My question is this quite a bit of the people who post or review like to spend more than two hours with a girl, meet in a bar have dinner and all kinds of other activities. To me this constitutes more of a date or an affiair and affair is quite a bit different than a hobby session for pure sex. So for most people who hobby and are married or have a GF why would you want to have more of an affiar than just sex? Most guys just have issues with no sex at home, want variety, want fantasy sex they do do get at home or have a fetish, but an affair is a completely different animal. An affiair is emotional and involves other issues lacking, this is when your SO or GF cannot emotionally provide what is lacking, a little more intense than just sex. Many attached guys love there SO or GfF's and only stray for sex, so why would attached guys pay a lot of money to have a date or many dates with a provider that includes a regular date or what would be considerd an affair. That would mean the SO, GF is nor providing all your other needs, then why stay? Men crave sex and that is why this hobby exisits but the emotional side a bit different. Just curious why the all day sessions or regular dates that do not include sex as the main course.

along with funds can lead Johny up the wrong path. As long as someone is paying for services he can rationalize  his actions without ever having to deal with deep rooted issues, should he have a SO. However, for the working girl it's a payday that is both finacialy rewarding and less straineous than having to deal with several guys. Remember , you pay for time and not love, professional working girls are well trained in parting a fool from his money especially if the John is elderly. , lonely  and wealthy.  

I struck out on all three......I am sad now...

with just seeing rub and tuggers, in the golden era of Sensual Massage back at the turn of the century. That quickly changed when some of those tugs turned to deeper fun - it was a kind of seduction that I had no resistance against.

Then I decided I would try and see the gals once and only once...and move on. But after a couple years of that I was living with huge regret from not seeing some of the golden ones again, since gold is so damn hard to find.

At least for me, as I evolve as a mongerer, the qualities of gold is ever changing along with the times. And yet seeing these girls in a real girlfriend like setting would be breaking some kind of inner rule. I sometimes wish for and even unexpectedly experience some tender emotional moments, but it is so much more honest to keep things on a physical level, I think.

Especially since what ever gold we find in front of us is only after the gold in our pockets.... Right?