot in Vegas next weekend. She was thinking about asking you to see if you want to be the best man!!!
I thinks bring up the general topic of high end escorts or whatever. Talk about an article in the news. Gauge her opinion. If she isn't an idiot, it's not hard to have a separate phone number and email for her previous business.
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You could also post her pic and let all of evaluate if we have seen her or not. 
Posted By: Tenoch1
I have a nagging intuition that my girlfriend has worked as a high-end escort and might even still do so on occasion. There is no conclusive evidence. However, everything taken together presents a strong circumstantial case.
I don't have anything personally or morally against the profession or the business in the general. My concern would be the level of deceit and not being able to trust her in the future.
Are there any thoughts as to how I could at least assuage my concerns? I have run all of her numbers through the search engine, a general profile of her, etc, and I've come up empty handed. I'm not really sure what else to do.
I think it is unreasonable for either side to expect monogamy from the other. So what is to trust?
After many years in the hobby and marriage I have learned a few things. There are all sorts of levels of love. Sex can be a part of love but does not define it. If you partner is Happy and content they do not look to stray from home. But if you are not meeting ALL of their needs you can not expect them out of some twisted idea of "trust" or morality not to fulfill those needs elsewhere.
It starts with communication and wanting to be with the other. As we age there are biological functions that may make sex undesirable for one of the parties, Just because one does not want sex should not be a requirement that the other can not have sex. Sex is a primal instinct. Perhaps you both need to look at what you want from the other in a relationship. If you think she is straying find out what she likes the most from it (money, excitement, adventure, weird sex..) . And if it something you can do then do it. If not and it still bothers you then move on you were not meant to be. It is all your decision not hers! So Whats the problem. Why are you wasting your time trying to find out. What will you do if the answer is not what you want
and yet you are here. Don’t you think this is a double standard?
relax ....
YOU SHOUID be proud of yourself she is giving YOU free what she charge for the others.... common!!!
SEE the good side of situation
you mention...... " everything taken together presents a strong circumstantial case."
your Suspicion on THAT... is because maybe you are Seeing ESCORTS too ???.. so? trust her ...hum..
anyway
have fun
Iife is really short
Of course it would probably kill me in about a week, because she's a force of nature, but what a way to go.
Trying to be serious. It's uncomfortable. I have a seen a few providers who are basically full time saying they go back to their boyfriend in the evenings and weekends. It's kind of a turn off unless I don't have too many extra feelings.
re: what Carla said, personally if I had a GF who is pretty and sensual enough to be a provider, I wouldn't be seeing providers anymore.
That said, my own logical nonjudgmental thought to your question would be to hire a professional detective/spy to help you get the answers you want
or weeding ring on her finger
see ......she may want be private provider
AND she gets great profit divorce in 10 years providing
got the idea??
WTF?!?! Dude, you have to be joking. You think that your girlfriend may have been a high-end escort. Yeah, so what? Do you really think that you are the only guy to fuck her - either in the past or in the future? If she is still working - how does it get in the way of your relationship (other of course than in your own head)?
I've dated ladies 'in the profession' prior to moving to CA. It takes a lot of communication and honesty. Just like any relationship.
First off you just need to ask her. She might think that it's funny and you'll both have a good laugh about it or she may in fact be still working and then you'll have to make a decision. You'll have two options .... You can let your imagination run wild and ruin any chance that the two of you could be together or you could just relax and enjoy it.
But if she is still working and you are a jealous type of guy - save yourself the grief and just break it off now.
